When you know, you know. But what gives it away that the person you’re dating is your soulmate and the person you’re going to marry? Seven women confess how they knew they’d found the loves of their lives.

“How did I know he was The One? Because he made it easy. He didn’t play games or make me guess. He was direct, fearless, and honest from the moment I met him. When it’s effortless, you know it’s right.” — Treva

“The moment I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with [fiancé] was when I realized that he never stopped doing little but meaningful gestures he did when we first started dating — even 6 years in. He never stopped telling me I was beautiful when I woke up in the morning. He never stopped planning date night every Friday. He never stopped taking me to weekend vacations when he knew I was stressed from work. He never stopped showering me with kisses, hugs and ‘it’s going to be OK’ talks when I have hard days. He never stopped the mid-day calls and texts just to say ‘I love you.’ All the little but meaningful gestures you think would stop after a few years into a relationship never did for me. And it gave me a nice little preview of what my life would be like if I spent it with him forever, and it looks pretty damn good!” — Jamie

“I found something wrong with every man I ever dated. He was too tall. He was too short. His wrists were too wide. Seriously, I knew that these weren’t make-it-or-break-it issues, but they were indicators that each was not the right person. So, I knew that my husband was The One when I couldn’t find anything wrong with him.” — Marie

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“I was set up on a blind date with my husband and I’m so glad I was, because if we had met on a dating app I may never have gone out with him. He’s 20 years older than me, with grown kids — and dating apps can be so limiting, because you only see people’s stats and not their real energy. We met for dinner, and literally the minute I walked through the door, I knew he was The One. There was something about his smile and the look in his eyes. We connected. We sat down for dinner and talked for four hours. Even with our age gap, we realized we had all the same things in common.” — Jamie

“A year after we met, we celebrated with a weekend away, and realized that we had never argued. This was so unusual that we knew something radically different was going on. Ten years later, it’s still like no other relationship we have ever had.” — Phil

“I knew he was The One because I felt completely safe, comfortable, and secure with him. We fit perfectly into one another’s lives. I felt like I had come home, like I was a ship that had been drifting for years and had finally found a safe harbor.” — Elaine

“My now-husband and I had been friends for years when we decided to date. This major step could be scary or strange for some but for us, it felt so right. As friends, we gave each other the utmost respect, support, trust, and genuinely wanted to make each other happy. All of these qualities served as foundational values in our relationship and because of this, I knew when we first started dating that this would be for the long haul.” — Ashley

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Baby number two may not have popped out yet, but Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher may already be planning on baby number three! Another adorable little Kunis/Kutcher lookalike running around? Yes, please!

Us Weekly reports that Kunis — who has been on the road promoting her new movie, Bad Moms — revealed to Ryan Seacrest on his radio show, On Air with Ryan Seacrest, that she and Kutcher will either have a big family or stop after baby number two. Keep going, Kunis! Keep going! We need more beautiful babies in this world!

“I’ve always said this, I think you know when your family is complete,” Kunis explained in the interview, “After we had Wyatt, the second that I gave birth, I was like, ‘I know that we need to have another baby. We both knew it, we just felt it.”

Kunis and Kutcher are already parents to their 21-month-old daughter, Wyatt, and announced last month that they are expecting baby number two. Though her mind may be on the newest member (and potential members!) of her family, Kunis admitted that she is still working on being a good role model for Wyatt — specifically by toning down the cursing.

“It’s so hard,” Kunis told Seacrest. “I try to work on it daily and my daughter is at a place where she’ll mimic the words that I say, so it didn’t really matter up until, like, two months ago when I said a certain word and she said it back.”

Though she may have a hard time keeping her potty mouth in check, Kunis revealed that she has a pretty realistic view on parenting, something she has in common with her upcoming movie.

“I think we as women put too much pressure on ourselves to have everything and look a certain way and act a certain way and it’s impossible,” Kunis said. “It actually is impossible. There’s no such thing as a perfect balance. I hope this movie, for lack of a better term, takes the piss out of it.”

She may not be a perfect mom, but swear words aside, Kunis is definitely one of the coolest, most down to Earth moms in the business. Now about this baby number three, Kunis….

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When your guests think of your wedding, a major part of their excitement will be the build up to the big event. Other than your everyday conversations, your stationery is going to really set the tone for your wedding — everything from the dress code and ambience to your wedding day colors will be conveyed prior to your wedding day by your stationery suite. As an Atlanta bride, there’s nobody that you can trust more than your local stationers to convey your exact message in the right way. Read on for some of our favorite local stationers from the Atlanta area that will make sure you’re getting the exact wedding suite you’ve been dreaming up since you first started your wedding Pinterest board.

Paper Daises
Focusing on clean, simple, beautiful design, the Paper Daisies team focuses on a minimalistic aesthetic.The team currently focuses on watercolor but is able to work with any design. Something to note: you do not have to sign your contract until you have had your consultation and have seen a first proof. Then, once you’re 100% satisfied and have decided to hire the Paper Daisies team, you will continue to work with the same designer to make sure that each element of the design is exactly as you intended. While Paper Daisies does work primarily from portfolio designs, their Poppy Gray line of design can be completely customized for your one-of-a-kind event. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Inkwell Designers
Inkwell Designers, while being local to the Atlanta area, is a stationery company that can connect you with calligraphers and artists from all over the nation — ensuring that your wedding suite is perfect, regardless of where you or your designer might live. In working with Inkwell, you’re able to select the “talent” that best fits your vision — who will then be your primary contact throughout the duration of your wedding planning process. Customized to exactly fit your wedding day style, the designers will work with everything from your tablecloth linens to pictures of the venue in order to create your one-of-a-kind suite. Once you fall in love with your wedding paper, Inkwell can add hand-lettered calligraphy to everything from chalkboard signs to wine glasses to create a cohesive theme for your entire big day.

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Tickled Ink
Working between Chattanooga, Tennessee and Atlanta, Georgia, the wonderful Emily of Tickled Ink will personally customize your stationery suite. With the ability and flexibility to create everything down to a personalized font, this stationery company takes customization to a new level. Emily will provide a quote based on what you’re looking to include in your wedding suite, however the consultation following is where the true fun will begin! Willing to work with any budget and style, Tickled Ink will be working with the stationer herself from concept design to actual delivery. Whether you prefer working together in-person, over the phone, or via email, the entire process will be tailored to your unique style, creating a wedding suite that will feel perfectly at home with the rest of your wedding aesthetic. Read real brides reviews here!

Simplyput
When you decide to work with Simplyput, your partnership will start with a thorough, two-hour consultation. In this time together, you will meet with your designer, share ideas back and forth, and decide what exactly you are looking for in a wedding suite. Typically focusing on letterpress, thermography, and engraving, Simplyput houses a team filled with trained graphic designers able to customize every element of your suite to match your wedding design to a tee. Ideal for the couple that desires invites that are unique and one-of-a-kind (but still want to keep with traditional invitation etiquette), Simplyput will ensure that your wedding day is portrayed exactly as you’ve picture since you were only old enough to be a flower girl. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Still need some invitation inspiration? Check out our Local Atlanta Vendors page!

Advice is a powerful thing. If you look closely at some of the most successful people, it’s rare that they’ve made it to where they are without heeding some well-advised tips from the wise businesspeople who helped mentor them along the way.

While we can’t offer you a personal mentor, we did take the time to ask several flourishing CEOs for their best piece of advice when it comes to paving a successful career path. Here’s what 11 CEOs had to say on killing it at your job.

Don’t Compare Yourself
“Focus on your own path, your own people and your own company. Don’t worry about what others are doing around you. If you believe in your market, team and product, you will ultimately succeed.” —Mareza Larizadeh, CEO of Pulsd

Don’t Forget to Have Fun
“While it’s important to be focused and work hard, it’s also important to have fun. Celebrate accomplishments with your team, and make sure everyone on your team is invested in the same outcomes for your business.” —Morris Levy, co-founder and CEO of The Yard, NYC’s Luxury Office Collective

Always Ask for What You Want
“The worst you can hear is no.” —Kerry Cooper, CEO of Choose Energy

Choose a Path You Enjoy
“Have fun. You have to love what you do. I work 12 hours a day, six days a week, but if you love what you’re doing and are having fun, then it is never work.” —Jonathan Fornaci, CEO of TruFusion

Take Action
“Don’t be afraid to fail; oftentimes, success is just on the other side of your fears. It’s better to make mistakes and learn from them so you know how to move forward than to get stuck and not take action. Remember to also keep evaluating and reflecting as you do so. Take leaps in the direction you want to go. Always stay true to who you are and what you stand for.” —Payal Kadaki, founder of ClassPass

Be Brave
“Focus on courage over confidence. So many people emphasize confidence, the feeling that you can do something, but the problem with confidence is that it’s fragile. Screw up or fail once or twice, and how confident can you be? And if all you do is put merit in that self belief, are you going to be open to being wrong or learning from experiences? But courage, the ability to do what you think is right, regardless of how you feel, is what you need to cultivate to make any progress in any part of life. Courage is what you’ll need whenever you face any challenge. Confidence will only fail you.” —John Turner, CEO and Founder of QuietKit

Select a Great Tribe
“Set aggressive goals, hustle hard and surround yourself with successful people who can guide you along the way.” —Jason Reid, CEO and Co-Founder of Giftagram

Be Friendly
“Make friends before you need them. Jobs and job leads can come from anywhere, so be nice to everyone along the way. I have had some of my best introductions from people in non-traditional ways. My hairdresser has clients who can be helpful, people who worked on our yard knew key people to connect me to. I met a terrific recruiter standing in line for the restroom at a conference. Always make a great impression. You just never know who can help and who they know.” —Paige Arnof-Fenn, founder and CEO of Mavens & Moguls

Don’t Avoid the Hard Stuff
“Always be upfront. If you have to deal with something, deal with it head on and right away. Make it a priority so it doesn’t drain you. We usually leave these things for the end of the day or last on our list, and the anticipation of what could go wrong can be overwhelming. Deal with issues as they come up in the most honest, upfront and urgent way.” —Rachel Charlupski, CEO of The Babysitting Company

Think Bigger
“Do something you feel passionate about. You can’t compete against people who love what they do if you don’t. Women need to think big. If it your own company, plan for higher sales, raise more money. If you work for someone else, ask for a bigger salary and the better title. We get closed out and we underachieve because we don’t think big enough” —Sarah Kugelman, founder and president of skyn ICELAND

Jump In
“Don’t wait for the perfect time to do anything in life, because that time will never come. If you have been thinking about doing anything in your life, whether it is to start your own business or to exercise, you should start now. A lot of people fall into the trap of waiting for that perfect time when everything is right to start. Unfortunately, that time will never come and they will be waiting forever. The only sign you need to start any activity is your own thoughts. If you have been thinking of starting, then that is the sign that you should start.” —Jesse Harrison, founder and CEO of Zeus Legal Funding

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Fresh-cut flowers make for beautiful wedding reception-table centerpieces, of course, but here’s an alternative you should definitely consider: potted plants. Not only are they eco-friendly (encourage guests to take them home!) but they’re likely more affordable than floral arrangements, as well. Here are some of our favorite ways to feature potted plants on your wedding tables.

Potted Plants (above): Herbs and plants potted in clean and chic vessels are modern way to decorate a reception table (don’t forget to add some fresh fruit for a bright pop of color!).

Concrete Pots: A pretty grouping of plants in different concrete urns and vases will give your dinner tables an elegant, English-garden feel.

Potted Succulents: If you’re up for DIY-ing your own centerpieces, plant a variety of succulents in small terra cotta pots and line them down the center of your reception tables.

Orchid: A simple potted orchid plant makes for a sculptural (and affordable!) centerpiece.

Ferns: Delicate ferns combined with candlelit lanterns create a lush and cozy setting for your reception.

Succulents and Candles: Have your potted-succulents centerpiece perform double-duty by adding a few taper candles, as well.

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It’s the first official communication you’re sharing with your wedding guests before your wedding day, so you want to be certain you do your save the dates the right way. Whether you plan on sending customized photo magnets, adorable postcards or to go green with digital save the dates, the general etiquette remains the same. Here’s what you need to know.

What to Include
Think short and simple when it comes to the information included on your save the date. Regardless of the format, if you stick to the “4W’s” (who (you and your fiancé), what (are getting married!) when (date and time), and where (city) — you’ll be providing all the information guests need to be able to ensure their availability for your celebration. Just don’t forget to add something that indicates “formal invitation to follow.”

In a modern twist, most couples are now including their wedding website (a fifth W!) on the save the date, where more details will be easily accessible including timelines, registries, bridal party information, and more.

When to Send
According to traditional etiquette guidelines for local weddings, these courtesy reminders should typically be signed, sealed and delivered around 6-8 months prior to the big day. For destination weddings, anywhere between 8-10 months is considered appropriate, as guests will potentially have to make travel arrangements, arrange childcare, professional accommodations, etc.

Who to Send to
Here’s where it can get a bit sticky. Etiquette suggests that your wedding guest list should be finalized prior to sending save the dates, and in a perfect world everyone you intend on inviting will receive a save the date.

For couples who believe in using a “B list”, where guest lists can fluctuate depending on budgets and RSVPs from the “A list”, save the dates can be tricky. If you don’t send one to everyone, and then couples get an invitation closer to the date, it’s a surefire way for them to know they weren’t on your original list. If this doesn’t matter to you, proceed as you see fit, however for couples wishing to stick to traditional etiquette, make a guest list, stick to it, and send them out to all invited. (Easier said than done, of course!)

Other couples opt to only send save the dates to their closest friends and family. This is also a great option for those with flexible guest lists, and is a conservative way to ensure those closest to you will, in fact, save the date. (After all, it’s the whole point!) The downside to this is that all other wedding guests may make prior commitments before receiving the traditional invitation.

Just be sure to keep in mind that whoever you send a save the date to must also receive a wedding invitation. It is unacceptable, in regards to etiquette and general politeness, to not follow through.

See More: 3 Things You Need to Know Before You Send Your Save-the-Date

Your honeymoon is bound to be the trip of a lifetime, regardless of your destination. In addition to the endless romantic memories you’ll be making with your new husband, many couples wish to capture memories in quality photographs, too. From the lightest weight starter options to high-tech DSLRs, check out our favorite cameras for honeymoon travel. You’ll never look at your iPhone camera the same.

Sony RX100
For amateur photographers looking for a great point and shoot camera, this is a great, compact option. At only 10.5 oz. and under $500, this camera model enables you to snap high-quality photos, even in the evenings. Added bonuses include an LCD view screen visible in bright sunlight, an easy to use dial, and the ability to change camera settings from the lens itself. (“DSC-RX100” 20.2 megapixel camera, $499, Sony available at Walmart)

Canon PowerShot S100
With a long zoom lens to ensure stunning shots from afar, and fairly compact in size and weight, this point and shoot features a three-inch LCD screen, video recording options, and a mode dial to control all camera functions from zoom, to focus, light allowance, etc. With quick operation time (2.3 seconds to start and shoot) you will always be prepared for all the unforgettable moments your trip is sure to provide. (“PowerShot S100” camera, $429.99, Canon)

Nikon D5500
For midlevel photo enthusiasts who want to opt for DSLR technology, the Nikon D5500 is a fantastic option that even features built in Wi-Fi — perfect or instantly sharing photos! With increased image and video quality, this model is a bit lighter than its competitors at a travel friendly 14.2 oz., and features a swiveling touchscreen, in-camera features, and effects, and more. (“D5500” DSLR camera, starting at $749.95, Nikon)

Canon EOS 6D
Should you go for a fuller sized professional DSLR camera, you won’t regret it — though your neck or back might on particularly long excursions. Providing stunning images, this full frame camera (with a mid-range price tag) features all the bells and whistles of a point and shoot digital camera, and beyond. Built in Wi-Fi and GPS, interchangeable lenses and the ability to use your phone to control the camera make this is a fantastic option for those looking for a quality professional camera at a reasonable price. (“EOS 6D” DSLR camera, $1,499.99, Canon available at Best Buy)

Nikon D810
The Big Kahuna of processional cameras, this full-frame model is considered to have a “tank-like” build and takes exceptional photos at rest, as well as action-capturing activities for adventure and sport seekers. While the average honeymooning couple should opt for lighter, more compact and budget friendly builds, this stand out camera is vetted by PC Magazine as their Editor’s Choice DSLR. Promising sharp and detailed photos, energy efficiency, full high definition and beyond, this camera is a standout, having also won the Imaging Resource Camera of the Year award for Overall Achievement. (“D810” HDSLR camera, starting at $2,799.95, Nikon)

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Sometimes, all it takes to meet your soul mate is a good wing woman — just ask Kate. “I met Brad on February 15, 2013, at a San Francisco dive bar. My girlfriend ‘accidentally’ bumped into him to give us an excuse to talk!” she remembers. And that little nudge worked wonders: One year later, on February 14, 2014, Brad proposed. “He’d planned a dinner date at one of our favorite restaurants, and on the way there he said we were making a pit stop in the Marin Headlands to take a photo,” Kate says. Although the San Francisco fog blocked the view of the Golden Gate Bridge, it didn’t stop Brad from getting down on one knee!

Brad and Kate gave themselves plenty of time to plan their wedding, deciding to wed on September 19, 2015. They spent a few months searching Northern California for the perfect venue, then realized the spot they were looking for had been under their noses all along: Brad’s parents’ home and vineyard in Lodi! “They have a large property with plenty of room for our 175 guests, multiple locations, gorgeous vineyards, and even an outdoor bar!” says the bride. What more could a California couple ask for? They spent over a year designing their outdoor wedding, dreaming up what they dubbed a vineyard ballroom aesthetic, and letting casual elegance inspire every detail. The soft, natural celebration (with wine made right on the family vineyard, of course!) was welcoming and comfortable, exactly what the bride and groom envisioned. Let their laid-back style inspire your big day, photographed by K. Stone Photography.

“We loved having the freedom to design exactly the day we wanted, with no restrictions on time or space,” says Kate of her in-laws’ vineyard. The classic invitation was a perfect match for Kate’s elegant bridal style. She opted for a tulle ballgown with a beaded bodice — and a miniature version for her flower girl!

The practical bride didn’t sacrifice her footwear’s style, choosing sparkling Jimmy Choo wedges for the outdoor celebration.

“When I put on my Monique Lhuillier wedding dress, it instantly felt like a part of me,” says Kate. “And Etta James’ ‘At Last’ started playing in the store at that exact moment. I took it as a sign!” She paired the tulle gown with a fingertip veil, soft curls, and a white and blush bouquet of roses and greenery. Her grandmother’s wedding ring was tied around the bouquet’s handle.

Brad had always pictured himself in a classic black tux, so choosing the attire for himself and his groomsmen was easy. His white rose boutonniere looked as though it were plucked right out of Kate’s bouquet. “Brad’s ring was his grandfather’s. I had it inscribed with ‘my love,’ and had the jeweler use the excess metal from when the band was re-sized to create a heart charm for Brad’s mom,” says Kate.

To both complement the groomsmen’s tuxedos and fit in with the warm weather and vineyard setting, Kate had her ‘maids wear iris-hued Donna Morgan frocks. Their bouquets also featured white roses, and were tied with trailing white ribbons.

Brad and Kate’s wooden altar was hand-crafted by the bride’s father, then draped with white fabric and white hydrangeas and roses. The ceremony program was written on a reclaimed window, a nod to the fact that you could see the ceremony spot from Brad’s childhood bedroom.

Kate and her father walked down the aisle to “Somewhere Over the Rainbow,” then she and Brad exchanged vows they’d written themselves. Says Kate, “I was expecting my dad to be emotional as he walked me down the aisle, but I was surprised when I got emotional myself! My dad was my rock and helped keep me calm.”

Seating assignments were also written on windowpanes, displayed on a table topped with fresh blooms and greenery.

The bride and groom truly did create a ballroom in the vineyard, with round tables topped with white linens and gold chargers. Each centerpiece combined hydrangeas and roses, all tucked into wooden boxes. The couple and their wedding party sat at a long head table, draped with a garland of greenery and roses.

For dinner, guests enjoyed an Italian menu of chicken picatta, pesto pasta, and Caesar salad, all served alongside a cabernet made by the couple and their families. “Over a year before the wedding, we harvested and pressed the grapes, then aged the wine in French oak. A year later, we hosted a bottling party, with family members bottling, labeling, and everyone drinking!” says the bride. They named the wine Nine Nineteen, after the couple’s wedding date, and gave each guest a bottle to take home at the end of the evening.

For dessert, Brad and Kate served their favorite flavor of cake: Funfetti! The cake was frosted with white buttercream and topped with fresh roses. They also offered a variety of cupcakes, and Kate’s grandmother made her famous Scottish shortbread cookies.

The flower girl nearly stole the show, twirling around the dance floor in ballet slippers as a nod to Kate’s former life as a classically-trained dancer. Kate and Brad danced to “Angel” by Jack Johnson, then all the guests hit the dance floor. “It was one of the best dance parties I’ve ever been to,” says the bride. “I don’t think anyone was in their seat all night — even my 92-year-old grandmother was out there!”

The bride’s advice is to trust your instinct. “Stick to your vision. There are so many ideas out there, so pick and choose the ones that fit into your overall design. No one will notice if something is missing or didn’t work the way you wanted it to, so don’t sweat it and enjoy every second!”

Ceremony & Reception Venue: Private Estate || Month-of Coordinator: Katie Rebecca || Bride’s Wedding Dress: Monique Lhuillier || Shoes: Jimmy Choo || Jewelry: Kate Spade || Hair & Makeup: The Spa at Wine & Roses || Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Donna Morgan || Groom & Groomsmen’s Attire: Calvin Klein || Wedding Bands: May’s Jewelers || Florist: Blossoms by Lisa || Invitations & Paper Goods: Wedding Paper Divas || Guest Book: Artifact Uprising || Music: Anderson Entertainment || Catering: Angelina’s Spaghetti House || Cake: Frosted Flour || Rentals: Giuffra’s || Photographer: K. Stone Photography

Can’t get enough of this beautiful celebration? Then you’ll love watching another couple’s vineyard wedding in the video below.

When you’re looking for ways to include family members beyond adding them to your wedding party, selecting them as ushers is often a great choice. The only question? What exactly an usher does! Before you ask someone to be an usher at your ceremony, our experts break down the duties and responsibilities of a wedding usher so you can make sure they’re up for the job.

Ushers are usually male friends or relatives of the bride or groom, in their late teens up to the couple’s peers, though you can definitely tap a female friend or your favorite uncle to carry out the duties, instead. Make sure to pick someone who is outgoing and friendly, as ushers get a lot of face time with guests — meaning it isn’t the right job for someone who’s on the shy side.

Ushers’ biggest jobs are to direct and seat guests at the ceremony. At a more formal celebration, they will escort guests to their seats, offering an arm to female guests (especially those that are arriving alone) and leading male guests or couples to the next available seat. Ask if they are guests of the bride or the groom (if the couple will be having their own guests sit on their respective side) or, if seating is open, ask if the guests have a preference of which side they sit on. In a less formal setting, ushers will inform guests which side of the aisle to sit on, and if any rows are reserved. They’re also the ones to make sure guests walk around the outside of the rows instead of down your aisle carefully covered with petals!

If ushers aren’t escorting guests to their seats but merely offering guidance (for example, letting guests know that the first two rows are reserved for family), they may also hand out ceremony programs as guests arrive. Otherwise, another attendant should be assigned with the task.

Depending on an usher’s relationship with the couple, they may also escort family members such as grandparents to their seats, either before the ceremony begins or as part of the processional. Ushers may also be asked to remain at the back of the venue during the ceremony to seat any guests who arrive once the ceremony has begun.

The most important thing for an usher to do is to pay close attention during the rehearsal and ask questions if there is something that is unclear. Make sure you know exactly how the couple and their wedding planner would like guests to be seated so you can perform your duties fully on the big day!

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Jinger Duggar is well on her way to becoming a Mrs.! Earlier this week, we announced that the 19 Kids and Counting alum is engaged to her soccer-playing sweetheart, Jeremy Vuolo, after only a one-month-long official courtship. But before we start envisioning her wedding dress pick (Will it be a unique blush hue like big sister Jessa’s?) or what kind of wedding ‘do the bride will rock down the aisle (Is it possible for all that impossibly long hair to even fit into an updo?), we gotta wonder what the parents of the bride-to-be think of their daughter’s super short courtship and whirlwind engagement. Have Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar given Vuolo their stamp of approval? Or will the ultra-conservative parents put an end to the happy couple’s presumed 19 kids before they even get started?

Jinger, 22, announced that she was being courted — the Duggar family-approved form of dating that consists of no sex, no kissing, chaperoned dates, and side-hugs only — by Vuolo just last month after meeting the pro athlete in May 2015 and attending a mission trip together. Now appearing in the TLC spin-off Counting On, the reality star shared the celebratory news that her beau popped the question earlier this week, stating, “I cannot believe that I’m engaged to the man of my dreams, the man that I’ve asked God for. God is so kind and I just cannot believe it!” But can her parents? After all, they’ve only been courting for a month. Was that enough time for Jim Bob to get to know his future son-in-law during those chaperoned dates?

Turns out, the answer is yes! According to a blog post written by Jim Bob and Michelle, they are over-the-moon about their daughter’s engagement. “What a joy for us to announce that Jeremy and Jinger are now engaged to be married!” the pair wrote. “Wow, where did the time go? Sweet little Jinger is now grown up and engaged! We are so happy for them both.” Sounds like this father and mother of the bride are settling into their roles quite nicely!

And they aren’t the only members of the massive clan to be ecstatic over the engagement news! Jinger’s older sisters, Jill and Jessa, also passed along their congratulations via Youtube. Jill, her hubby, and their baby boy are currently serving on a mission trip overseas, but still sent their best wishes to the future bride and groom in a short and sweet video. “We’re so excited for, y’all!” Jill said, smiling. Meanwhile, Jessa and her husband, Ben Seewald, did the same, explaining how thrilled they are that their respective best friends (The groom-to-be was originally besties with Seewald before beginning to pursue his sister-in-law!) are now best friends themselves.

Phew! That’s a relief. Now better get started on those 19 kids! (After the wedding, of course…)

So excited about this next chapter in our life together?????? #engaged

A photo posted by Jinger Nicole (@jinger.n.duggar) on Jul 26, 2016 at 8:16am PDT

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