BRIDES Chicago: 6 Delicious Gluten-Free Cake Options in the Windy City

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Gluten-free brides rejoice! You can have your wedding cake, and eat it too. These six Chicago bakeries are set to handle your allergies (or diet preferences, whatever the case may be) with cakes so delicious guests won’t be able to taste the difference.

Defloured
The bakery specializes in old-fashioned desserts for the gluten-free crowd. Think: seven-layer bars, oatmeal chocolate chip cookies, and whoopee pies. While those are welcome additions to deck out your sweets table, Defloured also makes standalone wedding cakes with their partners at Flour Cake and Pastry. Don’t be fooled by the name—these cakes are still 100 percent gluten free.

Sweet Ali’s Gluten Free Bakery
The bakery calls the western suburb of Hinsdale home. There, you’ll find gluten-free everything, from sweet cookies and cupcakes to savory pizza and quiche. Of course, you made the trek for the wedding sweets. Once you select your cake flavor, filling, and topping during your custom cake tasting, a deliciously decorated dessert that captures your taste and wedding style will be in the making. Read real brides’ reviews here!

West Town Bakery
West Town Bakery prides itself on baking with local, organic, and sustainable ingredients. Another plus: They’re allergy-friendly and can skip gluten, nuts, and sugar (among other additives) if gluten is only one of your dietary restrictions. The master bakers can create traditional tiered wedding cakes as well as those with more intricate designs (rosette cake with ombré icing, anyone?). For proof of their baking chops, swing by the West Town location or the outpost tucked inside River North’s Acme Hotel to taste their signature cakeballs. Read real brides’ reviews here!

See More: Create the Most Elaborate Dessert Table With One of These Chicago Sweets Bakeries

Vanille
Vanille, Chicago’s French-inspired bakery, may be best known for its macaroons, but its cakes shouldn’t be overlooked. The cake designers put an emphasis on understanding your wedding-day style and will invite you to their dedicated tasting salon to discuss the day’s themes, colors, and décor as you taste miniature versions of their cakes. Using classic European baking techniques, the cake designers will then create a gluten-free white buttercream or chocolate cake for your big day. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Elysia Root Cakes
They say the eye eats first, and Elysia Root Cakes knows how to master first impressions. Her portfolio runs the gamut from glamorous black-and-gold cakes to modern ones with geometric designs. Be warned: The cakes can be made gluten free, but cross contamination may occur since all cakes are baked in the same kitchen. If your allergy is severe, stick to another option on the list, since nothing would be worse than being sick on your wedding night. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Swirlz Cupcakes
The Lincoln Park bakery is credited with helping set off the Chicago cupcake trend. But if you have an expansive dessert lineup already, think beyond the cupcakes. Consider adding one of their gluten-free cakes to satisfy your sweet tooth and to capture the quintessential cake-cutting photo opp. The bakery’s eight-inch cake serves up to 15 and has four layers of moist, gluten-free cake and three layers of creamy frosty. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Still haven’t found your dream baker? Look at more local bakeries on our Local Vendors page!

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TBT: Jessica Simpson's Weddings in Photos and Video

Jessica Simpson celebrated her 36th birthday last weekend! Of course, we have weddings on the brain, so that got us thinking of her two incredibly over-the-top, fairytale-like walks down the aisle. The mom of two has gone from pop star to business mogul, but her wedding tastes have kind of remained the same. Come along as we make our way down memory lane and relive Jessica Simpson’s two weddings.

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Nick Lachey, October 26, 2002
Ah, 2002, the good old days — it was the age of blonde pop stars and boy bands, a simpler time, before Instagram, and Snapchat, a time before Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey were the greatest reality TV couple of our time. But before the pop star couple, who met at a Christmas parade when Simpson was just 18 (Nick proposed 4 years later with a pear-shaped diamond ring), would go on to chronicle their love on their MTV reality show Newlyweds, they had to get, well, wed. On October 26, 2002, 350 guests gathered to see self-proclaimed virgin Simpson tie the knot to 90 Degrees frontman Lachey, and the rest is reality TV history.

With the help of celebrity wedding planner Mindy Weiss (Jess liked her so much she used her twice, more on that later), Simpson and Lachey said their “I Dos” in front of 350 guests at the Riverbend Church in Austin, Texas in a 40 minute ceremony. The Vera Wang-clad bride (cascading waves courtesy of her mane man Ken Paves) walked down a rose-covered aisle with dad Joe Simpson. With hundreds of candles and pink roses decorating the church, the ceremony had a fairy tale quality. The musical couple had written songs for each other — his called “My Love,” hers called “My Everything” — which their friends (aka Nick’s 98 degrees bandmates) performed at the altar.

An estimated 30,000 roses filled the ballroom at Barton Creek Resort and Spa where the newlyweds held their reception. They spared no expense with a lavish menu, a five-tier cake, carrot cake, red velvet cake, pound cake, and a chocolate groom’s cake decorated with a Cincinnati bear claw. For the first dance the couple chose “Crazy Love” (a bit of foreshadowing?), and later serenaded each other with the same songs performed at the reception — lucky guests got to take home a CD recording of the songs as favors.

Three seasons of Newlyweds: Nick and Jessica, and one “Chicken of the Sea” debate heard round the world later, Simpson and Lachey would call it quits in 2005.

Eric Johnson, July 5, 2014

Simpson’s come a long way since Newlyweds — with a bustling fashion empire that won’t quit growing, these days she’s more mogul than pop star. So, it’s no surprise that the blonde bombshell would go all out for her second wedding to long-time love, footballer Eric Johnson — father of her two children Maxwell and Ace. After all, the couple was engaged for 4 years before finally deciding to say “I Do.”

The adorable couple made it official in a Great Expectations (the Gwyneth Paltrow movie, not the book…) inspired event. “She really wanted to have that feeling in the movie when they’re dancing,” celeb planner Weiss told People.

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Of course the bride had to shine — and she did just that in a glowing custom-made golden Carolina Herrera gown, and $750,000 worth of Neil Lane jewelry. The handsome groom also went the custom route in a gray John Varvatos tux.

And Simpson might just have pioneered the mismatched bridesmaid dress trend. “I personally can’t have all of my girls in the same dress,” Simpson said to People. Nicole Chavez, Simpson’s stylist and a bridesmaid, chose looks for the bridal party by Marchesa, Jason Wu and Temperley, Carmen Marc Valvo and Herrera. “I’m a bridesmaid and I’m styling this entire production,” she told People.

The celebration was all about family for the couple with their children, siblings and parents participating in the festivities. From People‘s video you can tell guests hit the dance floor all night and the Simpson girls were the hit of the party. The fun celebration featured a Southern-inspired buffet and a pie bar (yes, a pie bar!), plus patriotic sparklers, a photo booth, and games for the kids.

The estimated cost of the 4-day Fourth of July extravaganza? $1.4 million.

If the couple’s Instagram PDA is any indication, things are going strong in the Johnson household.

Hilton Los Cabos Beach & Golf Resort Marries Beachside Accommodations With Wedding Programming

Hilton Los Cabos Beach & Golf Resort announced today a new, all-inclusive bridal package for couples seeking a picturesque Cabo destination wedding and innovative wedding programming. The multi-million dollar renovated resort has the ability to host celebrations ranging from intimate weddings to large-scale receptions at its eight wedding venues, including five terraces, two ballrooms and a vast white-sand beach that can hold up to 1,200 guests. With its “One Wedding Per Day” policy, Hilton Los Cabos promises brides-and grooms-to-be that their wedding is the only nuptial event taking place on their special day, guaranteeing the full attention of the wedding event team.

5 Bridesmaid Jewelry Gift Ideas for Your Best Girls

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There aren’t enough words to express the appreciation and love you have for your bridesmaids, but luckily, there are gorgeous bridesmaids gifts that can help you do the talking. While there are endless ways to thank your gals (or guys) for standing by your side on your big day, nothing is quite as timeless as an elegant necklace or a classic pair of earrings. That doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune, however. Here are five affordable pieces of jewelry that are as stunning as they are thoughtful.

These simple cubic zirconia eternity rings (above) are perfect if you’re looking for something a little more subtle. It’s guaranteed to become a staple in your bridesmaids’ everyday jewelry game. (Candice Shimmer Ring, $50, Gorjana)

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Express your gratitude with a sweet affirmation stamped on a silver, gold, or rose gold Mantraband. With over 150 different messages to choose from, we’re sure you’ll be able to find the perfect one for your bridesmaids. (Mantrabands, $25 each, Mantraband)

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Classic crystal studs are always in style, but if your girls are anything but basic, they’ll appreciate these glitter-tinged earrings from Kate Spade. Feeling even more playful? They come in sparkly hot pink and glitzy turquoise. Go wild! (Small square studs, $38, Kate Spade)

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If you want your bridesmaids to match, but also want to personalize their pieces, consider giving each of them a dainty crystal necklace from LA-based jewelers LVL. They come in fifteen different colored gemstones, all with different energies. Mix them for a unique, personalized look or give them the same ones to match their dresses. (Feel the Love LVL Gemstone Necklace, $55, LVL Collective)

headband

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It’s not every day you get to wear jewelry in your hair, so why not mark the special occasion with an ornamented hair comb or headband. It’ll add a more sophisticated touch than a flower crown would, and will stay on your bridesmaids’ heads better, too, as they cut a rug on the dance floor. (Leaf Headband, $20, Cara available at Nordstrom)

See More: 3 Things to Remember When Choosing Your Wedding Jewelry

Yes Way, Rosé! 4 Rosé Cocktails Perfect for a Summer Wedding

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Warm summer days call for a cool drink, and there’s nothing more thirst-quenching than a chilled glass of rosé — or is there? Rosé on its own is fantastic, but when put in the hands of expert mixologists, it is transformed into a signature cocktail that’s sure to make your wedding a celebration to remember. We asked four cocktail experts to elevate this warm-weather libation to the next level. Could your new signature drink be on the list? Take a peek and find out!

Rosa Rosé
Adam Douglas of Peak Beverage put together a drink that’s light and totally refreshing. “Hendrick’s Gin has notes of cucumber, coriander, and citrus, which play well with the elderflower notes of St. Germain and the spicy fruit flavors of Garnacha,” he explains. “This is a great drink that’s somewhat acidic, a little vegetal, and has a beautiful pink color.”

Ingredients:
2 oz Garnacha (Spanish rosé)
1 oz Hendrick’s Gin
1/2 oz fresh lemon juice
1/2 oz St. Germain
2 dashes Peychaud’s Bitters
2 slices of cucumber

Muddle the cucumber slices in a shaker. Add the remaining ingredients and some ice, and shake to combine. Pour through a fine strainer into a large coupe glass, and garnish with a pick skewered through a cucumber slice and a rose petal.

Rosé Limonade
“Weddings are the perfect time to pop the cork on some bubbly,” says Trisha Antonsen, chief cocktail officer for alcohol delivery service Drizly.com. “Why not serve it to your guests in a new way?” Her rosé limonade recipe is light in alcohol but big on flavor, making it a delicious option for a hot summer day. “The blend of sparkling rosé and fresh lemonade, with a hint of floral lavender, makes this the perfect cocktail for sipping in the sun,” she says.

Ingredients:
4 oz brut rosé sparkling wine
4 oz fresh lemonade (see recipe below)
1/4 oz lavender simple syrup (see recipe below)
Fresh lemon slice

Fill a large Collins glass with small ice cubes. Pour in fresh lemonade, followed by the lavender simple syrup. Once settled, top with the rosé and garnish with a lemon slice. For a festive twist, freeze flower petals into the ice cubes.

Fresh Lemonade:
1 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice (approx. 5-6 regular sized lemons)
1 cup fine sugar
1/2 cup hot water
8 cups cold water

Combine hot water and sugar in a large container and stir to dissolve. Once completely dissolved, add lemon juice and 8 cups of cold water and stir until fully combined.
Refrigerate for up to 2 weeks.

Fresh Lavender Simple Syrup:
1 cup water
1 cup sugar
1 tablespoon fresh lavender

Combine sugar and water in a small saucepan and bring to a boil, stirring occasionally until sugar is completely dissolved. Once at a boil, remove from heat, add lavender, and steep for 10 minutes. Strain through a fine mesh strainer and let cool.

See more: A Quick Guide to Serving Rosé at Your Summer Wedding

Rosé Bouquet
One of the best things about rosé is that it’s such a crowd pleaser: Light enough for white wine lovers, but with a little complexity to tempt those who prefer red. “It’s also a great base for cocktails,” says Valentina Pulido of Bill Hansen Catering. “When choosing a rosé to use in cocktails, look for a bottle in a slightly lower price range that you would still enjoy drinking on its own.” For the Rosé Bouquet, she recommends a light and mineraly wine, such as a Grenache. “Notes of grapefruit and herbs make these wines perfect for this drink!” she explains.

Ingredients:
3 oz Rosé wine
2 oz ruby red grapefruit juice
1 oz gin
1/2 oz Lillet Blanc
1 sprig rosemary

Fill a highball glass with ice. Pour the ingredients over the ice, and stir to combine. Garnish with a grapefruit wedge and a sprig of rosemary.

Watermelon Rosé Mojito
For something extra light and refreshing, Luke Barr of The Barr Co. adds watermelon and mint to sparkling rosé for a twist on the classic mojito. “Even the light pink and green color scream ‘summer wedding cocktail,'” he says.

Ingredients:
1.5 oz white rum or vodka
1.5 oz Watermelon syrup (see recipe below)
1/2 lime, squeezed
Fresh mint leaves
Sparkling rosé

Add the liquor, watermelon syrup, lime juice, and mint to a shaker with ice. Shake vigorously to open up the mint and watermelon flavors. Strain into a wine glass with ice, then top with sparkling rosé. Garnish with a sprig of mint and a cucumber spear to stir.

Fresh Pressed Watermelon Syrup
1 cup fresh pressed watermelon juice
1 cup sugar
1/3 cup water

Combine in a saucepan and heat to dissolve the sugar. Let cool thoroughly.

4 Things Wedding Guests Absolutely Hate

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Wedding planners get an incredible amount of insight into what wedding guests don’t like simply by listening to what goes on around us during the wedding weekend. Even a well-planned wedding can be unpleasant if the couple doesn’t plan ahead for some necessary contingencies.

Certainly, every guest has a different opinion, but, in my professional experience, there seem to be four complaints that are the most common.

1. Long Wedding Ceremonies
Unless you’re abiding by a particular religious tradition that includes unavoidably long ceremonies, aim to keep the length of the actual wedding to no more than 20 minutes. That’s how long your guests will stay engaged and interested. And if it’s hot out, that’s how long they’ll sit sweating in the sunshine before they become slightly grumpy and a tad irritated. Longer wedding ceremonies are usually, well, longer, because of long-winded officiants. With the popularity of using a friend to marry you on the rise, brides and grooms risk subjecting their guests to lengthy anecdotes or readings from the officiant, rather than a concise blessing on their future marriage.

2. Problems at the Bar
In my professional experience, I don’t recommend cash bars at weddings, if for no other reason than many guests won’t expect that, or come prepared with money to buy their drinks. If you’ve invited them to a wedding, the hosts are expected to provide food and beverages for the duration of the event. When you can’t afford to host a full, open bar, I recommend offering a limited bar with only beer and wine. Also keep in mind that an understaffed bar can create long lines that distract guests’ attention away from the wedding festivities.

3. Dead Time Between Events
In my opinion, guests don’t like to attend an early wedding with a late reception, especially if they’re from out of town. This usually happens when the couple has to fit a certain time slot for the ceremony at their preferred venue, but they want an evening reception. Unfortunately, the downtime rarely gives guests enough time to go do something interesting, but it’s long enough that most people won’t want to sit around in their fancy clothes. That means guests go home and take off their wedding clothes, only to do it all again and hour later. It kind of wastes an entire day for your guests.

4. Bad Performance Art
Nobody likes to watch an intoxicated, off-key wedding guest belting out a song on the microphone at the reception. It’s not karaoke, it’s a wedding — and the audience is held captive no matter how awful it may be. Fight the urge to let a helpful guest sing you down the aisle, no matter how much they want to, if he or she isn’t a good singer. Warn the DJ — in advance — not to let anybody hijack the microphone for a “special” tribute. Save that stuff for the after-party.

See More: 7 Things Guests Go Bananas for at Weddings

Sandy Malone is the owner of Sandy Malone Weddings & Events and author of How to Plan Your Own Destination Wedding: Do-It-Yourself Tips from an Experienced Professional. Sandy is the star of TLC’s reality show Wedding Island, about her destination wedding planning company, Weddings in Vieques.

The Guide to Choosing a Honeymoon Location You'll Both Love

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Your honeymoon is, arguably, the most important trip you’ll take with your new spouse. It may be the first trip you’ve even taken together, and it just might be the biggest, most expensive trip the two of you will ever take. And that means that you might be putting a lot of pressure on yourselves to make it perfect. But before you pack your bags and board the plane, you need to figure out where to go. Whether you dream of white sand beaches or a luxury high-rise in the city, here’s how to narrow down the great big world of options and decide on a destination that will make both of your honeymoon dreams come true.

Set a budget
In a perfect world there would be no need to set a budget for the honeymoon (or the wedding), but the reality is that most couples have only a certain amount they can allocate for the trip. Whether that’s $500 or $5,000 or $15,000, figure out the max you are comfortable spending so that you’re both on the same page about what’s realistic. Neither person wants to find out that while they were expecting an over-water-bungalow-in-Fiji budget, the other is more comfortable budgeting for an Airbnb weekend.

Make a list of priorities
Maybe one of you wants beach relaxation but the other prefers a bustling city vibe. Perhaps one of you wants to relax in luxury and the other wants to go on an adventure. Even if you and your betrothed can agree on the kind of trip you want to have, sometimes it’s hard to find a place that ticks every box. Independently list out each of your top ten “musts” and see how they match up—do you both want the same kind of trip, or are your wishlists totally at odds? Together, narrow them down to a few of your top priorities (if they aren’t the same, give each person a set number of items on the list), which will help you start to narrow down the destinations to those that tick all, or the majority, of the boxes.

Want white sand beaches, clear water, hot weather, and a unique local culture that’s no more than a five-hour flight from the east coast? The Caribbean or Mexico is likely your best best. Prefer amazing food and wine, charming small towns, and a day or two on a beautiful coastline? In that case, someone in Europe (France, Italy, Spain, Greece….) might fit the bill. Want to go on a once-in-a-lifetime trip to somewhere totally exotic (and just about as far from home as you can get)? Perhaps a safari in South Africa, a cruise to Antarctica, or a road trip across Mongolia is more your speed.

Once you know your priorities, it’s easier to find places that meet them.

Think about how you want to spend your days
Couples often get hung up on the idea of a particular place. If you have your heart set on a destination or resort but you aren’t sure if you can swing it (due to time or budget), go back to your priority list, and think about how you want to spend your days.

Close your eyes and picture yourself on your honeymoon. Envision your perfect day. Are you wandering the cobbled streets of a small village, lounging by the infinity pool, or hiking along a rugged coastline? At the end of the day, are you eating dinner at a local restaurant, or dining by candlelight on your own private balcony? Is everything you need available onsite or from the resort staff so that you never have to leave the property, or do you want to venture out on car or by foot to explore your surroundings?

Thinking about exactly how you want to spend your days will help you and your spouse-to-be refine your choices a bit more, and you may find that things you thought were important aren’t quite as vital—or, on the contrary, that things you were ambivalent about are actually crucial to your enjoyment of the trip.

Consider the time of year, flight time and ticket cost
Once you have your choices narrowed down to a few options, consider the time of year, how long it will take you to get there, and the cost of your flights. If you’re looking at, for example, Greece, Thailand, and Hawaii for a beach vacation, and you’re planning to go in October, you might want to select Hawaii, as by October the temperatures in Greece will be cooler and many of the islands have limited service, and in Thailand, it will be rainy season (though this would make it less expensive).

Think about how much time you want to spend flying as well. If you have limited time off, you may want to choose a location that’s served by a direct flight so that you maximize your time in the destination. And think about how big a chunk the flight will take out of your overall budget. A flight to Southeast Asia will likely be more expensive than a flight to Mexico, but you can stay in relative luxury for much less money in places like Phuket and Bali vs Cancun or Puerta Vallarta. But if you only have five days, you’ll be able to spend more time enjoying yourself in Mexico vs wasting a few days flying to Thailand.

Compromise
Ideally, you and your future spouse are on the same page when it comes to your dream honeymoon; if not, consider it the first of many compromises you’ll make in your marriage. If you’re itching to explore the futuristic fashions of Tokyo but your betrothed wants the lush tranquility of Maui, consider a stopover in Hawaii enroute to Japan. If your fiancé prefers adventure activities but you just want to lay on the beach, pick a place that offers both and make a patch to alternate days of activity and relaxation. In the end, you’ll have a great time and you’ll both make the other happy—and what better way is there to start your new life together?

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Justin Theroux Shares 'Woman Crush Wednesday' Photo of Jennifer Aniston Following Her Moving Essay

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Justin Theroux just won the “most supportive husband” award thanks to a heart-warming Instagram post he shared of his wife, Jennifer Aniston, for ‘Woman Crush Wednesday.’

One day after Aniston’s powerful personal essay “For the Record” went viral, Theroux posted a black and white photo of her sitting on what looks like the floor of a bowling alley and captioned the photo “Here is just one of the reasons why,” with a link to her essay and the tag “gogirl.” (Husbands of the world, take note!) See the Instagram below.

Aniston’s personal essay, which she wrote for The Huffington Post, addressed all of the vicious rumors she has been a victim of for years thanks to the tabloids, which have been known to claim that she was desperate for a husband, pregnant, trying to get pregnant, or amazingly all three at once. After decades of never commenting on the gossip, she penned the essay to address how damaging body shaming and scrutiny are for women and how sick she is of hearing these things directed at herself by the media every day. She urged people to stop helping fuel these negative narratives about women and to really pay attention to what is being written about women in the news.

“We are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child,” Aniston wrote. “We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies.”

The 47-year-old actress went on. “The way I am portrayed by the media is simply a reflection of how we see and portray women in general, measured against some warped standard of beauty,” she wrote.

We’ve got to admit, she’s our #WCW, too.

Aniston and Theroux met in 2007 on the set of Tropic Thunder but didn’t begin dating until 2011, eventually getting engaged a year later. Though they got engaged quickly after starting to date, they didn’t officially tie the knot until late last year. The private ceremony took place at their Bel Air home and was a total surprise to the 70 guests who thought they were celebrating Theroux’s 44th birthday, including Friends co-stars Lisa Kudrow and Courtney Cox (who was the Maid of Honor), Jimmy Kimmel (who officiated the ceremony), Ellen Degeneres, Chelsea Handler, and Sia.

See More: Jennifer Aniston Addresses Those Pregnancy Rumors Head On

This Stylist's Bel-Air Wedding Was Totally Chic

Though Noelle and Jermaine went to the same high school, they were three grades apart, so they didn’t meet until a mutual friend brought them together in 2006. They made up for lost time, though, and dated for almost 10 years before Jermaine planned an evening full of surprises for his longtime love. “He planned a surprise birthday dinner for me, inviting my parents and all of my friends,” she remembers. After dinner, when they pair got up to thank everyone for coming and cut into Noelle’s birthday cake, Jermaine got down on one knee. “The cake was actually a ring inside a box, with a message asking me to marry him!”

They got right to wedding planning, selecting October 11, 2015, as their date (just nine months after Jermaine popped the question!). With event planners Rock Paper Details by their side, they chose the Bel-Air Bay Club in Pacific Palisades, California, falling for the amazing views and gorgeous 1920s architecture. “I didn’t even look anywhere else. They had one Saturday available for the entire year, so we booked it!” says Noelle. She and the couple’s planners put together a chic all-white celebration, perfect for the wardrobe stylist bride, and accented the affair with Bordeaux, the groom’s favorite hue, and as much gold glitter as any bride could ever want. The result? A totally stunning bash overlooking the Pacific with 160 guests in attendance — take a look below, photographed by Sposto Photography.

Letterpress invitations were tucked into envelopes lined with handmade gold paper and closed with a wax seal, an idea dreamed up by the former Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver groom. “We wanted to give guests a hint of what was to come,” says Noelle.

With a rolodex full of couture contacts, Noelle sought out Australian designer Paolo Sebastian, who she has worked with to dress Giuliana Rancic, to design her completely custom wedding gown. “We got on a Skype call and I showed him hundreds of pictures I’d collected. We talked through fabrics, details, sleeves, and shapes, then narrowed down something that would look beautiful when it came together,” Noelle explains. The final product was an Italian silk and lace gown with a sheer lace applique bodice and a fishtail skirt. She paired the fashionably classic design with the perfect shoes to match: Christian Louboutin peep-toe t-straps with an elegant bow at the ankle. She dressed up the red soles with gold calligraphy reading “Maine’s Squeeze,” a nod to Jermaine’s nickname.

“I layered every finger with rings,” says Noelle, who’s a total jewelry-lover. The finishing touch was an all-white bouquet that combined phalaenopsis orchids with waxflowers for a lace-inspired look.

With ten bridesmaids in her entourage, Noelle knew classic was the way to go. She chose black Dupioni silk fit-and-flare gowns from Alvina Valenta, and each ‘maid carried a bouquet of polo roses, hydrangeas, and orchids.

Noelle wanted to do a first look, but Jermaine didn’t want to see her until she walked down the aisle, so they compromised with a “first touch.” They sat back-to-back and held hands, and were able to exchange gifts in private. Jermaine’s gift to Noelle was a huge surprise: Inside a box of white roses was a little gold box, and inside that box was a key to their new house!

The ceremony took place on the hotel’s Grand Lawn, overlooking the ocean. A flower-covered aisle led to an altar decorated with white orchids and hydrangeas, completed with a crystal chandelier.

Jermaine’s twin nieces served as flower girls in silk-and-tulle dresses and baby’s breath crowns. “We had no idea if they would make it down the aisle, but the second it was time for them go, they were great!” says the bride.

“Over the course of a few months, I collected quotes and sayings that I loved,” says Noelle of writing her own vows for the ceremony. “I promised myself I wouldn’t wait until the last minute, but there I was before our rehearsal, putting it all together!” One of the pair’s favorite lines comes from Jermaine’s vows to Noelle: “It was your smile that I first noticed, and it continues to brighten up my life each and every day.”

“We loved that Bel-Air Bay Club is so private, and that it was ours for the day,” says the bride of their secluded venue. They were able to wander the property without on-lookers, and have a few moments to themselves.

When Noelle was working with Paolo on her gown, she asked to lengthen the tulle train. We’d say the dramatic effect was totally worth it!

In the club’s library, escort cards were displayed on a table decorated with arrangements of white roses, orchids, hydrangeas, and lisianthus. Each card was finished with another Bordeaux-hued wax seal. “It was one of those things Jermaine really wanted, and our planners wove it through from the invitations to the reception,” Noelle says.

Dinner was served at tables topped with Venetian-lace linens and gold glitter vases. A mix of tall and low arrangements included roses, hydrangeas, orchids, and lisianthus, surrounded by dozens of candles. “We love candles, so each guest received a small candle in our signature scent as a favor,” Noelle explains.

While they sipped “Perf Pomegranate Martinis” and “Jameson Mules,” guests were treated to lump blue crab cakes and truffle grilled cheese sandwiches with roasted tomato soup. Inside, dinner included braised short ribs and miso-soy marinated Hawaiian onaga (red snapper). All the wine was selected by Noelle’s father, with a little help from Jermaine.

The bride and groom love candles so much, they had a candle wall in the reception space. “We had our initials made out of flowers and, instead of a guest book, asked guests to sign 30″ tall candles in our signature scent,” the bride says. As a plus, the glowing votives lent a romantic scent to the entire space.

While the design of the sleek white-and-gold wedding cake was all Noelle, the flavors were all Jermaine: He chose layers of cookies and cream, crème brûlée, carrot, and chocolate cakes. There was also a beignet bar, in honor of Noelle’s family’s New Orleans connection.

DJ Dense, the official DJ of the L.A. Clippers, had the dance floor packed all night, aside from a brief break where Jermaine and his fraternity brothers performed the Kappa Alpha Psi Sweetheart Dance. “It’s such a great fraternity tradition, and it meant so much for them to all be together again,” says Noelle.

The stylish bride has a few great planning tips up her sleeves. “Having creative wedding planners who understand your vision will go so far,” says Noelle. “And don’t choose your venue before you’ve hired them!”

Venue & Catering: Bel-Air Bay Club || Wedding Planner: Rock Paper Details || Bride’s Wedding Dress: Paolo Sebastian || Shoes: Christian Louboutin || Jewelry: Shay Fine Jewelry || Hair: Maisha Oliver || Makeup: Felicia La Tour || Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Alvina Valenta || Groom’s Attire: Michael Ferrera || Engagement Ring & Wedding Bands: Jason of Beverly Hills || Floral Design: Rebelle Fleurs || Invitations & Paper Goods: Woo Paperie || Calligraphy: Truly.Madly.Ink. || Music: DJ Dense || Cake: The French Confection Co. || Rentals: Dish Wish; La Tavola Fine Linen; Frolic & Sage || Guest Book & Favors: Cole Craig Organic Candles || Videographer: Images by Inda || Photographer: Sposto Photography

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5 Things to Keep in Mind When Planning an Office Bridal Shower

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When your office bestie gets engaged, talks of weddings can take over all the water cooler conversations as she begins to plan her big day, and spending so much time together on the job means you’ll definitely want to celebrate her big news! But when you start thinking about throwing her a bridal shower in conference room three, office politics definitely get involved. Whether she’s inviting the whole office or just a select few coworkers, our experts have a few tips for planning an office bridal shower that won’t ruffle any feathers.

First off, the guest list. While any other bridal shower invitation would only go out to guests who will be invited to the wedding, when you’re throwing a shower in the office, you have two options: To invite all the women in the office, or to make it a co-ed shower and invite everyone. In a larger business you could narrow this down to your team, but if it’s someone you work with regularly or share cubicle walls with, they must be invited — no picking and choosing.

When it comes to planning, loop in a few other coworkers to help with the logistics. It’s up to you how involved or simple the planning is: You could have a full-blown shower with games, snacks, and drinks, or if you don’t have an afternoon to spare, streamline it with just a few treats. Pick up a few decorations to dress up your drab meeting room, and don’t forget to send out an office-wide meeting invite! Great games for office showers, should you be planning a longer event, include the Clothespin Game (Pick a word guests aren’t allowed to say, and grab their clothespin if you catch them slipping. Whoever has the most clothespins at the end wins!) or a wedding-themed Mad Libs. Skip games that focus on knowing the bride and groom, since there’s a good chance many coworkers haven’t met the groom-to-be!

Cost is also an important factor to keep in mind. If your workplace has room in the budget, ask your supervisor if the party could be subsidized. Otherwise, the organizers should split the cost amongst themselves.

Gifting at an office shower can also be tricky, especially if some employees are invited to the wedding while others aren’t. You could purchase gifts on your own, or opt to all chip in on a bigger ticket item. That $200 food processor is much more affordable split 12 ways! And of course, pass around a card for everyone to sign.

And remember: Even if the bride-to-be in question isn’t your closest friend, if the office has hosted a shower for brides in the past, be sure to plan a shower for the new bride, too!

See more: Bridal Shower 101: Who is in Charge of Planning It?