You’re not a basic bride, so girls, don’t let your groom be anything but extraordinary on the big day either! Memories may fade, but pictures last forever, and you’ll both want to look back on those images one day thinking, “Dang, we looked good, didn’t we?” From finding the perfect fit to making all the little details count, here are 5 foolproof ways to ensure your groom’s wedding suit pops and is seriously on point, thanks to the CEO and co-founder of Brackish feather bow ties, Jeff Plotner.

1. Kick the neckwear up a notch
Whether you’re having a fancy black tie affair in a five-star hotel or an intimate bohemian wedding in an enchanted forest, a dapper bow tie (like Brackish’s Guinea or Original) that stands out from the crowd is a must. Don’t be afraid to play around with patterns and color, especially if you’re keeping the rest of your look fairly simple.

2. Put his feet first
Yes, grooms should splurge on a nice pair of shoes for the big day. Unlike you, he’ll actually be able to wear them again (to work) and get his money’s worth. “Plus, they’re not only crucial to his wedding look, but his overall comfort throughout the evening as well,” explains Plotner. Some of his favorite go-to brands for grooms include Edward’s Shoes and Billy Reid, especially for the Double Monk Straps, he says. While playful socks are fun peeking out in a few photos too, stick to the classics when it comes to wedding footwear and let the shoe’s elegant details speak for themselves.

3. Focus on the right fit
He didn’t settle for you (duh), so he def shouldn’t settle for an ill-fitting suit. As Plotner points out, a properly-tailored suit will look good at every angle, and that’s what counts. Pick the garment that fits best in the chest and shoulders, he advises, as tailors can’t do much in that department. Don’t worry, a knowledgeable associate at a reputable store should be able to point your groom in the right direction. Also, have him pay special attention to the sleeve and pant length once he’s made his pick. “If you want a custom look without custom prices, consider additional tapering through the body of the suit, coat and legs of the pants,” recommends Plotner. “Modern details like side vents and flat-front pants should be a given, and for the true clothing connoisseur, working suit sleeve buttonholes are always a nice touch.”

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4. Make every detail count
Because it’s all in the details! Accent his look with a lapel pin or a pocket square for a subtle compliment to his suit or tux, suggests Plotner. “For example, our Plum Thicket Pins, which are often worn on the lapel, are created from wild plum thicket thorns that are foraged in the midlands of South Carolina, dried, and paired with hand selected feathers by our team of artisans.” Now, how’s that for unique?

5. Don’t hang the groomsmen out to dry
They’re a direct representation of your groom so you’ll want to make sure they’re dressed accordingly. For this reason, Plotner thinks rentals generally aren’t the best idea. “A black tux, navy or grey suit are traditional staples in every man’s wardrobe. Selecting one of these classic styles for the groomsmen to wear on the wedding day could potentially save them some dough or give them a good reason to make a stylish purchase with the future in mind.”

Wedding bells are ringing in the sports world! Serbian tennis star Ana Ivanovic and Manchester United midfielder Bastian Schweinsteiger, who is also the captain of the German national soccer team, married at Venice’s Palazzo Cavalli — the same location of George and Amal Clooney’s famous nuptials. And the photos of the pro athletes’ Italian wedding are just lovely.

The pro athlete couple just experienced their fair share of losses as of late — sports team losses, that is — so their nuptials came as much-needed happy celebrations for the two. Having just waived the white flag at the Wimbeldon tournament to Ekaterina Alexandrova, 28-year-old Ivanovic was defeated from the renown tennis tournament on June 27. Schweinsteiger, 30, had a similar experience during the Euro Cup semifinals when his Germany team lost to France.

Luckily for the newlyweds, their wedding brought a little joy into their lives following their career setbacks — and they tied the knot Tuesday morning at Palazzo Cavalli (also known as the Venice City Hall) in Italy. The bride wore a floor-length, ruffled column gown with a keyhole opening — designed by the brand Parker — that cost a whopping $298, according to WWD. This just goes to show that you don’t always need to spend a ton of money to seriously slay you big-day look even when you’re a celebrity or pro athlete (just ask Kelly Ripa). The stunning bride wore her hair down in a simple do, showing off her gorgeous locks in an understated, loose style, and she rocked a natural makeup look.

The groom wore a dark navy suit with a white button down and patterned pocket square (with no tie to be found!), and he donned a white boutonniere — to match his new wife’s white bouquet of roses. The two left the ceremony at Palazzo Cavalli beaming from ear to ear and then headed out to catch a boat ride to their reception, according to The Daily Mail (because when in Venice…).

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Well-wishers and tourists flocked to congratulate the couple as they walked to their getaway boat. Word on the street is that the couple kept their nuptials and location pretty hush-hush, only telling their guests to show up at the airport with little info besides the date and time to arrive.

The guest list for the reception is said to include Germany coach Joachim Low, Schweinsteiger’s teammate Thomas Muller, and Munich president Uli Hoeness. While their ceremony was small and consisted of mainly family members and close friends, many of their colleagues and friends took to social media to publicly share well-wishes. Football friend Robert Lewandowski wrote “Congratulations! Wishing you a marriage filled with love and happiness @AnaIvanovic & @BSchweinsteiger,” while the Women’s Tennis Association shared “Congrats to newlyweds @AnaIvanovic and @BSchweinsteiger” on Twitter. Lots of love and emojis for these newlyweds on the interwebs!

Congratulations! Wishing you a marriage filled with love and happiness @AnaIvanovic & @BSchweinsteiger pic.twitter.com/lBLskuJ2Ym

— Robert Lewandowski (@lewy_official) July 12, 2016

Congratulations, @BSchweinsteiger #wedding #venedig #esmuellert pic.twitter.com/ErJVnSk9V0

— Thomas M??ller (@esmuellert_) July 12, 2016

With Italian nuptials this chic and intricate, we can only imagine their honeymoon plans. Of course, we’re assuming they won’t be going to France for their first vacay stop. Definitely too soon for Schweinsteiger. Congrats, lovebirds! See more of their beautiful photos below.

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As soon as he slips that ring on your finger, you expect a crash of commentary in the form of well-wishes. But you don’t necessarily prepare for the barrage of questions that will inevitably come and annoy you. So get ready: Here are seven super-annoying questions most brides will here, and the best way to respond to each one.

1. Oh you’re getting married? When? I’ll put it on my calendar.
According to Amy Nichols, owner of Amy Nichols Special Events and co-founder of The Poppy Group, almost every couple will hear get this question from unassuming friends or coworkers expecting an invitation. “But the reality is, everyone in your life cannot be invited,” Nichols says. And because of that, it’s best not to indulge the questioner with a direct answer. Instead, Nichols says, consider saying something like, “We haven’t completely finalized the plans, but we’re thinking it’s going to be an intimate affair.”

2. How big is your ring?
Call it simple curiosity or seriously green with envy. But regardless of the motive, says Jaclyn Fisher, owner of Philadelphia-based Two Little Birds Planning, you’ll like be put on the spot about the size of your rock. “Whether you know the answer or not, it’s easy to feel like you and your ring are being judged,” she commiserates. Don’t guess at the size of your diamond, or plan into a green monster’s trap. Fisher says the perfect response is simply, “I love it and think it’s the perfect size for me!”

3. Who have you invited?
“There’s always one nosy guest who wants to know exactly who’s invited and who’s RSVP’d,” promises Nichols. Why? He or she may want to know if they’ll recognize anyone at his or her table, or whether there will be other singles with whom they can mingle. It’s usually just curiosity that compels people to ask this question, but it doesn’t make it any less annoying. “Kindly appease their curiosity by saying, ‘we won’t know that information until we’ve received our final RSVPs, but thank you for asking,'” Nichols suggests.

4. Can I bring a guest, or my kids?
Beyond knowing who made your guest list, a guest or two will want to know if they can bring a plus-one, or whether you’re throwing a kid-friendly fete. “But your venue and budget only allow for a certain number of people, and you’ve planned your guest list accordingly, which is why it’s especially annoying when someone asks if they can bring a plus-one or their kids,” says Fisher. “Even though you may feel uncomfortable being put on the spot, it’s OK to say no. If you feel like you need to give an explanation, let them know that it’s due to the budget or venue capacity.”

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5. Are you planning to lose weight before the big day?
Nichols says what we’re all thinking when this silly question is asked: “Assuming that just because you’re about to get married that you must start starving yourself or spending your weekends tied to a treadmill is pretty ridiculous,” she says. “Your fiance picked you.” And that means you don’t have to crash diet or give into this line of questioning in the weeks leading up to the big day. Instead, “respond politely with a simple, ‘I’m incredibly fortunate to be marrying a man who loves me just the way I am,'” Nichols suggests.

6. Can I sit with [insert name here]?
You want to make your guests happy and comfortable at your wedding. But, “while you want to do everything you can to make your guests content, planning the table assignments is hard enough without taking special requests into account,” says Fisher. But that won’t stop several guests for making seating assignment requests. “Saying that you’ll do you best to accommodate them lets them know that you’ll try, but you’re not making any promises,” Fisher advises.

7. Isn’t that expensive?
According to Nichols, “It is absolutely no one’s business how much you are spending on your wedding. But that doesn’t mean you won’t receive questions about the cost of the favors, the peonies, or the gown.” Money is usually a very private topic for most people, so this question will probably make you squirm. “Answer in a way that will stop the conversation by saying, ‘We’ve been very lucky to be able to purchase the things we’d like for the wedding day. Thank you for your concern,'” Nichols says.

Gearing up for an upcoming wedding where you have give a wedding toast? It may be good to do your homework and check out some of the legendary wedding speeches that people have laughed to, cried to, and even cringed at. Whether it’s to learn what to do or what not to do, watching movie wedding speeches is a great way to pregame for your shinning moment. Here are the top five wedding movie toasts you just have to watch.

1. Bridesmaids
Who can forget the epically awkward engagement toast battle between Kristen Wiig and Rose Byrne’s characters in this funny flick? It’s clear both want to showcase how much the bride means to them and how amazing their friendship is with one another, but it quickly morphs into a competition between members of the bridal party — and the focus of the bride is lost. This is one of those speeches that teaches you what not to do, especially if you’re giving a co-maid of honor speech.

2. Wedding Crashers
While the movie, in general, is an epic adventure of two guys who crash weddings to pick up chicks, the speech given by Rachel McAdams’ character at her sister’s wedding is actually quite moving and emotionally perfect (once she lays off the cheap jabs at the newlyweds’ superficiality). Her toast includes an unforgettable quote — albeit stolen from Owen Wilson’s character — that many have used in their wedding toasts since, “True love is the soul’s recognizing of its counterpoint in another.”

3. Four Weddings and a Funeral
One of the most endearing and beautiful lines from any movie wedding toast comes from this movie when Hugh Grant’s character says, “I am as ever in bewildered awe of anyone who this kind of commitment that Angus and Laure have made today. I know I couldn’t do it and I think it’s wonderful they can.”

4. The Five-Year Engagement
This movie can be relatable to those with — what else? — super long engagements and a wedding that feels like it’s never actually going to happen. But the wedding toast in this movie uses a dose of humor that gets the audience laughing, a technique that all good wedding toasts should try to tackle.

Editors note: We couldn’t find the toast anywhere online, so you’ll just have to watch it the old fashioned way — by renting the DVD or streaming on Netflix.

5. The Hangover Part II
In The Hangover Part II, Alan (played by Zach Galifianakis) gives quite the awkward speech that both makes the audience cringe and seems like it doesn’t have much of a focus or a point. It’s a great example of what not to do in your groomsman toast… ever.

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Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

While weddings usually bring out a party-all-night kind of vibe and have an atmosphere of continuous fun, they can start to feel, well, a bit boring after a few hours, especially if your wedding is the seventh one your guests have attended that season. Looking for ways to ensure your wedding will be yawn-free? We’ve got your covered.

1. Have Other Activities
Your guests will want an alternative to spending all night dancing or waiting in line to step behind the camera in the photo booth. Pull in fun lawn games or life-size board games, like Jenga or even cornhole.

2. Do Right With a Late-Night Snack
Since guests usually stick around even longer at weddings and party into the wee hours of the morning at the official wedding after party, provide them with a late-night snack to keep them satiated. Space out serving the snack — whether it be burgers, pizza or little finger foods — so it’s available a couple of hours after dinner and wedding cake.

3. Have More Than One Open Bar
If you have a passion for whiskey or whipping up homemade margaritas, include a second or third bar that specializes in your favorite drink. You can even up the personalization of your wedding by including a bar that serves your signature wedding cocktail.

4. Skip the Traditions
Include the traditions and values that mean the most to you and your fiancé, and skip the formalities “just because.” Think about it this way: If you find the traditions meaningless and a little dull, then your wedding guests definitely will. Don’t do something just because you think you have to — it’s your wedding! And your guests want to see your personalities and spirits shine through.

5. Rethink the Sit Down Dinner
Not married to the idea of a three-course meal? Skip it. Instead, go for one of the other awesome alternatives to a sit down feast, whether it be a buffet, food stations, family style or something in between.

6. Say “Yes” to Social Media
In addition to giving your wedding a hashtag, encourage guests to pull out their phones and Snapchat, Instagram and post about your wedding in real-time to whatever other social media site they might prefer.

7. Get Visual With the Speeches
When your maid of honor and best man prepare their speeches, give them the option of creating video or using a photo element to complement their words — giving guests something to look at while they listen will help keep them engaged.

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Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

One of the most important dinners before your milestone wedding weekend happens even before all of the festivities begin. There’s no better way to make a first impression, with your personal wedding style, than to take your guests to dine in a one-of-a-kind rehearsal dinner venue. We’ve gathered a list of LA’s most exclusive rehearsal dinner venues, that feature an ambiance like no other.

1. Wilshire
With a menu developed specifically around organic, local, and peak seasonal ingredients it’s no surprise that this experienced group of culinary aficionados has mastered the art of original dishes inspired by diverse farmers markets. The beautifully casual atmosphere of this California venue emits colors of orange and amber through soft candlelight, brick walls, and rich leather couches. Read real brides’ reviews here!

2. Perch
This French inspired rooftop masterpiece engulfs all elements of Southern California with panoramic views of Downtown Los Angeles, and indoor, and outdoor, table seating. Fifteen floors above the bustling city streets, this one-of-a-kind venue comes equip with antique inspired furniture, detailed woodwork and live jazz inspired music.

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3. Bouchon
Renowned Chef, Thomas Keller, returned to Los Angeles after 20 years to open one of the city’s most celebrated eateries located just two blocks from Rodeo Drive. The grandeur of the high-ceiling interior transports guests into a tranquil urban oasis highlighted by design elements of mosaic floors, antique light fixtures, and a pewter bar. An ever-changing seasonal menu keeps things fresh and innovative all year long.

4. The Royce
Featuring only the finest selection of USDA Prime Cuts, Australian Wagyu, and Japanese Kobe Beef, it’s safe to say that this acclaimed steakhouse sets the bar high when it comes to Los Angeles cuisine. With breathtaking garden views, a Chef’s table experience, and a pre-and post-dinner Red Wine Room, the once-in-a-lifetime possibilities are endless.

5. Nobu
Designed by celebrated architect, David Rockwell, this famed restaurant in West Hollywood has become frequently praised for it’s unique atmosphere and world-class cuisine. Separated by three dining spaces, the main dining room (which features a one-of-a-kind sushi bar), the atrium, and the terrace, it’s no surprise that this Hollywood hangout has become a major Los Angeles hotspot. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Not quite the venues you are looking for? We’ve got more Los Angeles rehearsal dinner venues on our Local Vendors page.

With the rise of gratitude journals and daily affirmations, you likely know how important it is to see the silver lining. But when you are stressed from work, your relationship, friendships or finances, it can be tough to take a moment and look at the things that are going right, instead of the ones that are causing you anxiety. As hard as we try to be mindful and present, let’s be real: sometimes it feels as though we are in auto pilot and life is passing us by. But if you’re always thinking ten steps ahead of what’s happening right now, you’ll never be able to savor the beauty found in some of life’s simplest — and yet, most impactful — moments.

If you want to see — and savor! — the joy of your life every single day, here are five effective strategies that will help you experience the happy parts, no matter what:

Move your body
Exercise is the key to living a happy, balanced life. But if you hate running and you force yourself to log miles, you probably won’t admire the flowers blooming along your path because you’ll be focused on how sore your legs are. The solution? Find a type of exercise that you enjoy and look forward to going to. Yoga is especially great after a long stressful day because it gives you strength and peace of mind. Also, when you feel like you have not eaten the healthiest throughout the day, exercise can help you restart your habits. Lastly, it will help boost energy when you are feeling tired!

Choose your company wisely
Having a good friend is important in keeping your morale high and focused. Even if you just need a quick pick-me-up from a friend, a two-minute phone call can go a long way. Friends help brighten your day and studies have shown that healthy, supportive friendships help you live longer, as well as boost your immune system.

Friends help you feel connected to something outside of yourself; sometimes we feel trapped or smothered inside our own thoughts, connecting with friends and help us get unstuck. But just like you’re being mindful of your thoughts and your perceptions, be choosy with who you decide to share your time with. A negative attitude can make it even harder to see the happiness around you.

Listen to good tunes
Music has the ability to change your mood almost immediately. Just consider your favorite class: it probably has the right type of songs that motivate you to push harder and faster. Take time creating a playlist that will get you out of your seat (and your head!) and dancing, and continue to add new upbeat songs to help get through rough days. If you need help getting started, find inspiration by following ClassPass on Spotify.

Write down the good stuff
If someone compliments your shoes or you get a good review from a co-worker, you feel good. Or, even noticing a stranger help another stranger out can help you see how much goodness there really is out there. Why not take five minutes — legit, that’s all it takes! — to document the things that made you happy? We’re sure you can find at least one each day.

If journaling is too old school, write it on your smartphone notepad! (Psst: some journal ideas here.) Seeing on paper (or on your phone) the encouraging, inspiring things that happened during the day will reinforce positivity in your life and help you keep happy thing at the forefront of your mind.

Be mindful of your thoughts
We’re definitely our own worst critics and often, the language we use to talk to ourselves is not the same we use with our co-workers, friends or frankly, strangers. Tell yourself, “I can do this” or “I can get through this” or “I deserve this.” It is important to speak kindly to yourself and always view yourself is an empowering way. Daily affirmations reinforce a positive outlook any person should have. A positive attitude toward oneself is key to maintaining happiness and emotional stability.

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As Gloria Brame, Ph.D., sexologist and author of The Truth About Sex: A Sex Primer For The 21st Century, says, “the more sex loot, the merrier.” That’s true even when it comes to your wedding registry, where you can safely add sexy items while saving face — seriously.

Of course, adding items to your wedding registry that are meant only to enhance your sex life can be tricky. After all, “you may not want Aunt Matilda to know what kind of sex toys you prefer or your brother to know what brand of lube you use,” says Brame. These items are best added to a secret registry you share with only your closest, most trusted friends. “Or maybe you’d rather get your groom involved and create a wish list together with items for both of you,” Brame suggests.

But if you can think beyond sex toys to some safer options, you can give your sex life a boost without your guests being any the wiser. Here, Brame says, are four sexy items you can add to your registry without feeling embarrassed.

1. G-Rated sleepwear.
You might not want dear ol’ Aunt Matilda to buy you a see-through teddy. But she and your other guests might also be happy to help you splurge on plush robes, boudoir slippers, or even a lace-trimmed nightgown. “Things like good quality robes do not come cheap, and are something you and your groom will appreciate for years to come too,” says Brame.

2. Silk sheets.
You don’t want your wedding guests to know what you’re doing in bed. But adding silk sheets to your wedding registry doesn’t obviously point to sex — though it will make the act more pleasurable, Brame promises. “You will feel good and so will they, knowing that you are both wrapped in luxury on your wedding night,” she points out.

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3. Body care products.
Brame recommends adding skin cream, hair oils, massage oils, aromatherapy kits, personal grooming kits, candles, specialty pillows, “and other small luxuries that will make your bedroom a sensual palace.” Why? Because, as she says, “pampering yourself will make you feel like a sex goddess.”

4. Hotel amenities.
Calling all brides and grooms with an alternative registry, such as a honeymoon registry: If your hotel offers amenities like an in-room couples massage or other spa indulgence, feel free to add these services to your registry. “These items will pump up the romance and intimacy during your honeymoon,” says Brame, “and keep your sexy hormones on high.”