John Krasinski and Emily Blunt Welcome Baby Number 2!

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John Krasinski and Emily Blunt have added to their growing family. The adorable twosome has just announced the arrival of their second daughter, who joined the family two weeks ago. And her name is just adorable!

Like any proud new dad, 13 Hours star John Krasinski announced the birth of his daughter on social media, taking to Twitter to tell his fans that he and Emily Blunt welcomed a baby girl two weeks ago (not to mention throw in a little 4th of July message!). “What better way to celebrate the 4th… than to announce our 4th family member!!! 2 weeks ago we met our beautiful daughter Violet,” Krasinski said on Twitter. Violet joins big sister Hazel, who joined the Krasinski-Blunt clan two years ago.

The perfect pair confirmed that Blunt was pregnant with baby number two in January, and the adorable The Devil Wears Prada star flaunted her growing baby bump all over the red carpet, as she promoted The Huntsman: Winter’s War. We couldn’t be happy for this charismatic couple, who have been giving us some serious #relationshipgoals with their beyond-words-adorable family.

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After the couple’s Italian nuptials in 2010 and the birth of their first tiny tot in 2014, we fell head-over-heels for this adorable twosome. Now new baby makes four! Could they get any more perfect?! With how much The Office star Krasinski gushes about his wife, we don’t think so. “She’s one of the coolest people, she’s so talented, she’s beautiful, and she’s certainly out of my league,” Krasinski told the Daily Beast earlier this year. “When you’re lucky enough to meet your one person, then life takes a turn for the best. It can’t get better than that.”

With the new addition, Blunt’s going to have a busy year as she gears up for the release of The Girl on the Train, the movie adaptation of the bestselling novel.

A Modern Museum Wedding Full of Bright Colors and Playful Patterns

When Lindsay and Brian decided to host their wedding at the Walker Art Center in Minneapolis on August 22, 2015, they chose a space that was the perfect size for their intimate wedding (with only 125 guests in attendance), but was also an endless source of inspiration: gorgeous architecture, a crisp blank canvas, and a fabulous art collection that encouraged the couple to get creative with their design. “We wanted to incorporate a lot of color,” says Lindsay, who worked with Rocket Science Weddings & Events to create a modern, elegant celebration full of punchy hues and playful patterns. Eclectic details, asymmetric floral designs, and an awesome solution to the “band vs. DJ” dilemma came together for an evening full of fun! Check out the couple’s vibrant wedding (and steal some ideas for your own!), photographed by Cadence & Eli Photography.

Brian and Lindsay ran with their colorful wedding theme, incorporating teal, hot pink, orange, and purple into all of their paper goods. The stripes and chevrons were a nod to the museum’s modern design, with the colors letting guests know they were in for an amazing night!

Lindsay paired her fit-and-flare gown with sparkling Vince Camuto pumps and a textured bouquet of orchids, ranunculus, garden roses, cockscomb, and succulents. Brian topped off his classic tux with a matching orchid boutonniere.

The couple had their first look on the museum’s rooftop just before a rain shower moved in. “We were supposed to have our ceremony on the roof, as well, but it was just as beautiful when we moved it inside,” says Lindsay.

The Jewish ceremony took place beneath a Lucite chuppah decorated with white hydrangeas, mums, and carnations. Lindsay and Brian signed a ketubah decorated with a modern, geometric cut-out of the Star of David. “Signing our ketubah was so warm and heartfelt. I’ll remember that moment forever,” says the bride.

Brian’s cousin, a rabbi, officiated the ceremony, and the couple’s brother and sister served as best man and maid of honor.

The tallit used during the ceremony holds special meaning for the bride: “It belonged to my father, who passed away.”

As guests headed to the reception, they found their table assignments hanging from a custom-built escort card display decorated with white hydrangeas and mums. “We wanted to give guests an idea of what was to come,” says Lindsay of the modern design. Each hexagonal card was one of three colors (orange, pink, and purple) to designate guests’ meal choices.

The attention to detail continued, with drink stirrers printed with drawings of cats to represent the bride and groom’s pets, Moses and Bing Bong. The stirrers were used in the two specialty cocktails named after the felines, the Moses Mule and the Bing-Bong-A-Rita. Guests also nibbled on custom fortune cookies, which were finished with bright ribbon and tags reading “Sayonara,” a nod to the pair’s upcoming honeymoon in Japan.

In the museum’s Skyline Room, the lights of the Minneapolis skyline lit the space and provided a stunning, dramatic backdrop. Tables were topped with champagne chevron linens, allowing the bright floral centerpieces to really pop. Color-blocked arrangements in a variety of sizes provided a unique look from every angle, mixing orchids and hydrangeas with succulents and tulips.

Instead of chargers, Lindsay and Brian chose oversized menu cards to place atop rectangle-folded napkins, leaving enough space to also set the silverware without blocking the details of the meal to come. Guests chose between sautéed sea bass, beef tenderloin, and a ratatouille napoleon.

“The flowers were such a wow-factor,” Lindsay remembers. “We used a lot of cool flowers in bright shades, like alstroemeria, proteas, and allium.”

For dessert, the newlyweds cut into a three-tiered carrot cake topped with a surprise from their wedding planner: A 3D-printed monogram cake topper!

“My parents wanted a band and we wanted a DJ, so our planner recommended Fusion by Rock With U, a DJ and band combination,” Lindsay says. “We had them put together a special set of songs we knew my step-dad, Steve, loves — he’s really into music!” And of course they did the hora!

“We are so glad we hired a wedding planner,” says the bride. “We wouldn’t have been able to create the look we wanted — or manage the stress — without Gretchen!”

Ceremony & Reception Venue: Walker Art Center || Wedding Planner, Floral Design & Stationery: Rocket Science Weddings & Events || Bride’s Wedding Dress: VWIDON || Shoes: Vince Camuto || Jewelry: Continental Diamond || Hair & Makeup: Emily J. || Groom’s Attire: Bonobos || Music: Four Voices String Quartet; Rock With U || Catering & Cake: D’Amico & Partners || Rentals: Après Party & Tent Rentals || Videographer: Ladd Films || Photographer: Cadence & Eli Photography

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Who Should Escort Our Grandparents Down the Aisle?

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One of the beauties of a wedding is the way it brings generations together, from your nieces and nephews to your grandparents (and great-grandparents!). Those little ones are great options for ring bearers and flower girls, and having your grandparents walk down the aisle as part of your ceremony processional is a sweet way to acknowledge their influence in your lives. We asked our experts for some of the best ways to get your grandparents down the aisle and to their seats in style — take note!

When you’re arranging your ceremony seating, make sure to reserve seats for your grandparents, either in the first row on either side of your parents or in the second row in the aisle seats so they can easily get to their seats and sit down.

If both your grandmother and grandfather are in attendance, have them walk down the aisle together. The groom’s grandparents should be seated first (his paternal grandparents followed by his maternal grandparents), then the bride’s grandparents should be seated in the same order. They should head down the aisle at the very beginning of the processional, before the groom’s parents are seated.

Has one of your grandparents passed away? Have an usher escort your grandparent to his or her seat. If you don’t have enough ushers, the first usher should quietly loop back around the outside of the rows of seats to escort the remaining grandparent.

If your siblings aren’t ushers or part of the wedding party, you could nominate them to escort your grandparents to their seats, instead — this is a great way to include them in the processional, as well as turn the walk down the aisle into even more of a family affair.

For older grandparents who might have a hard time getting down the aisle, consider instead seating them before the ceremony has started so they have time to get to their seats without feeling rushed, and then settle in and get comfortable.

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An Engagement Ring for Every Personality

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Can’t decide which type of engagement ring would shine best against your finger? Look inward — the answer has actually been within you all along. From the bold to the classy, we’ve rounded up the best ring types by personality type to help you find a ring style true to you.

Classy: Solitaire
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The classy bride is chic and traditional, much like a timeless solitaire. Simple and subtle, yet elegant and powerful, a single stone can make quite the statement and is something its wearer will treasure for years to come. (Ring LC10186, price upon request, Coast Diamond)

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Romantic: Vintage
A vintage look speaks to any romantic bride’s heart. Whether it’s an antique ring full of history or a vintage-inspired sparkler, the elaborate motifs, intricate engraving, swelling curves, and geometric patterns that often characterize vintage rings are heavily romanticized. The options are endless, from Victorian and Edwardian to Art Noveau and Art Deco. (Alvadora Diamond Ring, $1,490 (setting only), Brilliant Earth)

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Bold: Colored Gemstone
Whether it’s a sapphire, emerald, ruby, or other jewel of your choice, a colored gemstone in lieu of the expected diamond is the perfect complement to the vibrant personality of the bold bride. (Olivia Ring, $2,945, Gemvara)

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Glam: Halo Setting
A halo setting is a pavé or micro-pavé circle around a center stone, making your diamond pop and look larger than life. In other words, it’s perfect for those glamorous gals looking for a little flash and shine. This kind of setting is made even more glam when complemented by a twisted pavé band and a rose gold metal for a contrast of color. (B060-01RA, $3,107, Noam Carver)

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Bohemian: Pear-Shape
A pear-shaped diamond is equal parts romantic, vintage, and whimsical, maintaining the romance of a classic diamond albeit in a more unique playful shape. Resembling a delicate teardrop, this avant-garde style perfectly suits a bohemian bride. (Camellia Petal Ring — White Diamond, $6,900, Anna Sheffield)

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Artsy: Tension
Nothing says creative like a tension ring. Instead of using prongs to secure a gem, a tension ring holds a center stone in place using pressure. This creates the illusion that the stone is “floating” — an imaginative trick of the eye that any artistic bride will love. A bonus? Since the design allows the diamond to be seen from all angles, more light passes through it, maximizing the sparkle effect. (TSLA002, $1,834, Sareen Jewelry available at Emma Parker & Co.)

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Modern: Round or Cushion
Round and cushion cuts are respectively the most popular cuts among today’s brides — especially when paired with a pavé band. The resulting look is contemporary, sleek, and stunning. If you like to stay up with the current trends this Robbins Brother ring featuring a round cut is calling your name. (Michael M. White Gold Engagement Ring Setting, $5,180, Robbins Brothers)

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5 Money Fights You Might Have Before Marriage

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The months before you get married aren’t all engagement bliss. You may find you bicker over your wedding plans, or, perhaps more importantly, over money. Why? Because paying for big budget items — like your wedding or saving for your first home — can bring big money considerations out of the woodwork, says Elle Kaplan, finance expert and owner of LexION Capital.

“If a couple has only had financial discussions about the Netflix bill, and suddenly they’re faced with the idea of affording kids, it can bring out some significant disagreements,” she says. Here are five such financial arguments you might face.

1. The cost of your wedding.
As we know all too well, “wedding prices can easily skyrocket and become a huge argument,” says Kaplan. “It’s an emotionally heated and important experience, so one partner might be tempted to go into debt to make the day special.” But Kaplan warns that could lead to more financial troubles and fights down the road. “I always remind people that a wedding day is just that: a day,” she says. “It’s not worth having a long-term argument or debt over.”

2. Who’s paying for date nights out.
It’s not all late night wedding planning sessions. Some evenings, you’ll sneak out for a romantic snack. And, says Mary Beth Storjohann, financial coach and founder of Workable Wealth, “if one person is always picking up the check, there could be a feeling of resentment from either party. If things are getting tense, circle up for a conversation of whether each party is comfortable paying, and set parameters for expectations going forward.”

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3. One another’s money habits.
The closer you get to marriage, Kaplan says, the more likely you’ll view one another’s money habits under a magnifying glass. “This can lead to a lot of bickering if they have differing money views, like if one is a saver and the other is a spender,” she warns. Rather than bicker, “realize that [you] won’t agree on everything moneywise, and focus on compromising on the big-ticket financial choices instead of sweating the small stuff.”

4. Your financial goals.
Says Storjohann, “Depending on where you’re at in life, you may have different visions for the future. One may see marriage, a home purchase and kids, while the other sees a desire to travel and start a business.” While having different visions of the future can lead to fights, they don’t have to, says Storjohann. Here, “having honest conversations around goals and expectations will help to ensure you’re on the same page or at least in understanding of each other.”

5. Your debts.
Debt is never fun to discuss. And chatting about your partner’s credit card bills can get downright uncomfortable. “A huge credit card bill can throw a wrench in your relationship plans,” says Kaplan. “That being said, it’s important for couples to encourage open and honest dialog financially; if a spouse is made to feel shameful about debt, it can be hard for them to open up financially in the future. Couples should work on this as a team, and focus on fixing the underlying habits that caused it. That way, they can nip it in the bud and make sure it doesn’t happen again.”

But don’t let the prospect of these disagreements dissuade you from talking about money before marriage. “A lot of couples think of finance as the final frontier, and for some reason only talk about it when marriage is a sure thing,” says Kaplan. “By bringing money up early, couples can start to get a sense of each other’s views as the relationship turns serious, and nip any issues or disagreements in the bud.”

Victoria and David Beckham Celebrate 17 Years of Marriage: See Photos of Their Posh '90s Wedding

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Praise be to the Beckhams — 17 years together and still just as fabulous as ever. Forever one of our favorite celebrity couples, these two British powerhouses are marking almost two decades of marriage bliss, having tied the knot on July 4th, 1999. And since then, they’ve dominated the tabloids (and our hearts!) with their super stylish family and long lasting love. So to celebrate the Beckhams’ momentous anniversary, we’re throwing it back to the day they said their “I do’s” — a.k.a. the poshest wedding of the ’90s! (Pun intended…)

Seventeen years ago today, Posh Spice and the British soccer superstar wed in the Luttrellstown Castle, a staggering estate that sits just outside of Dublin, Ireland. Yes, an honest to goodness castle. You didn’t think a woman with the word ‘Posh’ in her name would have a wedding that was anything but, did you?

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On the big day, the bride donned an epic wedding dress that we’re still talking about. (Seriously. It even tops our list of Iconic Celebrity Brides!) Victoria wore a stunning silk Vera Wang pleated ball gown with a 20-foot train and sculpted neckline, and topped off the luxe look with what else but an 18K gold tiara. The groom and the couple’s first child, baby Brooklyn Beckham, matched the bride in all white ensembles, looking like a soccer playing, pop singing version of the royal family.

The tabloid-fodder couple managed to keep their ceremony intimate, with only 29 of their closest friends and family members witnessing their vows, according to Celebrity Bridal Guide. The romantic room was decked out in rose petals and silver birch trees, and when the perfect pair said their “I do’s,” a dove was released and a flag reading V. B. D. — for Victoria, Brooklyn, and David — was raised up above the castle. What? Are you really surprised?

The guest list for the Beckhams’ reception was much longer however, with a reported 230 guests filling the castle, including the bride’s fellow Spice Girls, of course! Geri Halliwell (Ginger Spice), Melanie Chisholm (Sporty Spice), and Melanie Brown (Scary Spice) were all there to celebrate Posh’s new Mrs. status. The newlyweds sat atop a pair of golden thrones and changed into some daring purple reception garb after sharing their first dance to “It Had To Be You.”

Before bidding farewell to their guests, the Beckhams sliced into a tiered wedding cake with a sword, because of course. Oh, and then there was a fireworks show and balloon release, obviously.

See? Told ya it was the poshest wedding of the ’90s. Happy anniversary to the most fashionable couple we know!

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BRIDES New Jersey: Where to Shop for Your Beautiful Bridal Accessories

Once you’ve said yes to the dress, it’s time to finish your ensemble. Whether you’re looking for jewelry, veils, headpieces or more, it’s easy to get overwhelmed while deciding upon your bridal look. Jersey girls, you’re in luck. The Garden State boasts an abundance of boutiques for bridal accessories not far from New York City. Check out a few of our favorites.

Castle Couture (Manalapan)
As you enter through the grandiose entrance of Castle Couture, you’ll find nearly an entire first floor dedicated to all things accessories. Dazzling within their elaborate displays, there’s an endless supply of designer pieces including Justin Alexander belts, Eve of Milady veils, Bel Aire tiaras and Bloom Bazaar headpieces. Whether you’re looking for a few finishing touches to “jack up” your look or one simple piece to tie your big day look together, Castle Couture has an incredible selection of anything a bride might need to feel completely glam. Read real brides’ reviews here!

I Do… I Do (Morristown)
With an extensive accessories department that spans from handbags, shoes wraps, designer jewelry and more, I Do… I Do is a charming bridal boutique located in the heart of Morristown. On top of their gorgeous selection of bridal gowns, their accessories section is sure to have the perfect piece you need to complete your bridal vision. If by chance you don’t see what you have in mind, the shop can also customize a piece for you, as well as update a treasured family heirloom to incorporate into your big day. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Exquisite Bride (Princeton)
This Princeton shop curates a slew of elegant wedding gowns within their dynamic accessory department, where they believe “attention to detail is never overlooked.” Helping brides complete their looks, Exquisite Bride has an array of accessories ranging from modern and chic to elegant and sophisticated. On top of their offerings, they also have seamstresses available who can help adjust your dress to perfection — with added straps, shoulder coverings, or incorporating heirlooms and sentimental items if you desire. Read real brides’ reviews here!

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Dressed To The Nines (Morristown)
The bridal fashion professionals at Dressed to the Nines help customers meet every bridal need with their assortment of bridal bling, handbags, headwear, and undergarments. This modern bridal salon has talented in-house seamstresses that can create custom headpieces, veils, and jewelry. Haven’t been able to spot that veil to match the lace or beading in your gown — dont fret — Dressed to the Nines can customize any piece to your dress aesthetic. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Click here to see even more bridal jewelry boutiques and local accessory shops to get you wedding day ready!

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Relationship? Fitness? Career? How to Get to the Next Level of Anything

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Recently, you’ve noticed you’re feeling bored at work, confused in your relationship, unsettled at home and less than motivated in class.

If you’ve been riding the status quo for a while, it might be time to kick things up a notch. When we start to feel like things that formerly held our attention have become stagnant (read: unchallenging, uninteresting, stale), we run the risk of burning out our motivation entirely, which leads to poor performance, a lack of attention and a general undoing of our hard work. Occasional shake-ups can provide motivation via excitement and help ensure we’re on the right track.

To continue moving onwards and upwards in your life’s adventures, take stock of where you can move things to the next level. When things feel challenging (in a good way) and positive, we work harder. Our interest stays piqued. We pay attention. We’re more invested.

Here’s how to know you’re ready to kick it up a notch at work, in your relationships, at home and in your workouts.

At work
Feeling challenged, useful and valued at work is essential to staying focused and motivated. If you’ve grown complacent in your role, it could be time to have a chat about next steps: promotions, new responsibilities, new projects. If you’re feeling bored, you’ll start to feel frustrated. Frustration breeds resentment, which can ruin relationships and smother future job possibilities. Get ahead of the boredom curse by asking for what you need.

In your relationships
Knowing whether your relationship is ready for the next level requires a conversation with your partner. Take stock of your relationship inventory: Is there mutual trust and respect? Openness? A willingness to compromise and collaborate? Do you disagree productively? Do you have similar visions for your lives, including things like where you’ll live, whether you want kids, what your day-to-day life looks like, your politics?

If it looks like you’re on the same page and things are heading in the same shared direction, it could be time to begin making next-level plans. This might look like saving for a wedding, a home or a world-tour trip. It might mean discussing introducing your families or opening a shared bank account. Whatever it looks like for your unique relationship, it’s worth having an exploratory conversation to see if you’re both willing to make the effort towards a longer-term commitment.

With your home
Do a gut check of where you—and your financé—are now in relation to where you’d like to be in two, three or five years. Is sharing an apartment with eight roommates really your best option, or could you open up your budget to a less-populated alternative? Are you currently renting but know you’ll be staying in the same city for several years to come? Do the math and decide if a mortgage on a first home might be more affordable than your current rent over the next five years.

In class
If the class that used to feel challenging no longer gets your heart rate pounding or your muscles burning in quite the same way, it might be time to go next level. Consider going up in your weights, trying the harder modification or pushing for just a few extra RPM on the stationary bike. Look for options that will push your boundaries, and explore classes on ClassPass that sound scary. You might find your new favorite thing and feel extra motivated to work hard.

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ClassPass is a monthly membership that connects you to more than 8,000 of the best fitness studios worldwide. Have you been thinking about trying it? Start now on the Base Plan and get five classes for your first month for only $19.

Is an All-Inclusive Honeymoon Right For You?

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Any vacation is a good vacation, right? Right. But when it comes to your honeymoon, take extra care to ensure it’s the best vacation ever. While planning the big trip, there are endless options to consider and decisions to make that will ensure it’s a memorable, romantic trip for you as a couple. Just like all the decisions you make for your wedding to be uniquely yours; you should treat this vacation as such, too. Are you considering an all-inclusive honeymoon, but not sure if it’s right for you? Consider the following four factors to decide!

Budget & Spending Style
Not surprisingly, all-inclusive resort packages are a budgeting bride’s (and groom’s) dream come true. For one flat rate, you might only need to pack enough cash to tip — and that is a beautiful thing. After budgeting carefully for the big day, the added stress of honeymoon expenses can seem a bit overwhelming, so one price that encompasses flight, lodging, and food/drink is a welcome site. Couples with more flexible budgets and free-style spending habits may welcome the idea as well, or may select to spend as they go, making all-inclusive options a bit less desirable for their situations.

Personality
Choosing the all-inclusive option can often boil down to this one factor alone — are you (and your soon-to-be spouse) free-spirited folks who like to fly by the seat of your pants, and seek adventure? Or, do you prefer to lay on the beach ’til the sun goes down with a cocktail in-hand, enjoy easy access to meals and beverages and then wake up to do it all over again? Your vacation goals can give you a clear-cut answer on whether or not your suited for this type of honeymoon style. Those who identify most with the beach-loving, laissez-faire group are sure to love the seamless and stress-free choice of vacation packaging, while the adventure-seeking, on-the-go types are less likely to find this option ideal.

Drinking & Dining Preferences
If you love buffets and aren’t too particular when it comes to the brand of booze, beer, or wine you drink, say hello to an all-inclusive! Typically all-inclusive resorts feature delicious offerings for meals, snacks, and drinks that are best suited for the “typical” diner. Those who have restrictions, picky palates, crave local cuisine and/or are loyal to the top-shelf are perhaps better off opting for hotels where you can dine wherever, whenever, and on whatever you desire.

Length of Stay
For couples that are looking for a quick getaway, all-inclusive resorts are perfect. This vacation plan will enable you to maximize your R&R time by never having to leave the resort, with literally everything you could want or need at your fingertips. If you’re planning on traveling for a week or more, you may find that a-la-carte options better suit your needs. When you have enough time to venture out and explore new restaurants, bars, and activities you’ll want to be able to do so not feeling guilty that you paid for all-inclusive amenities, too.

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Wedding Veil Etiquette 101: Every Veil Question Asked and Answered

They say a veil is what turns a woman in a beautiful white dress into a bride, and we agree! There’s something so romantic about the flowing fabric and the time-honored tradition, whether it’s a birdcage style or cathedral-length and edged in lace. But, er, when are you supposed to put your veil on, exactly? And do you wear your veil at the reception? We’ve got you covered. If you’ve decided to top off your wedding dress with a veil of any sort, here are a few things to keep in mind, straight from our experts.

When to Put Your Veil On
While you might be tempted to put your veil on as soon as you’ve stepped into your gown, think through your timeline first. If you’re getting ready within walking distance of your first look, ask your hairstylist to put your veil on just before you leave the room so that it’s secure and in place, but not in your way for final touch-ups as you’re getting ready to go. Getting in the car to get to the church? You may want to wait to have your veil put on until you’ve arrived, so you don’t risk wrinkling it or pulling it out as you get in and out of the vehicle (which could also mess up your hairstyle!).

When to Take Your Veil Off
Taking off your veil is totally up to you. Some brides, especially those wearing longer veils, opt to take their veils off after the ceremony and once pictures are done, so they have a little more ease of movement during cocktail hour and the reception. Others swap the longer style for a short blusher so they can maintain their bridal look without risking having their veil stepped on while dancing. If you’re wearing a blusher over your face during the ceremony, look into two-piece veils, where the blusher and the longer veil are separate, and have the longer piece removed while leaving the blusher in place.

How to Keep Your Veil in Place
While the comb attached to a veil can be fairly secure, the last thing you want is your veil blowing off mid-ceremony! Instead, after your veil is positioned correctly, grab a few bobby pins that match your hair color. Gently use the pins to further attach your veil to your hair, making sure that the pins are hidden beneath your hair. One or two pins on either side (criss-crossed for extra grip!) should do it.

Who Should Help You Remove Your Veil
Though your hairstylist would be the best person to have remove your veil after the ceremony, asking him or her to stick around for an hour or two after they’re done styling might not be possible (and could cost you extra!). Instead, either have your wedding planner help you remove your veil, or have your stylist teach your mom or maid of honor the best way to remove your veil without disrupting your ‘do.

Once they’ve gently removed any pins holding the comb in place, whoever is removing your veil should place one hand beneath your veil and on top of the comb, holding your hair in place so the comb doesn’t pull everything out. Then, with the other hand, they should start to gently pull the comb up. Once it has released a little bit, with their hand still maintaining slight pressure on your hairstyle, they should gently pull the comb out of your hair and away from your head, tilting the comb away from your head so that when the ends of the teeth are pulled out, the comb is at a 90-degree angle to the back of your head.

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