Who said that the sex goes stale after marriage? If you ask Mila Kunis about her time spent in the bedroom with husband Ashton Kutcher, she sounds quite, uh, satisfied! Kunis, who is currently expecting her second child with Kutcher, recently got candid during an appearance on The Late Late Show, where she actually described her hubby’s penis to host James Cordon. Oh yes, she went there. But in her defense, Kunis was under a lot of pressure on the talkshow. What’s a girl supposed to do? Here’s the lowdown on the NSFW moment and Kutcher’s reaction to having the world now know what he looks like naked. Spoiler alert: Kunis was very generous!

When Kunis stopped by The Late Late Show on Monday night, Cordon recruited her for a round of “Spill Your Guts or Fill Your Guts” — a twisted game of his own invention, where players either have to answer an uncomfortable, TMI question or down an unusual food or unappealing drink. Betcha Kunis wished she just stayed at home with baby Wyatt, right? The game took an interesting turn when Cordon asked, “Ashton Kutcher: carrot stick or beer can?” Yep, that happened.

“Oh, my God. What do I do?” Kunis asked, deciding whether to comment — on national TV, no less — on her husband’s penis size or down a glass full of clam juice. Kunis eventually made the wise choice, and went with ‘carrot stick.’ But then the actress got even more descriptive!

“Carrot stick?” Cordon asked curiously. “Beer cans are short,” the Bad Moms star explained. “No, not a big beer can,” Corden replied, putting an end to the penile descriptor confusion. “A beer can!” Kunis declared at last. “I’m thinking it’s short and stubby or long and thin. But no, [it’s] like a Guinness.” Thats, uh, quite the visual there, Kunis…

So how does Kutcher feel about his wife blabbing about his nether regions all over town? “He was very happy about the Guinness,” Kunis later shared with E! News on the red carpet premiere of Bad Moms, where she flaunted her growing baby bump. That must have been a relief, right? (But you still probably shouldn’t spill similar TMI details about your fiancé. Just a suggestion…)

“Listen, it’s a fact,” Kunis hilariously continued. “He’s like a Guinness, you guys.”

Good to know, right?

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After spending months planning out every last detail of your dream wedding, you are probably counting down the minutes until you can leave on your dream honeymoon — even more so if you’ve planned a romantic Italian getaway. But before you leave your wedding dress behind and jet off on a wine-filled European tour, stop and think about what is in your luggage. Like any trip, you’ll want to pack functional and fashionable items, and we’re here to help — after all packing stress should be the last thing on your mind. Need a little help figuring out what to pack to wander through the streets of Rome, or relax with a glass of wine in Lake Como? Read on for some of our favorite picks to have you looking, and feeling, like a local.

Don’t settle for a boring carry-on bag when you can rock the Jet Setter from Lulu’s. The nautical stripes and brown detailing will brighten up your flight and carry everything you need to hope on a boat and cruise around the Italian coast.
(‘Jet Setter’ striped weekender bag, $48, Lulu’s)

Huge frames? Check. Designer label? Check. Adorable floral print? Double check. These Tory Burch sunnies will match any outfit while also acting as your statement accessory when you hit Italy’s most gorgeous beaches.
(‘Retro’ 54mm sunglasses, $175, Tory Burch available at Nordstrom)

Like having the Italian Riviera on your feet, these gingham sandals scream La Dolce Vita. Not only will you want to wear these shoes every day, but the huge platform and heel make them way more comfortable than your go-to stilettos. Ideal for those romantic honeymoon evenings.
(‘Brigitte’ gingham sandals, $175, Susi)

This scarf gives us major Audrey Hepburn Roman Holiday vibes, and it is the perfect combination of neutral and sparkle to add some life to any outfit.
(Ombre scarf in ivory/multi, $35, Theodora & Callum available at Neiman Marcus Last Call)

Whether you are shopping in Milan or hitting the beach, it is going to be really sunny. This hat by Genie by Eugenia Kim will shade you every step of the way and match everything you packed, plus you can tie a cute scarf around it for some extra color.
(‘Cecily’ sun hat, $68, Genie by Eugenia Kim available at Bloomingdales)

When traveling, your passport is your everything, and it should be decorated as such — add to that an adorable way to scream your new “Mrs.” status to the world, and we’re completely sold! Kate Spade is known for their adorable passport holders, and this one is literally made for a honeymoon, we’re dying.
(‘Wedding bells’ passport holder, $78, Kate Spade)

This bikini is totally boat-worthy thanks to the nautical striped ropes keeping everything in place. It is cute enough that you won’t mind the funky tan lines, and sexy enough to entice your new husband!
(‘Lotus Twist’ rope bikini, $74 top, $58 bottom, BECCA by Rebecca Virtue available at Bloomingdales)

For those days when you swap out sunbathing and shopping for wandering and exploring, you need a cute backpack to hold your essentials. We love this French Connection bag because it is simple, stylish, and has plenty of storage space.
(‘Lennon’ backpack, $90, French Connection available at Neiman Marcus Last Call)

Most brides serve vanilla (or chocolate) cake at their wedding — but only very creative ones serve (or should we say sing) “Vanilla” on their big day! Such was the case for bride Ina O’Brien, who rapped Vanilla Ice’s “Ice Ice Baby” as her toast to her new husband in an epic performance that would make the rapper proud.

Irish natives Ina O’Brien and Aiden Dwyer tied the knot in Mayo County, Ireland last month and celebrated with a wedding reception at the Radisson Blu Hotel, according to TV 3. But this just wasn’t just any wedding reception — thanks to the bride. Luckily for us, a wedding guest caught the whole rap on tape, which began with several of the groomsmen whipping out sunglasses and standing behind her in solidarity. “Alright stop, grab your drinks and listen…” she spat to the beat while the groom and the wedding guests laughed and looked on.

“Love has grabbed ahold of us tightly, we’re lovey dovey daily and nightly. Will it ever stop? Oh hell no! Look us two, we’re ready to grow,” she rapped. “Four years ago I received a call — attraction happened back in ’09, we used to be friends and went to dine. Didn’t last long as we were young, now we’re back together it’s now or forever,” O’Brien crooned. To the crowds amazement — and most likely to show how much she practiced her lines and was ready for the big stage (errr, reception) — she finished the entire song.

“He got me ice, ice baby. Now I’m his wifey, baby!” she sang to the chorus, flashing her engagement ring bling. “Happy, that’s what we are together.” “Us two are living proof, there’s nothing that love can’t do. Husband and wife, are future is set.” “Let’s cheers to our new life, a happy ever after and a magical life,” she ended the toast to the crowd cheering. Dwyer, clearly incredulous, embraced his new wife and gave her a big smooch on the lips. Vanilla Ice would be proud.

While you may think this bride totally took wedding performances to a new level, this isn’t the first time we’ve seen a totally awesome wedding toast that incorporated “Ice Ice Baby.” Last year, maid of honor Rachel Winterbottom set the bar high with her rendition of the song that she created for her newly-married big sister. Needless to say, toasts that incorporate singing, dancing, and/or rapping get us every time. See below for the full video of the new bride’s performance. Bravo!

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At your wedding, there may be myriad heartwarming moments. (We certainly hope so.) But these moments really stand out for these brides and even one groom. Here, four couples share the most heartwarming stories from their wedding day.

“My husband surprised me with an additional wedding band. The Jewish religion requires you to get married in a solid wedding band to symbolize that love never ends, so we exchanged solid bands at our ceremony. But after the ceremony, my husband pulled out another ring that was made with diamonds, my birthstone, and sapphires, my favorite stone and birthstone for the month we wed. I love the wedding band, more so than my engagement ring, and I wear it often. Every time I wear it, I think about the thoughtfulness and love he put into purchase it, as it was an added expense that he did not have to take on.” — Charly

“A week before our wedding, we found out that my wife’s father had been diagnosed with cancer. We didn’t know if he would even make it to the wedding to give his daughter away. It was heartbreaking. He did make it to the wedding, however. He rested a lot and couldn’t participate in a lot of the multi-day festivities, but he did walk her down the aisle and danced with her during the father-daughter dance. Most of our guests didn’t know of his illness. But there were some that did, and I promise you none of them had a dry-eye during the dance knowing what this moment really meant to those involved.” — Krishna

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“My husband and I got married 38 years ago. Before the wedding, we went around and took pictures of our friends and family — a bit of work, but worth it. Back then, there was only regular film, nothing digital. We had slides made and during the wedding played a song called, ‘All Good Gifts Surround Us,’ and we showed the slides of our family and friends, thanking them for coming. Then I surprised my husband with a song I wrote. During the rehearsal, I had the singer sing a traditional song. But during the actual ceremony, the singer announced he had a surprise for my husband: He was going to sing the song I wrote. It was a fun surprise for my husband as well as the guests, and we still talk about that.” — Silvana

“We expected our best man’s toast to be more like a roast. He’s never been the most warm-and-fuzzy, affectionate guy. But to our surprise, his toast brought tears to our eyes — and all of our guests’ eyes, too. He spoke so kindly of our relationship, how he had seen my husband grow and become a better man since he had met me. He even said he couldn’t have designed a better woman for his friend if he had tried. Even now, when we watch our wedding video, seeing his toast still brings tears to our eyes, and my husband can’t wait to repay the favor when he gets married.” — Amber

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So, you’re starting to feel a bit frisky and things are heating up, but your partner doesn’t know you’re on your period. You don’t mind, but you’re not sure how he feels about it. Do you say something? And if so, how? Casually mention it as your pants are coming off? Like, “FYI, it’s that time”?

Even when you know periods are nothing to be ashamed of or grossed out by, it can feel kind of awkward to bring it up. And while there’s no reason you shouldn’t have sex during your period, some people nevertheless prefer no to go there.

According to a survey by Flex, a device that makes period sex easier, the majority (55 percent) of people think period sex is natural or awesome, and the great majority (88 percent) have done it. But 45 percent find it a turnoff, and 86 percent say they’ve avoided it due to the mess it can make.

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So, even though there’s nothing objectively wrong with period sex, some people do have their own preferences. For this reason, Astroglide’s resident sexologist Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D., advises talking in advance about what each of you are comfortable with while you’re on your period. You could simply say, “I’m on my period. Are you cool with __?” Or, if you know your partner is not comfortable with full-blown sex while you’re on your period, you could suggest something else.

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“You might find that different types of sex feel better while you’re on your period, and you’ll likely want to keep the variety going when you’re not,” she says.

According to Anna Druet, scientific researcher for the period-tracking app Clue, period sex actually has its advantages, since the blood provides natural lube and some women feel more turned on during their periods. If you’re worried about the mess, she recommends wearing a tampon up until you start, having sex in the shower, or putting a towel down, and voila–you’re good to go.

There’s no need to miss out on the fun just because it’s your time of month. Just make sure that everyone’s cool with it in advance.

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This article originally appeared on Glamour.

Could you think of anything more romantic than a political convention? Well, we could probably come up with a few. (Weddings, honeymoons, ect…) But at last night’s Democratic National Convention, Bill Clinton took the stage as the potential first gentlemen — nice title, huh? — and turned the political bash into a bit of a love fest, as he shared the super cute moment he first laid eyes on his wife, Democratic presidential nominee Hillary Clinton, and a proposal story sweet enough to make you swoon. However, as it turns out, his now-famous engagement story may not be totally true…

On Tuesday night, Bill Clinton began his speech at the DNC with the decades-long love story between himself and the presidential nominee, beginning when they first met at Yale Law School. “In the spring of 1971, I met a girl,” Clinton began. “The first time I saw her, we were appropriately enough in a class about civil rights. She had thick blonde hair, big glasses, wore no makeup. She exuded this sense of strength and self-possession that I found magnetic.”

Too nervous to talk to the girl (He had a right to be nervous — that girl might be our first female president, after all!), it wasn’t until later that the pair first spoke. “Then one night in the law library… I saw that girl again. And she was staring back at me,” remembered Clinton. “She walked the whole length of the library and said, ‘Look, if you’re going to keep staring at me, and now I’m staring back. We might as well know each other’s name. I’m Hillary Rodham. Who are you?'”

A few days later, still trying to impress his future bride, the former president spotted Rodham-Clinton in line to register for classes and raced to join her. “We stood in line and talked… and I thought I was doing pretty well. Then we got to the front of the line and the registrar looked up and said, ‘Bill what are you doing here, you registered this morning!'” Oops! Thwarted!

“I turned red,” the former president recalled. “And she laughed that big laugh of hers. And I thought, well heck, since my cover’s been blown, I just went ahead and asked her to take a walk down to the art museum. We’ve been walking, talking, and laughing together ever since.” And the rest, as they say, is history. (Literally, it might in the history books one day…)

But when Clinton finally proposed, he surprisingly received a resounding “no” from the future Democratic nominee. So, ever-persistent, he asked two more times before she finally said yes. “The third time was the charm,” he said. “I married my best friend.” But before the wedding bells rang, Clinton actually tried to convince his bride not marry him just yet.

“I said, ‘I really want to you marry me, but you shouldn’t do it,'” Clinton recalled for last night’s DNC crowd. “I said, ‘I know most of the young Democrats our age who want to go into politics, they mean well and they speak well, but none of them are as good as you are at actually doing things to make positive changes in people’s lives.’ So I suggested she go home to Illinois or move to New York and look for a chance to run for office. She just laughed and said, ‘Are you out of your mind? Nobody would ever vote for me.'” (Funny how things work out, right?)

But as sweet as that story may seem, it might not be completely true. As The Huffington Post points out, the former president has only recently began telling the terrific tale of trying to convince his future bride to run for office. And even Hillary Clinton herself doesn’t exactly remember the moment the same, telling New York Magazine, “I don’t think he said that when he actually proposed… But it was kind of a theme that he would go back to.”

Well, at least they remember the same anniversary date, right? Right?!

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The days leading up to the big day are super stressful for a bride-to-be, which is why we highly recommend taking a day off to head to the spa for some pampering. Don’t worry DC brides (and grooms)-to-be — we’ve got you covered. We’re sharing a few of our favorite spas in the nation’s capital. After a treatment or two, you’ll leave feeling relaxed and totally ready to meet your betrothed at the altar.

Qi Image Spa
This Georgetown wellness spa offers an array of face and body treatments to help you relax before the big day. The Chinese-inspired décor sets the scene for a zen day. If you really want to spoil yourself, book the spa’s “Best of the Best” package, which features the signature Himalaya rose salt stone massage and a 24K gold facial. Now that’s what we call pre-wedding pampering.

The Petite Spa at the Jefferson
For brides-to-be who want to feel extra special, head to the Petite Spa at the Jefferson where spa experiences are customized to your needs. Spa treatments incorporate herbs and botanicals sourced from Monticello’s gardens. In addition to the standard issue spa treatments, this spa also offers a unique vinotherapy massage, which uses chardonnay grape seed extract inspired by Thomas Jefferson’s love for wine.

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The Red Door by Elizabeth Arden
Every bride-to-be deserves a day to luxuriate at the The Red Door by Elizabeth Arden before they get hitched. We suggest treating yourself to the works (hey, you earned it!) with the Sitting Pretty bridal package that features a facial or massage, a detoxifying seaweed wrap, a mani and pedi, a makeup refresher, and a spa lunch to complete the relaxing day. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Bliss Spa at W Washington D.C.
A hip vibe, a glamorous nail lounge, jazz music filling the air, and a menu filled with cheeky named spa treatments make the Bliss Spa at the W Washington D.C. a great choice for a bride-to-be who just wants to let loose and relax. Go for popular treatments like the triple oxygen facial to make your face glowy, the betweeny wax to get smooth for the honeymoon, and the head to glow treatment, which includes a facial, body wrap, and a massage. Whatever you do, don’t forget to check out the brownie bar.

The Spa at the Mandarin Oriental Washington DC
Spend a day at the luxurious spa at the Mandarin Oriental and you’ll emerge feeling renewed and ready to walk down the aisle. The space is bathed in neutral colors and aromatherapy candles fill the air with soothing scents. The spa’s Life Enhancing ritual is perfect for a bride-to-be. Get pampered from head-to-toe with an ocean and earth body wrap, an 80-minute massage, a diamond facial, and a mani and pedi.

Looking for more beauty specials to take advantage of before your big day? Check out our Local Vendors page!

With more sunshine — and temperatures more consistently above 70 — comes more opportunity to be outdoors. While many bemoan the heat and humidity, others live all year for the chance to spend as many hours as possible in the open air.

Particularly if you live in an urban center, where you may be more likely to suffer from anxiety, depression or other mental illnesses, making time to get out in the greenery (and the sun and the wind!) can be tremendously therapeutic. Time in nature can boost mood, productivity, physical health, social connections and overall happiness by reducing stress and negativity.

Whether you’re running, hiking, cycling or just soaking up the great outdoors, here are some of the benefits you can expect to experience from spending more time in nature.

Natural Stress Release
Being in nature has been shown to help individuals cultivate a more positive attitude and sensory awareness, which can further generate an awareness of one’s own emotions and emotional triggers to better mind and moderate them. Spaciousness, especially when it means separation from our stressors, can be an effective stress-management tool: all the more so when we’re surrounded by trees, listening to birdsong instead of the bing-bong text message sound on our phones. Plus, being around plants has been shown to lower levels of cortisol and blood pressure, good indicators of increased stress.

More Energy
According to a study conducted by the David Suzuki Foundation in Canada, where participants spent thirty minutes in nature each day for thirty straight days, spending more time outdoors significantly increases people’s sense of well-being. Being outdoors is naturally energizing (it’s our natural habitat!), as it taps into an ancient part of the brain that needs to focus when surrounded by nature. It’s a different kind of focus than being in the concrete jungle, one that allows us to hear and see the little things we might not otherwise notice. This shift of thinking can reset the mind and body, leaving us feeling more energized and alive when we return to less natural environments.

Better Sleep
Participants in the Suzuki Foundation’s “30X30 Challenge” also reported fewer sleep disturbances. Not only does the activity and fresh oxygen associated with being outdoors prime the body for sleep, a calmer mind is more likely to drift off easily at the end of the day.

Improved Outlook
Apart from the break from computer screens and social media being in nature provides, a study out of Stanford University showed that brain undergoes noticeable changes after just 90 minutes outdoors. Participants who walked in a quiet, tree-lined park showed less activity in the part of the brain responsible for ‘morbid rumination,’ or brooding — the endless loop of worry and regret we dwell on about everything we think is wrong in our lives. Compared with participants who walked along a busy highway, the nature group showed a marked decrease in this negative activity and reported improved outlooks on their future. Just 90 minutes? Sounds like something we could make time for.

Stronger Immune System
Another gift from nature? Phytoncides. These compounds are produced by plants to protect them from insects and rot, and there is evidence to suggest these airborne chemicals benefit humans, too! Forest, parks and other places with ample greenery can increase immune function, which may mean fewer sniffles this season (and next winter!).

Improved Memory and Cognition
Because nature encourages the brain to enter a state similar to meditation, there is evidence to suggest is improves memory and cognition. Just twenty minutes surrounded by plants showed improved scores on memory tests according to a study at the University of Michigan. This might translate to improved performance at work, longer-term memory preservation and more creative thinking.

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Are you a caffeine fiend looking to add something special to your wedding registry? Or are you looking for an engagement, shower or wedding gift for that couple that just can’t live without a cup of joe (or three) in the morning? We’ve brewed up 10 ideas just for you!

1. This stoneware coffee canister from Crate & Barrel will jazz up any kitchen countertop. Pair it with the tea and utensil canisters for the complete look. ($9.95; Crate & Barrel).

2. The Compendious Coffee Chart artfully displays the myriad ways to produce a cup of coffee — from Chemex contraptions to a simple automatic drip. This poster can be ordered mounted, framed, or as is. (From $29; Pop Chart Lab).

3. Madagascar Bourbon Pure Vanilla Sugar is a delicious blend of gourmet baker’s sugar and Madagascar Bourbon Pure Vanilla Extract. Add it to coffee for a vanilla latte-esque taste, or sprinkle it on top of your morning pancakes or pastries. ($18.95; Williams-Sonoma).

4. The Mr. Coffee mug warmer allows you to nurse your morning cup of coffee without continuously walking to the microwave. Use it at home on lazy Sundays, or keep it at your office desk. ($9.99; Target).

5. Featuring kitchen-grade 18/8 stainless steel and double-wall vacuum insulation, YETI Rambler Tumblers will keep your coffee hot for hours on end. The clear, shatterproof lid even allows you to see how much of your drink is left. (From $29.99; YETI).

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6. House guests will be more than impressed when you serve them from this elegant white bone china coffee pot. If it feels too fancy for the early morning, use it to serve decaf coffee with dessert after a dinner party. ($249.99; Bed Bath and Beyond).

7. Save time and money each morning by brewing your own cup of espresso rather than hitting the local coffee shop. This De’Longhi model includes a milk container to top off each drink with a burst of steamed or frothed milk. ($579.99; Macy’s).

8. Add that special coffee house touch to your latte, cappuccino, or macchiato with a battery-operated frother. This oval BonJour model includes a chrome stand for easy storage. ($17.99; BonJour).

9. Many coffee purists will argue that the French press is the only way to brew a cup of coffee. Enhance the flavor of your morning java with the Bodum® Chambord French Press. (From $29.95; Sur La Table).

10. A monthly subscription from Craft Coffee is the gift that keeps on giving. Recipients can start with the classic three-coffee sampler or choose the Single Origin Roaster’s Choice — a rotating mix of the world’s absolute finest coffees. (From $29.99 for 1 month; Craft Coffee).

Just when you’ve finally tackled your wedding guest list and agreed on the final invitees, up pops yet another potentially sticky situation — the rehearsal dinner guest list. Fear not, brides and grooms — we’ve broken down the etiquette for each potential rehearsal dinner invitee to help guide you as you plan for your night before the big day!

Immediate Family
This might seem fairly obvious, but the immediate family of the bride and groom should always be invited to the rehearsal dinner this means parents, siblings, and grandparents. Your wedding symbolizes not only the joining of you and your soon-to-be spouse in marriage, but also your families joining as well. This dinner is the perfect opportunity for some quality family time before your wedding, where no matter how hard you try, you won’t have nearly as much time to spend with them.

Close Extended Family
Here’s where it gets a little ambiguous. By no means should you feel obligated to invite your aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. However, if your families are small and you only have perhaps two or three on each side you’d really love to join you, go for it! Often, couples will invite their godparents, or closest extended family members to join them at this celebration before the celebration.

Bridal Party
Traditionally, all bridal party members should be invited to the rehearsal dinner. Essentially, it’s a must. Plus ones, however, is where it gets tricky. Some etiquette experts suggest that if the bridal party member is invited to your wedding with a date, they should also be able to bring the date to the dinner party on your wedding eve. Others argue that the “plus one” option need only apply on your actual wedding date. If you have a flower girl or ring bearer, technically they should be invited too — but this largely depends on their age and relationships. If they are a child of a bridal party member, it would go a long way to invite them. If not, a non-invitation makes more sense.

Out-of-Town Guests
For guests that are traveling for your big day, it’s a nice token to extend a rehearsal dinner invitation. They’re taking on the expense of time and money to celebrate you, so including them in your pre-wedding celebrations is often customary. However, each situation is unique. If you’re having a destination wedding, for example — everyone is traveling, so if you’re having an intimate rehearsal dinner, you clearly can’t invite everyone. Unlike your bridal party and immediate family, this one’s entirely up to you.

Officiant
Many couples choose officiants they have close relationships with. If this is the case, whether it’s a religious leader you’ve grown close with through they ears, or your best friend — invite them to the rehearsal dinner with you. Typically, it will be immediately following your actual rehearsal, and it’s a customary gesture that will surely be appreciated, and welcomed.

Ultimately, whom you invite to your rehearsal dinner is up to you. Just be certain that while determining your guest list, you factor in your budget and venue accommodations.

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