It looks like Anderson East has some major competition for the heart of the country crooner. Miranda Lambert just said ‘yes’ to one of the cutest marriage proposals we’ve ever seen. But no, the country singer’s boyfriend, blues singer Anderson East, wasn’t the one who popped the question. A young fan by the name of Sebastian beat him to it, asking to wed Lambert during a concert meet-and-greet. The heartthrob-in-training even had a enviable engagement ring for his bride! Time to step up your game, East…

Lambert got more than a standing ovation during the New Jersey leg of her concert tour on Saturday. Her country crooning performance also managed to earn a stunning sparkler from a six-year-old fan! Before the show, Lambert met a few concert goers backstage and one was just so taken by the blonde beauty that he popped the question right then and there, People magazine reports.

When it was his turn to meet the songstress, six-year-old Sebastian dropped to one knee and proposed to Lambert with a pretty-in-pink engagement ring. Too cute! “I got engaged today,” Lambert revealed to the audience during the concert. “There’s a little six-year-old boy somewhere here named Sebastian. He asked me to marry him and I say, ‘Yes, in 25 years,'” she said, flashing her new bling to the crowd.

“When he came to my meet-and-greet, he got down on one knee and he was such a gentleman,” continued Lambert. “It may be my favorite proposal ever… ‘Cause, girls? We deserve that.” Ouch! Was that a not-so-subtle dig to her ex-husband, Blake Shelton?

Lambert later shared a proposal pic of the sweet moment on Instagram. And guys, it’s just the cutest! “I said YES!” the singer captioned the photo. “But he has to wait 25 years. This sweet boy Sebastian is a little gentleman.”

Let’s hope Anderson East is taking notes! The man could really learn a thing or two from Lambert’s pint-sized fiancé.

I said YES! But he has to wait 25 years. this sweet boy Sebastian is a little gentleman. #pinkring #proposal #mademyday #jersey #spreadthelovetour??????

A photo posted by Miranda Lambert (@mirandalambert) on Aug 21, 2016 at 10:33am PDT

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After you have walked down the aisle, whispered “I Do” and locked lips with the love of your life, you’ll spend the rest of the night dancing, eating and hugging guests. But once that’s all over and the night comes to and end, one thing you can look forward to is wedding gifts. Chances are each of your guests gave you a little something, whether it was an item from your registry or just cold hard cash. Either way, those gifts are yours. If you’re wondering what to use all that wedding cash for, here are 7 ideas to get you started.

1. Clear Your Debt
If you have a stack of unpaid credit card bills or student loans that are still haunting your finances, you can use the money you received from your wedding to clear your debt and start from a clean slate.

2. Pay Back Your Parents
If your parents picked up most of the bill for your wedding, you can write them a check to pay back some of the money they spent throwing you the celebration of a lifetime. Even if the amount of money you received from wedding gifts doesn’t amount to the total that they spent, you can still offer to pay back a portion.

3. Open a Savings Account
Put the money away for a rainy day and don’t spend a penny of it now. You never know when you’ll need some of the money — whether it’s to pay for a future emergency or even for a future purchase that you’ll need to pay a lot of money for upfront.

4. Put a Down Payment on a House
Use that money to pay for a down payment on a house or to buy an apartment to live in. If you’ve been renting for years and looking for an opportunity to buy, use the large sum of money you just received to make you a homeowner.

5. Invest in the Future
It may be hard to put the money you received away for a long time, but you do have the option to invest that money in a mutual fund or an IRA. If you’re planning on having kids, you can even think far ahead to the future and put the money in a CD for a college fund.

6. Let Yourself Have Some Fun
Remember, you can do what you want with the money. There are no rules attached. So no matter what you decide to do, use a chunk of the money on something fun, whether it’s investing in a new hobby or buying that 72-inch TV for your living room.

7. Take off On a Honeymoon
If after paying for the wedding expenses you feel can’t afford to have a honeymoon, you can use the gifts you received from your guests to plan a honeymoon for the next year or two.

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

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While word on the street is that the ceremony is for the couple and the reception is for the guests, that doesn’t mean the two of you shouldn’t have an absolute blast at your party! When you’re planning the details, there are sure to be a few things you include because the two of you love them, whether it’s that steamed bun appetizer or your favorite flavor of cake. And of course, there are drinks! Whether you’re huge bourbon fans or are serving your all-time favorite cabernet, you’ll want to make sure you both get a few glasses. So can you ask your bartender to set some aside? Our experts weigh in.

There’s nothing stopping you from setting aside a bottle to make sure your drink of choice is available all night long. Of course, you’ll want to check with your caterer first. Most won’t have a problem setting something aside for the bride or groom (and a great wedding bartender will make note of what you’re drinking and save some for you without being asked!), but on the off chance that there is a policy, either theirs or the venue’s, that doesn’t allow their staff to do so, you’ll want to know in advance so you can order extra just in case.

If setting aside a bottle or two is a-okay, make sure you know which bar your drink of choice will be stashed at. Consider putting a note on the bottle (“BRIDE AND GROOM ONLY” should get the point across!) in case a different bartender jumps behind the bar and doesn’t realize the drinks are for the two of you. And of course, don’t be afraid to share! You may love gin, but chances are you won’t need that whole bottle. As the evening comes to an end, spread the love!

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Hi Emily, My fiancé and I have a great relationship and one of our favorite things to do is travel. My question is, what are the rules for flying with sex toys? We fly a lot and have been talking about purchasing a few toys to bring with us on our adventures, we just haven’t been sure how to go about it. What toys travel well? What might get us busted and embarrassed in a long airport line? For example, I’ve had my eye on the Magic Wand for a long time. This may sound silly, but I’m not sure if I can only fly with it in my checked bag or if I can carry it on with me. I checked online, but couldn’t find much on the TSA website (no big surprise there). Can you help us get more pleasure out of our adventures abroad? Elizabeth

Dear Elizabeth,

I LOVE this question! It’s summer, which means that everyone’s working out their traveling plans. With all the stress-inducing logistics of getting from the airport to your destination, I think it’s only fair that you deserve to be having as much fun as legally possible. And we all know that one of the best parts of every vacation is vacation sex! So why not bring some extra stimulation to enhance your adventures?

Like a lot of people, you’re naturally nervous about having your most intimate sexual secrets exposed in an International Terminal as the TSA follows that mysterious buzzing sound into your carry-on. Worse yet, what if they open your suitcase and now all your fellow travelers know that you’re REALLY into anal play. But are they going to arrest you for having too much fun?

Here’s the answer: no. Unless you’re flying in Alabama (which still has some bans on buying toys in state), you are certainly, legally allowed to travel with your sex toys. You can take sex toys through security (ask me about the time I was coming home from a sex toy convention in Vegas with multiple suitcases full of buzzing bunnies, wands and dildos)! Yes, you can even carry the master of all personal massagers the Magic Wand through security either tucked into your bag or walking through the terminal waving it like a fairy princess! (Although you may not want to draw that much attention.)

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One thing a lot of people worry about is the device turning on mid-travels. I’ve learned some creative ways to pack my toys to avoid in-flight luggage shifting inadvertently bumping the button and turning on my fully charged or battery-operated buddies. The easiest solution is The Boot Trick: tuck the toy into a boot to keep it secure. You can also wrap your toys in bubble wrap or put a cardboard tube around the part with the button (like a toilet paper or paper towel tube). Another easy fix is to take the batteries out, and replace them when you get to the hotel. For toys that use a charger, just leave them running before you pack to drain their battery and recharge them when you reach your destination.

As far as travel-friendly toys go, Fun Factory makes all their vibrators with a travel lock function specifically designed for this purpose. Here are a few of my don’t-leave-home-without-the-fun favorites:

1. The Amorino This travel companion is considered one of the top-rated G-spot/dual stimulation toys on the market. It has an insertable shaft plus external nub for clitoral stimulation. But one of my favorite features is the yellow band! This adjustable strap twists to change the angle, shape and sensation, since there’s no such thing as one-size-fits-all pleasure. Complete with a clitoral nub this waterproof and anal-friendly vibrator is rechargeable, whisper quiet and transmits six levels of intense vibrations up and down your lady parts for a whole new sensation.

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2. The Womanizer Deluxe For the ultimate discretion, you can choose a sex toy that doesn’t look like a toy at all! This innovative German-engineered toy recreates the sensation of oral sex using multi-intensity levels of indirect clitoral stimulation. Not only is it incredibly quiet, it actually looks more like a bedazzled ear thermometer than a device. The TSA will have no idea what they’re waving through.

The Magic Wand Want to skip all the fancy bells and whistles and just pack a powerful orgasmic punch? The Magic Wand is a classic that keeps people coming…back, again and again. It’s a bigger travel companion, but my Boot Trick is an easy solution to save on space. Plus, you’ve got options! You can choose between the OG version with an electrical cord or the new rechargeable model.

The bottom line is this: No matter where in the world we travel, we can keep our sex lives interesting and fun without worrying about “getting caught” or doing something illegal. Rest assured that by bringing one of these vibrators along with you you’re not doing anything wrong. At the very worst, there could be an awkward exchange if a TSA agent isn’t quite sure what they’re holding. But in my EXTENSIVE experience, they’re always a good conversation starter! Just keep your sense of humor. Happy travels!

Emily Morse is a sexologist, host of the Sex With Emily podcast, and cofounder of the intimate care line Emily & Tony. She has a doctorate in human sexuality and is the author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight and a weekly cohost of the nationally syndicated radio show Loveline With Dr. Drew Pinsky.

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This article originally appeared on Glamour.

If you’re looking to plan the wedding of your dreams but don’t have much help financially, it’s still doable. Everyone knows that weddings are infamous for how expensive they are, but that’s not a reason to run away from having one just because you think it’s impossible to pay for it all by yourself. You can (and you will!) as long as you have a game plan and think outside of the box. To get you started, here are 5 creative ideas to help you pay for your wedding.

1. Start Saving Now (Even if You’re Not Engaged)
Start a savings account for your wedding and put away a few hundred dollars every month — even if you’re not engaged. Call this your secret wedding fund and when the time comes to plan your big celebration, you won’t have to start from scratch in the money-saving department.

2. Sell What You No Longer Need
Do a “spring” cleaning (no matter the month) and find things you no longer use or need. Try to sell those things, whether they are appliances, clothing, furniture, or electronics. Your trash may be someone else’s treasure, and sometimes even for a price tag that’ll help you pay your florist.

3. Get a Side Hustle
Pick up another job, whether it’s a part-time or weekend gig that’ll pay you some extra cash every month or week. Babysitting jobs, working seasonal jobs at department stores, or getting a position at a restaurant are some easy-to-find positions that will help you bump up your wedding fund stat.

4. Negotiate With Vendors
Cut costs with vendors by negotiating with them, if you can. For brides-to-be with hidden talents, go out on a limb and ask your vendors if they are interested in a barter, where you can use a skill of yours to help them — in exchange for a discount or, better yet, free service. Perhaps you’re good with SEO, marketing, or some other skill that pertains to helping small businesses, it may be worth a shot.

5. Get a “Loan” (From Yourself!)
For couples who have larger savings accounts but don’t want to readily dip into them for a wedding, to create the wedding of your dreams, you may want to reconsider. Even if it means digging deep into your account to fund your wedding, you can set up a plan to strategically use the money and keep track of it carefully. Then, once the wedding is over, use all of the checks and gifts that your wedding guests have brought to pay yourself back.

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

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Chris Hardwick — stand-up comedian, Nerdist CEO, and Talking Dead talk show host — just wed his sweetheart, actress Lydia Hearst, and according to the bride their love will never die! The cute couple wed in a Pasadena, California ceremony on Saturday and their love of science fiction — and each other, of course! — was obvious throughout their beautiful big day.

“My love for you will never die,” Hearst captioned a zombie-filtered photo of herself and her groom (see below) the night before the nupitals. “I cannot wait to share my life with Chris,” the publishing heiress shared with People magazine. “He’s my love, my partner, my friend, everything!” Well, now she can officially add ‘hubby’ to that list after their weekend wedding!

For the big day, Hearst donned an unconventional and colorful custom wedding dress by Christian Siriano, featuring a layered hem dyed a funky pink hue. Meanwhile, the groom looked dashing in a custom Prada suit. And the bridal party included Hearst’s famous friend, Michelle Trachtenberg. “I could never have envisioned a more perfect wedding day,” the bride said.

After a ceremony filled with red roses, Vanda orchids, and Tardis blue hydrangeas (What? They are sci-fi lovers, after all!), the couple made their way to the reception where guests like actress Yvette Nicole Brown and actor Nathan Fillion were there to celebrate. The wedding party dined on a fabulous four-course meal and traditional wedding cake, but that wasn’t even the sweetest part of the day.

In lieu of wedding gifts, Hardwick and Hearst opted to have guests donate to charity in celebration of their nupitals. “[Lydia] and I are incredibly fortunate people and didn’t feel right taking gifts from anyone,” the groom wrote online. “Our wedding registry instead is a menu of five wonderful charities that we asked our guests to pick any or all of to make a donation toward.” The list of non-profits included St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Operation Smile, GLAAD, Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation, and the Best Friends Animal Society, according to E! News.

We couldn’t be happier for these gorgeous — and generous! — newlyweds!

My love for you will never die @hardwick ????

A photo posted by Lydia Hearst ???? (@lydiahearst) on Aug 19, 2016 at 4:19pm PDT

A photo posted by Michael Uncapher (@michael_marksgarden) on Aug 21, 2016 at 7:37am PDT

A photo posted by Lydia Hearst ???? (@lydiahearst) on Aug 13, 2016 at 8:49am PDT

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Is there a hubby of the year competition at the Rio de Janeiro Olympics? Because Chris Pratt is pretty much guaranteed to take home the gold! Sure, we’ve known that Pratt and his wife of seven years Anna Faris are the cutest couple, like, ever for awhile now. They’re hilarious, have the most adorable little son ever, and are just too darn sweet. But who knew that Pratt also had a knack for hairstyling? As it turns out, the actor learned how to french braid his wife’s hair for the sweetest of reasons. And in our opinion, helping with your wife’s haircare ritual is totally gold medal worthy.

As if you didn’t love these two enough already, Pratt recently revealed to Instyle that he and Faris bond over a nightly ritual that consists of the Jurassic World actor braiding his sweetheart’s long blonde locks. “My sister taught me how to braid when we were younger. Then, I would braid Anna’s hair at night… It was a nice little ritual.” That’s enough to make us swoon, but Pratt then got even sweeter.

All that braiding starting wrecking havoc on his wife’s hair. But Pratt, her ever-loving hubby, soon came to Faris’ rescue with a stylish solution. “Her hair started breaking off at the top of the braid because she was sleeping on it,” the actor explained. “Anna’s mom thought a French braid might distribute the pressure. She taught me when we were in Hawaii shooting Jurassic World.”

So now Pratt is a bona-fide braiding expert, showing off his hairstyling skills all over Instagram. “This is a weird thing to brag about but I did that glorious french braid,” Pratt captioned a social media snapshot of Faris’ braided locks, including the hashtag “#RealMenBraid.”

Think Pratt’s taking bookings for wedding hairstyling? We’d so hire him…

This is a weird thing to brag about but I did that glorious french braid. #Baller #man #ManBraid #RealMenBraid #isItBrade? #SpellingQuestion #StillBallerTho #WhyIsItFrench??? #ICallItAFreedomBraid #GoUsa

A photo posted by chris pratt (@prattprattpratt) on Apr 21, 2014 at 9:18am PDT

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Pulling out your hair due to your budget? Seating chart giving you hives? Mother-in-law driving you cuckoo with her guest list adds? Then, girl, you’ve earned yourself a spa day. (Even if the only thing stressing you out is trying to organize your many, many Pinterest boards, then you still deserve one. It’s a bridal right.) Check out these northern New Jersey locales that provide the absolute best in pre-wedding relaxation — only a hop, skip, and a jump from NYC.

Massage Envy
With locales all throughout the state and appointments until late in the evening, Massage Envy has the convenient relaxation thing down pat. Though not necessarily conducive to an all day spa day, Massage Envy provides massages, reflexology and trigger point therapy at prices so affordable you can work them into your monthly routine. Relax and grab some water and a snack in any of the locales’ waiting areas to start your decompression early. Massage Envy’s quiet music and attentive staff will make sure that by the time you leave your spa session, you’ll hardly remember that you have 200 favor boxes to put together.

Hoboken Wellness Spa
For ladies looking for a more spiritual recovery, Hoboken Wellness Spa is the place for you. The salon, which offers traditional services like massages and facials, also provides Reiki sessions that are meant to rebalance energy. With minimal décor in a pleasing pastel color scheme and a focus on Ayurvedic philosophies, Hoboken Wellness Spa will ensure that mind, body and spirit are in tune before you walk out the door.

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Bliss
The beauty giant has been so successful for a reason: it knows what it’s doing. The company’s locations seem like the fun younger sister of stodgy, older spas — with a fun vibe that is still quiet enough to not be disruptive. Book an appointment to sit alongside your bestie for a mani-pedi before you go your separate ways for a massage or body treatment chosen off the company’s expansive services menu. (Seriously, there are dozens of options available!) Make sure to stop by Bliss’ massive store before check out to stock up on its proprietary line of beauty and personal care products so you can recreate the experience at home!

The Fountain Spa
The day spa is all about luxury — the company has boasted of providing a “resort spa experience close to home” for more than 20 years. The brides special day package includes some alone time in a private whirlpool bath before throwing on your complimentary slippers and robe and heading to a body scrub, a relaxing massage and a stress relieving pedicure. Wrap the day up with a bite at the spa’s Tranquility Room where you can nosh on complimentary cookies and snacks. (Want to share some relaxation time with your fiancé? The Fountain also offers couples packages that include a whirlpool bath for two and side by side massages.) The no-cell phones policy, quiet atmosphere and ubiquitous fountains all contribute to the feeling that you’re a million miles away. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Cortiva Institute
Need someone to work out the knots in your shoulders but don’t want to break the bank? If you’re just looking for a basic service without too much emphasis on ambiance, consider heading over to Cortiva’s massage therapy center in Hoboken, New Jersey. At the location, therapy students get the opportunity to work on clients at prices way below those of other spas. All the students have completed a good chunk of instruction already, and work under the supervision of a licensed massage practitioner, so you’re in good hands at nearly half the rate of a traditional health club.

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This is it… The final countdown to your big day. And along with settling those last few details — figuring out where to seat your eccentric Uncle Carl, firming up the flowers — you’re likely also making one last push to make sure the body that will be wearing that gorgeous white gown looks as good as it possibly can. You and nearly every other woman with an engagement ring on her finger. In fact, research shows that an overwhelming 91 percent of brides-to-be are anxious about their weight. But from here on out, you won’t have to be!

Whether you want to drop those last few pounds or look more toned — or both — we’ve got a month’s worth of daily tips (none of which require starving yourself or working out nonstop!) that will help you feel stunning and confident when you walk down that aisle. You know where to send the thank-you card. Let’s get started!

Day 21: Spice Things Up!

“Spicy foods are really hot right now — forgive the pun,” says Rachel Beller, R.D., of Beller Nutritional Institute in Beverly Hills and author of Power Souping.

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“Before awards show season, many of my actress clients start putting Sriracha and hot peppers on everything. It enhances the flavor of your food in a calorie-free way, and has been shown to bump up your metabolism. And before hitting the red carpet they — like you — want every edge they can get.”

A study done at the University of California, Los Angeles found that a substance called capsaicin, which gives hot peppers their heat, causes your metabolism to double in speed, and stay elevated for several hours after eating a spicy meal. That can translate to an extra 100 to 200 calorie burn a day.

Get that hot sauce ready!

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After the months spent planning your wedding down to the tiniest of details, doing the same for your honeymoon can start to feel like a chore. Yes, you’re planning a fabulous vacation, but just figuring out where to go is a tall order! From boutique hotels to sprawling resort, and cruises to all-inclusives, the options are endless. If you’re looking for something off-the-beaten-path, though, look no further than Airbnb. With hosts and properties all over the world, you’ll be able to truly immerse yourselves in your honeymoon experience, surrounded by authentic sights and sounds and with a cozy (and private!) retreat waiting for you at the end of the day. We spoke to Chip Conley, Airbnb’s Head of Global Hospitality, to get a few tips for making the most of your Airbnb honeymoon. Conley also gave us a peek into the travel site’s top 10 most wished-for properties. Start planning!

1. Be specific. “Once you’ve narrowed down your location, use the map function to zero-in on desired neighborhoods and areas of interest,” Conley advises. The more specific you are when you’re searching, the more likely you’ll be to find an Airbnb property that lives up to all of your expectations.
2. Don’t forget amenities. “Whatever your needs, use the filters to ensure that the home you choose is right for you,” Conley explains.
3. Read the reviews! “Past travelers’ reviews will help you determine whether your host meets the travel style you’re looking for,” says Conley. From a partial-share to a chateau to yourselves, a stocked kitchen to bikes you can use to cruise around town, this will have a major impact on your experience.
4. Get in touch ahead of time. “Your host can make recommendations that will enhance your trip, and will likely know all of the great local spots,” Conley says. “Ask questions and use your host as a resource!”
5. Read the house rules. As Conley puts it, “No one likes surprises!” House rules will outline things like whether or not pets are allowed, if the neighborhood has quiet hours, and whether there is parking available.

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And now, the top 10 most wished-for honeymoon properties on Airbnb.

1. Heading to Costa Rica? Kick off your marriage in a handcrafted treehouse in the Bio Thermales natural resort, surrounded by jungle trails and 12 natural hot and cold springs.
2. Nothing says honeymoon like Hawaii. Built by Animal Planet’s Treehouse Masters on the island of Hawai’i, this split-level bungalo is just minutes from Kilauea, a stunning active volcano.
3. Fall asleep to the sounds of crashing waves at this Balinese cottage on Kealakekua Bay on the Big Island. Nestled beneath a ficus tree and surrounded by a historic village, it’s the perfect spot for a quiet, intimate honeymoon getaway.
4. Be one with nature in this Costa Rican treehouse, with monkeys, sloths, and iguanas right off the porch.
5. In the heart of Santorini’s most famous village, this traditional Greek-style home flaunts crisp white stucco and uninterrupted ocean views.
6. For 360-degree jungle views, head to this secluded bamboo treehouse, 15 feet up in the canopy on the Big Island of Hawai’i.
7. Watch the sunrise over the beach in a Balinese surfer village from the comfort of your own Indonesian treehouse, then settle in by the water with fruit fresh from the garden.
8. Relax and unwind in this remodeled 1930s cottage in the hills above Maui that famously played host to Jimmy Hendrix in the ’70s.
9. Escape the tourists at the famous Seashell House in Isla Mujeres, and immerse yourselves in local modern legend.
10. A traditional fisherman’s cave, this stunningly restored property dangles on a cliff in the picturesque village of Oia in Santorini.