When it comes celebrity dream BFFs, the hilarious Amy Schumer always manages to top our list. And this weekend, the actress’ good pal just basically lived out our fantasy when she scored Schumer as a bridesmaid at her wedding! Schumer took on bridesmaid duties like an old pro, donning the dress, the ‘do, and even brought along a handsome plus-one. And best of all, we’re betting that there were no pre-wedding jitters for this bride. How could there be with the hilarious comedian at her side?

Schumer may be busy filming her latest movie with Goldie Hawn in Hawaii, but this weekend was all about the bride! Schumer attended the wedding of her newlywed friends, Tara Alana and Rusty Fitton, snagging the gig of bridesmaid at the nuptials. For the big day, the comedian complemented the bride’s strapless mermaid wedding dress in a strapless bridesmaid dress in the super trendy soft blush hue. Schumer’s blonde locks were also giving us major wedding hair goals, as it was swept up and away from her face in a bohemian-chic braided up-do.

In case you wanted an inspiration photo to print out for your stylist, Schumer has got you covered. (Thanks, girl!) The Trainwreck actress posted a pic (see below) on Instagram of the wedding festivities with the bride, groom, and her plus-one, boyfriend Ben Hanisch.

“Congratulations to @tara_alana and @rustolleum in the best wedding ever,” Schumer captioned the black-and-white snapshot. “Very proud to be a bmaid.” She also got in on the photobooth fun, snapping a few pics with friends and tons of too-funny props at the reception. Schumer was never one to pass up a hilarious photo op, after all. (Anyone remember when she threw herself down on the red carpet in front of Kim Kardashian and Kanye West?)

See More: 37 Times Celebrities Were Bridesmaids

But while we loved seeing Schumer’s bridesmaid frock and locks, we’re even more excited to see her boyfriend Ben at her side! Inviting your significant other to a wedding? We say that’s definitely a major relationship milestone! Now we’re wondering if Schumer caught the bouquet… Here’s hoping these two cuties are next up to walk down the aisle. Think this future bride will be doing a stand-up set at her own reception?

Congratulations to @tara_alana and @rustolleum in the best wedding ever. Very proud to be a bmaid.

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Planning a bachelorette party can be a little bit stressful, especially if it’s something you’ve never done before. If you’re a maid-of-honor or a bridesmaid that’s been given the task of planning a weekend for the bride to celebrate beside her closest circle of friends, you may feel the pressure to plan something that’ll be memorable for years to come. Before you get started, take note of these six important things to know when planning your first bachelorette party.

1. Listen to the Bride
If she says she doesn’t want a stripper or a weekend in Vegas taking shot after shot after shot, listen to her. Don’t ignore the things she truly doesn’t want or else you’ll find yourself with one very unhappy bride and a crew of bridesmaids that just want to find a way to go home.

2. Set a Budget
You may be able to spend $1,000 on the bachelorette party as the maid of honor, but the other bridesmaids may only be able to spend $200 or $500. Before you make grand plans, reach out to all the women invited and see what their budget is. Find a way to accommodate everyone if possible.

3. Ask Someone Else to Plan It
If your personal life is keeping you busy or you’re not keen on planning the bachelorette party, hire a planning service to book your travel and set your itinerary for you. They’ll take on the party planning for you so that you can focus on your job and personal responsibilities.

4. Forget Tradition
Bachelorette parties don’t have to be wild and messy. They can be calm and sober. Plan one that’s in-line with the bride’s style, hobbies and lifestyle.

See More: The 7 Social Media Rules You Must Follow at Bachelorette Parties

5. Have a Backup Plan
When you’re dealing with travel plans and a group of people, things make not go as smoothly as you hoped. It’s always good to have a backup plan in case the flight is delayed, the day turns out to be rainy or the bride just doesn’t feel like doing an activity that you thought she’d be excited about.

6. Go With the Flow
Since there are so many moving parts to planning a bachelorette party, try to just go with the flow. Even if you spent weeks planning the party and then see all your plans changing in seconds, keep a positive attitude and the rest of the bridesmaids will join you.

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

In 2009, Time magazine said that hipsters were “the friends who sneer when you cop to liking Coldplay… Everything about them is exactingly constructed to give off the vibe that they just don’t care.” If you’re a true ‘hipster’ you likely balk at the term, but if you want a wedding that’s a bit left of mainstream, with indie bands for your music choices and perhaps a vintage or industrial vibe, check out these perfect venues in San Francisco.

Terra Gallery (Above)
One of the largest spaces, the Terra Gallery in SOMA features two levels that total 24,000 square feet of space. There’s a 5,000-square-foot upper level with white gallery walls, 20-foot ceilings, floor-to-ceiling windows and Brazilian cherry hardwood floors, plus a lower level with inlaid glass tile serpentine bars, hardwood floors, a built-in stage and a 3,000-square-foot outdoor area that can seat up to 300 people — or provide the perfect space for a late-night food truck party. Read real brides reviews here!

Dogpatch WineWorks
Located in the up-and-coming Dogpatch neighborhood, Dogpatch Wine Works offers a more industrial space — and a huge one at that. The 15,000-square-foot venue has 20-foot ceilings, white brick walls, concrete floors, large windows, vintage-looking leather banquettes, and old wood vines for decorative accents. The working winery offers flexible space (use all or part of the tasting room) and lets parties decide between using their own caterers or not. because it’s a winery, they can assist with wine pairings for your meal — major bonus!

Tank18, Inc.
Another urban winery in San Francisco, Tank18, Inc., is set in SOMA and offers 6,000 square feet of space for a capacity of more than 200 guests. In addition to the large bar, there’s a chalkboard wall, rafted ceilings, walls lined with wine bottles, and plenty of space for a large dance floor.

See More: From Indie Foursomes to Jazz Ensembles, Find the Wedding Band of Your Dreams Here

Foreign Cinema
Set in the most hipster of hip neighborhoods, the Mission, Foreign Cinema is a restaurant with a focus on local, sustainable, seasonally-changing California cuisine. Though the entrance nods to an Art Deco, Old Hollywood feel, the interior has the sort of blond wood tables and high ceilings you’d expect in a farm-to-table restaurant. There are several areas for events; for a wedding the best option would be to buy out the whole space which includes the main dining room, mezzanine, and the patio, where you can project movies on the wall. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Scribe Winery
For something outside the city, check out Sonoma’s Scribe Winery, a hipster haven set on top of a small hill overlooking the property’s vines. There’s a small covered barn area, but this is mostly an outdoor space, with a few picnic tables and twinkle lights strung beneath the trees. For a wedding that feels more like an old-fashioned picnic, plan for some lawn games or spread picnic blankets for casual, relaxed seating. The winery site also contains a sprawling — and reportedly haunted — hacienda, which is in the process of being renovated, and will eventually be open for events. In the meantime, it makes for a striking photo backdrop.

Looking for a big day locale with a slightly different vibe? Browse our San Francisco Venues page for even more places to throw your bash!

This is it… The final countdown to your big day. And along with settling those last few details — figuring out where to seat your eccentric Uncle Carl, firming up the flowers — you’re likely also making one last push to make sure the body that will be wearing that gorgeous white gown looks as good as it possibly can. You and nearly every other woman with an engagement ring on her finger. In fact, research shows that an overwhelming 91 percent of brides-to-be are anxious about their weight. But from here on out, you won’t have to be!

Whether you want to drop those last few pounds or look more toned — or both — we’ve got a month’s worth of daily tips (none of which require starving yourself or working out nonstop!) that will help you feel stunning and confident when you walk down that aisle. You know where to send the thank-you card. Let’s get started!

Day 15: Drop Sets

Never heard of drop sets before? It’s a super effective weight training technique where you lift a fairly heavy amount of weight and do as many reps as you can until the point of fatigue (where you physically can’t do another rep).

Take a quick rest, then drop the amount of weight you use — say, going from 10-pound weights to eight pounders — and do another set until fatigue.

The idea is to continue this way, dropping the amount of weight until you simply can’t do another rep, period. “It’s my favorite thing to do with brides during the last few weeks before their wedding,” says Pete McCall, an exercise physiologist and personal trainer in San Diego.

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“It’s a great way to create a little more definition because it stress the muscles (in a good way!) that promotes growth — and I’m talking about lean muscle growth, not the bulky bodybuilder look you might be imagining.”

Try this genius technique for at least one of your weekly toning sessions. It works with any type of strength move — from woodchops to weighted crunches.

Just getting started on our 30 Day Wedding Shape-Up? Kick off your journey from Day One, here.

Two Harts have become one! Comedian Kevin Hart has just tied the knot with his sweetheart, Eniko Parrish, in a lavish wedding ceremony this weekend. And while we’re used to having Hart bring tears to our eyes with side-splitting laughter, we’re just plain crying over how beautiful these wedding photos are.

After a two-year engagement, Hart and Parrish wed in a Santa Barbara, California ceremony on Saturday evening. “I honestly can say that I’m lucky enough to have an amazing woman,” Hart told Us Weekly ahead of the big day. “I’m looking forward to getting married. We got seven years under our belt, been engaged for two. It’s time.” And the time finally arrived!

For her walk down the aisle, Parrish donned a custom Vera Wang mermaid wedding dress, featuring a tulle skirt, sheer bodice, and French Chantilly lace appliqués, according to People magazine, while Hart kept things classic in a traditional black tux. And the nupitals were a true family affair with the best man role being filled by Hart’s eight-year-old son Hendrix, whom he shares with his ex-wife Torrei Hart. His daughter Heaven was also of course in attendance, matching the bride in a white cocktail dress accessorized with a flower crown.

And just as breathtaking as the bride’s wedding gown was the Harts’ heart-stopping wedding venue. The couple took their big day portraits in a stunning white gazebo draped in greenery, while the reception locale featured wooden tables and chairs adorned with white blooms, and crystal chandeliers hanging overhead. Parrish also pulled off a quick costume change post-“I do’s,” exchanging her mermaid frock for another Vera Wang gown with long lace sleeves and an open back. Oh, and the after-party included an honest to goodness ferris wheel and a merry-go-round according to a Snapchat video posted by the bride. Was this a wedding or a carnival? Either way, why weren’t we invited?!

Mr & Mrs HART!!!!! In Love & Loving it!!!! #Married #DopePic

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Let’s face it: Writing thank you notes gets a very bad rap as being utterly boring. Why? “Because,” says Diane Gottsman, etiquette expert and owner of The Protocol School of Texas, “most of the time it is boring.” But it doesn’t have to be. Here, with Gottsman’s tips, it can actually be an enjoyable and efficient experience. (Seriously!)

Keep a running list.
The thing that could drive your crazier than a stack of blank thank you cards? Not knowing who to thank for what. “If you have to stretch to remember who gave you what gift, it makes the task much harder,” says Gottsman. Instead, “keep a list of who gave you what so that you can reference the gift as you write out each thank you note. A little prior planning will make writing thank you notes much easier and less stressful.”

Reward yourself.
Gottsman recommends you mix a cocktail or brew a pot of calming tea before you get to work. “Creating an environment that is soothing and ceremonial often is an incentive to get creative,” she explains. Just give yourself a large enough spill-zone so you don’t endanger your thank you cards.

Share it with your spouse.
As newlyweds, you may not be ready to spend a moment apart. So make writing thank you notes a team activity, during which you can get some quality time together. “Share a glass of wine each night and split the job up until it’s complete,” says Gottsman. Not only will you enjoy the time together, but, “when someone else is doing it with you, time goes by more quickly and you feel like you aren’t going it alone,” Gottsman says.

See More: 3 Tools to Help Write Wedding Thank-You Notes

Inspire yourself.
One of the easiest ways to turn a tedious task into something fun is to use luxurious items. “Get inspired by using beautiful stationery and a nice pen,” Gottsman says. For some, that could mean using an inexpensive fine point felt pen, while others could use this as the excuse they’ve been looking for to learn the art of calligraphy. “Personally, I enjoy writing much more when I am using items I love,” she says.

Eliminate distractions.
You may be tempted to play the TV in the background to force the time to go faster. But turning on the tube “can also distract you from finishing the task if you stop to watch your favorite parts of the show,” warns Gottsman. And dragging out this task won’t make it any more fun. Instead, “set a short time limit of total concentration without favorite love scenes from your Netflix account,” Gottsman suggests.

Don’t put pressure on yourself.
One reason thank you note writing might not be fun is if you worry about writing the perfect words. “Your thank you note does not have to be a novel,” Gottsman says. “Knowing what to write and understanding how to do it efficiently takes the dread out of the gesture. Just make sure and hit these marks: use their name, thank them for the gift, mentioning specifically what they gave you and how you plan to use it or enjoy it, and close with a desire to connect in the future.”

Last-minute cancellations for your wedding are tough. From the meal count to the seating chart, finding out someone can’t attend your wedding after you’ve put in the work can be frustrating! It can be particularly sad if the person who can’t make it is a bridesmaid, groomsmen, or other member of your wedding party. So what’s a couple to do if their ranks are a little smaller come wedding day? Here are a few tips from our experts.

There are a few logistical items you should take care of ASAP if you’ll have one fewer member of your wedding party. First, get in touch with your vendors to make any necessary changes that will impact your budget. Whether it’s one less bouquet or boutonniere, canceling a hair appointment, or simply removing a chair and meal from your head table, these are all items that you probably haven’t paid for yet, so you should be able to recoup some costs. Second, have your bridesmaid or groomsmen see which of their own arrangements they can cancel. Is the groomsman renting a suit? See if he can get at least a partial refund. Bridesmaid renting a hotel room or a car for the weekend? She should be able to get some of her money back. While flights are hard to cancel, they may be able to retain some of the fee as a credit toward future travel.

Then, of course, there are the items that are a little harder to change. Don’t worry about having your ceremony programs reprinted. Chances are most guests won’t notice that there was one fewer groomsman heading down the aisle, and those that know someone’s not present will probably already know he or she wasn’t able to make it. You may need to double up on the processional, with one groomsman escorting two bridesmaids or a groomsman walking alone, but non-traditional processionals are totally ok!

And lastly, you should still pop that bridesmaid or groomsman gift in the mail, along with a note and a few pictures from your big day. Even if they weren’t able to be there to celebrate with you, this is a sweet way to let them know you missed them, and to share a little piece of your celebration.

See more: The 3 Things a Bride Can’t Ask Her Bridesmaids to Do

There’s nothing we love more than a wedding reception space that makes your family and friends feel right at home. To create a space that’s as comfy and cozy as your own living room (or scratch that…a living room in your favorite interior design magazine) we asked a few decorating pros to share their top tips.

1. Offer multiple lounge areas
According to interior designer Anna Kohler, founder of My Chic Nest, one way to make a reception space feel more intimate and approachable is through creating different seating areas for people to carry on conversations. “Often at receptions there is one large space for everyone to mingle in.” Try placing sofas in different corners of the room to create conversation zones, she advises. “Sofas are a beautiful addition to tables and chairs and are another great opportunity for a photo opp.” Oh, and don’t forget the throw blankets and pillows!

2. Lay down rugs
This living room inspired d&#233cor instantly brings warmth underfoot and subtly establishes distinct zones within an open floorplan, just like at home, note the editors at Wayfair Registry (launching this fall). “Define a lounge area, highlight several small conversation spots or showcase your sweetheart table simply by bringing in a rug or layering on a couple. High-pile (fluffy) options in crisp neutrals will convey a classic, traditional look, while oriental styles create an eclectic, bohemian vibe.”

3. Go green
In other words, use a lot of potted plants! When it comes to decorations, wedding planner Kelli Corn of Kelli Corn Weddings & Events says it’s best to add plants to corners and empty walls to give the room a more natural, homey feel.

See More: For the Offbeat Bride: Chic Alternatives to Traditional Bridesmaid Bouquets

4. Set up a coffee and tea station
Sometimes it’s the simplest of touches that makes all the difference, and trust us, your guests will be gravitating toward this table more than you’d think, point out the Wayfair Registry editors. “Introducing a self-serve element to your reception helps make everyone feel at home and gives guests the flexibility to indulge in a caffeine boost whenever they crave it without the awkwardness of having to ask or wait it out. Hot chocolate (plus s’mores) and other warm beverages are always a big hit too!

5. Go overboard with candles
Because we’re a sucker for soft lighting and so is everyone else. Candlelight is undeniably enchanting and romantic, which is exactly why the editors at Wayfair Registry recommend going beyond the boundaries of your dinner tables. “Decking out your venue with an abundance of soft, flickering light casts your evening in a happy, welcoming glow. Cluster candlesticks on your seating card table, gift table or side table in a lounge area. Line windowsills, fireplace mantels or the bar top with votives and group lanterns together on the ground in out-of-the-way but still visible spots.” String lights for an outdoor wedding are another cozy chic option.

6. Do use draping
Fabric has the ability to completely transform a space and make a large room feel more warm and cozy, notes Kohler. “At my wedding, for example, we tented the entire space and had the cocktail room separated from the reception by a large drape lined with florals. This made for a grand entrance as well as way to divide the two large rooms in a beautiful and soft way.” Consider using soft textures for all your fabric options, including the lounge furniture you rent (think velvet and suede over leather) and your table linens too.

You spent a lot of time planning your wedding day. So it’s only reasonable that you want to actually enjoy it — especially in the moment. But stress and worry can take precedence over enjoying the fruits of your labor, warns Jaclyn Fisher, owner of Two Little Birds Planning, if you’re not careful to stay present.

“At the end of the day, the most important part of a wedding is the celebration of your love and beginning of your life together,” she says. “Brides need to remember that when they start to get distracted and stressed. If they don’t stay present, their wedding day will go by in a flash without the bride actually experiencing or enjoying it.”

With that in mind, here are seven expert-approved tips to help you stay in the moment.

1. Break in your shoes before the big day.
If you’re used to wearing flats, your wedding could be a real pain — and we mean that literally — making it tough to think about anything other than your aching feet. But beyond breaking in your shoes, Fisher recommends making sure you’ll feel comfortable from head-to-toe at your wedding. “It will be impossible to enjoy your first dance if you can’t stop thinking about your strapless bra that’s digging into your chest or the painful blister on the back of your foot,” she warns.

2. Don’t plan to do too much the week of your wedding.
There is so much to do in the days leading up to your wedding. But rather than leave them to the last minute, Fisher recommends tackling them as early as possible so that the stress of your last-minute DIY projects doesn’t linger on your wedding day. “Make sure your programs, escort cards, welcome bags, and DIY projects are done well before the week of your wedding,” she says. “Setting the tone with a calm, restful week will put you in the right mindset to be stress-free and present on your wedding day.”

3. No matter what, you must eat.
A wedding day is a very long day indeed. And you don’t want your growling stomach to steal the show. “Start the day with a good breakfast, and take a short break before you put on your dress to nosh on some protein and light carbs or fruit,” recommends Amy Nichols, owner of Amy Nichols Special Events and co-founder of The Poppy Group.

See More: How to Handle Wedding Planning Stress

4. Take time to yourselves after the ceremony.
You may be surprised to hear that you’ll have very little alone time with your spouse on your big day. So be sure to take a moment after the ceremony for some QT. “Retreat to the bridal suite or another private area with your groom to bask in the newlywed bliss,” Fisher recommends. “Enjoy calling him your husband for the first time, admire your new wedding bands, and steal a few smooches. And let your planner and caterer know about your plan ahead of time so they can have champagne, water, and a sampling of your hors d’oeuvres ready for you.”

5. Hug your parents.
Your mom has been by your side from the start of your wedding planning. So, “take a special moment with your mom to thank her,” recommends Nichols. After all, no one will keep you grounded like your mom. But don’t leave your dad in the dust, either. “Some brides even choose to do a first look with their dads, where the photographer captures the moment that a dad sees his daughter in a wedding dress for the first time,” she says.

6. Leave your phone in your purse, or give it to your maid of honor.
We all know that phones are a daily distraction, and it will be on your wedding day, too, if you don’t put it away. “On your wedding day, you definitely don’t need something else pulling your attention away,” says Fisher. Put it in your clutch, or ask a family member or friend to carry it for emergencies only. “You’ve hired a professional photographer, so you don’t need to take photos, and anyone you’d think to call or text will be there in person,” she says. “If there was ever a time to disconnect, your wedding day is it.”

7. Hire a great team.
If you really want to relax on your wedding day, then you must trust the team you’ve put in place to execute it. “Bringing on vendors that are reliable, experienced and talented will remove so much of the worry about what’s happening behind the scenes,” Nichols explains. “Your wedding planner will be handling all of the details and logistics of the wedding day with your vendors. This will allow you to walk into the ceremony and reception knowing that everything and everyone are in their place and ready to have a good time.”

The venue hunt can be equal parts exciting and exhausting. Have you been to your fair share of NJ weddings, but no venue has really caught your eye as being “the one” for your own big day? Do you believe in “the newer, the better?” With visions of weddings past swirling around in your head, maybe you need to set your sights on something new. Check out New Jersey’s three newest wedding venues.

The Grove (Cedar Grove) Above
As one of New Jersey’s newest venues, The Grove embodies classical elegance with modern accents — culminating in a glamorous and lavish venue that can accommodate up to 700 guests. Offering a variety of packages on their historic grounds (which consists of a charming brownstone home from the late 1700s) that have been restored and preserved to enchant wedding guests throughout all celebrations that call this venue home. Nestled amongst awe-inspiring gardens and patios, you can say, “I do” in an outdoor ceremony or indoors, too. When it’s time to party, the ballroom shines courtesy of the plethora of crystal chandeliers, palladium windows, a dramatic staircase — all surrounding a wooden dance floor. With luxuriously appointed dressing suites, you will be sure to have a day to remember from start to finish at this northern NJ venue. Read real brides’ reviews here!

The Park Chateau Estate & Garden (East Brunswick)
Now booking for 2017 affairs, The Park Chateau will be one of New Jersey’s most elegant venues. As guests arrive to your event, they will travel through a beautifully landscaped path, leading to a courtyard and greeted with champagne from white-gloved servers. The sophistication only begins there. With indoor and outdoor space, guests will enjoy views of the glistening pond in the Versailles Garden, take in French antiques decorating the interior space, and design meant to reflect a French countryside ambiance. The Grand Ballroom features silver place settings, crystal chandeliers, ornate moldings, and breathtaking high ceilings — serving as the perfect backdrop to your party. Designed by the partners who also currently own both gorgeous venues Nanina’s In The Park and The Park Savoy, it’s evident this venue will be the talk of the town.

See More: Have Your Bridal Party Travel in Style with These New Jersey Wedding Transportation Options

The Marigold (Somerset)
Whether you’re looking to book a traditional, kosher, or Indian celebration, The Marigold can provide a brand new, exceptional venue to meet your every need. Amongst meticulously landscaped lawns scattered with gazebos, florals and spectacular views, the external beauty of this venue pales in comparison to the interior. With attention to detail evident at every turn, the inside space boasts sparkling chandeliers, marble floors, grandiose staircases and classic décor, with the expansive, grandiose ballroom as the cherry on top. With world-class chefs able to provide catering for cultural receptions as well as traditional, The Marigold offers over 17,000 square feet of space for your celebration, including separate outdoor photo area, and private, elegant bridal suites for day-of pampering.

Want to check out some other stunning big day locales? Head to our New Jersey Venues page to see more!