The One Item Your Tented Wedding Reception Desperately Needs

Hosting a tented wedding reception? Bring the outdoors in by decorating your tent with beautiful trees and branches. Doing so will help the tent seamlessly blend into its outdoor surroundings. Plus, filling the space with elegant, towering trees is a great way to emphasize the tent’s height. Here are six of the most stunning takes on this back-to-nature-inspired idea.

Trees in Planter Boxes (above): Help create a focal point in the tent by flanking the dance floor or bar with live trees in clean, white planter boxes.

Tent Poles: Disguise some of the tent’s support poles by installing tall, leafy trees throughout the reception space.

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On the Dance Floor: Help bring the outdoors in by decorating with trees the tent with live trees (these are aspen). Continue the tree motif on the dance floor by painting branches and leaves.

Tree Centerpieces: Instead of live trees, create a similar effect by decorating reception tables with tall, sculptural branches in glass containers.

Tabletop Trees: Deep-green ficus-tree centerpieces look beautiful set against a chic, all-white reception tent.

Woodsy Setting: Create a magical woodland setting within your tent by adding faux tree trunks to obscure the poles. This couple’s event designer then attached real tree branches to the poles and added twinkly lights.

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You Won't Believe How Kym Johnson and Robert Herjavec Spent the Day After Their Wedding

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Just one day after exchanging vows at their glamorous wedding, Robert Herjavec and Kym Johnson have already become #marriagegoals.

The Shark Tank star hosted a party the day after his wedding for Liam Brenes, a 4-year-old boy whose prosthetic leg was stolen after swimming at Crystal Cove State Beach in Orange County with his family, People reports. Brenes was born without a fibula and his right leg amputated from below the knee when he was 1-year-old. The boy had been trying to protect his prosthetic leg while swimming in the salt water, and returned from his swim to find the leg missing.

After hearing this, Herjavec had offered to fund a replacement leg for Brenes, which is now Ghostbusters-themed, and has promised him a party to celebrate his new leg. The new groom filled the party with lots of excitement and surprises, including Ghostbusters toys, gifts, and an appearance by Noah Galloway, a double-amputee Iraq War veteran who competed against Herjavec and Johnson on Dancing With the Stars.

That isn’t even all of the surprises that Herjavec has in store for Brenes! According to People, the Shark Tank star previously agreed to send Brenes on a special trip to Disneyland.

“We’re going to arrange to have him to a VIP tour of Disney and get to go to the park and have some fun in life because it’s good to have fun in life,” Herjavec said.

This heartwarming story happened hours after Herjavec and Johnson said “I do” in a gorgeous Beverly Hills wedding. The bride wore a custom Monique Lhuillier gown while the groom wore a white and black tuxedo. The dancing couple even performed two first dances for their guests; the first was a traditional first dance to Etta James’ “At Last,” while the second was a group performance with the bridal party to LunchMoney Lewis’ “Bills.”

Herjavec and Johnson fell in love after meeting on the set of season 20 of Dancing With the Stars, and got engaged in March after a year of dating.

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5 Reasons Why Portugal is The Perfect Honeymoon Destination Right Now

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In the world of travel, Portugal is one of the hottest vacation destinations right now and for good reason. From its rich history to its unparalleled wine and food scene, picturesque beaches, and lush mountain regions, Portugal has the makings of a truly unforgettable honeymoon. Check out the five reasons you need to pick Portugal for the most magical trip of your lifetime below and get planning before the secret’s out.

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The Diversity
As a country, Portugal is an extremely diverse place from region to region, almost like a miniature continent of its own. From the Douro region in the north, full of lush eucalyptus, vineyards and the majestic city of Porto (home of port wine); to the idyllic mountain town of Sintra, favored for its fairytale like forest scenery by poets like Lord Byron; Lisbon with its unique mixture of modern city and old world feel; Alentejo with its fields of olive and cork trees and ruins of antiquity; and the most southern tip of the Algarve, with white sand, turquoise water, sangria and unparalleled seafood, there is quite literally, something for every honeymooner.

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It’s Compact
If the two of you want to spend time in more than one place and do a little exploring without having to fly to another country, Portugal is the perfect place to visit for a road trip honeymoon. Regional dialects, food, scenery, architectural style, flora and fauna change quickly throughout this small country, often an hours driving leaving you feeling like you’re in a completely different place if it weren’t for the language. To drive from the very top to the very bottom of the country takes about 6 hours, so you can quite literally spend the morning in beautiful northern Braga visiting a castle and end your day in the heart of the Alentejo wine region’s white washed city of Evora exploring the famed chapel of bones, or laying out on the beach in the Algarve. Plus if you want some island time, Portugal’s Madeira Islands are less than a 2-hour flight away.

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The Rich History
While most of Europe didn’t unify its states and regions into countries until hundreds of years later, Portugal has maintained its original boarders since its unification in 1153, giving it the stability to flourish and create a unique culture that was able to maintain its traditions and many iconic buildings, castles, and landmarks. Portugal is also unique in its historic brush with the Moors who came up from Africa, leaving behind beautifully colorful painted tiled Moorish castles and architecture that you can now see everyone integrated everywhere from the colorful tile covered row buildings within the cities to the walls of Pena Palace. Portugal is also home to some of the oldest standing castles in Europe, oldest vineyards, and even the world’s oldest book store, Bertrand bookshop.

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The Food
If you love good food, then you’re going to love Portugal. Whether it’s Portuguese tapas of olives, acorn fed presunto (cured ham), bacalhau (salted cod) and a bottle of Douro wine you found down a winding cobblestone alleyway in Porto or a Michelin starred fine dining experience at Lisbon’s Belcanto (or any of chef Jose Avillez’s brilliant restaurants), there is arguably no better, or more underrated food, in all of Europe. Perhaps Portugal’s best offering is its seafood, which is unparalleled in freshness and diversity. From succulent super large tiger shrimp, tender octopus, and beautiful fresh sole, the Portuguese are the masters of seafood. And for true foodie couples out there, test your palate with a Portuguese delicacy: gooseneck barnacles. Called Percebes in Portugal, these gnarled looking things are actually immensely delicious, with the briny subtlety of a delicious oyster and definitely not to be passed up.

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The Wine
While Portugal may be revered for Port, Portuguese wine is far more diverse then the fortified after dinner drink. As one of the hottest emerging wine regions in the world, Portugal is a great place for the oenophile couple to kick back together. From the light and crisp white wines of the vinho verde region, to the big reds and sophisticated sparkling wines of the Douro all the way to the warm weather wines of the Alentejo, you can enjoy some of Europe’s most interesting grapes and wine styles right now in Portugal. Even better? There is almost no better wine out there for your money, a 20 Euro bottle of delicious wine is seen as a splurge here.

See More: A Lisbon Honeymoon Itinerary That Will Have You Flying to Portugal ASAP

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Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth Did Their Own Carpool Karaoke and It's Amazing

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Excuse us while we currently freak the F out about our beloved celeb couple, Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth, releasing the absolute CUTEST Instagram video of all time. The A-listers have been the stars of the Internet lately since Cyrus began sporting her engagement ring again earlier this year, fueling rumors about possible weddings in the future (yes, plural), but this vid is solidified proof that the duo is head-over-heels in love.

In the clip, which features Cyrus’ adorable pooch, Barbie Da Beagle, you can hear Hemsworth singing Justin Bieber’s smash hit “Love Yourself” in the background, as the “We Can’t Stop” superstar sings her own rendition into the camera. Clearly these two are beliebers! At the end of the vid posted to Miley’s Instagram account, we totally get a kick out of Hemsworth teasing his girlfriend(/fiancée/wifey?), who doesn’t exactly appreciate his humor as she snaps back, “Babe stop, seriously.”

Awww, she called him babe! This literally makes our hearts so happy it’s almost embarrassing. The last time we felt this happy was probably when the pair sang to each other in an old pickup truck in The Last Song. Seriously, just watch it and TRY not to smile/bawl your hopeless romantic eyes out.

Though there’s no word yet on exactly when these two are getting married, there have been plenty of rumors that the couple will have two weddings (one in California and one in Hemsworth’s homeland, Australia) sometime in August. Billy Ray Cyrus himself even hinted that he might be the officiant come wedding bells time. Not only that, but the Hannah Montana star went so far as to get a Vegemite tattoo on her arm, permanently showing her love for Hemsworth and his home roots.

See More: Liam Hemsworth Basically Just Confirmed His Engagement to Miley Cyrus

She even shocked her fanbase last week when she sported a diamond band on THAT finger, confusing us all to no end. Are they married? Are they even engaged? WHAT IS GOING ON?! The world may never know. What we do know is if there’s still a wedding to be had, we’re crossing our fingers to get on the Milliam nuptials guest list. Anyone else?

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The View at This Couple's Beach Elopement in the Seychelles Will Blow You Away

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Kim Ngo and David Woodward, who first met in August of 2011 and got engaged in February of 2015, knew they wanted to tie the knot on the most beautiful beach in the world. So they did a little research and kept finding the same winner: the Seychelles. The twosome found Banyan Tree, a gorgeous tropical resort with an unbelievably beautiful beach that was perfect for the intimate elopement they had dreamed of. “The color of the water and the sky was something we loved,” Kim says. “The traffic in the area was low and it seemed like it would be just Dave and me on the beach.”

On September 25, 2015, the pair exchanged vows in a private ceremony, with just their officiant and photographer Coco Tran in attendance. But that doesn’t mean the duo went light on details. From a gorgeous dress and beautiful flowers, Kim and David’s elopement was nothing short of spectacular.

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“Our backyard was the entrance to the beach, so we would wake up every morning and have the ocean to ourselves,” the bride remembers of their time in the Seychelles. With a backdrop that stunning, it’s no surprise that this couple wanted an island wedding. Kim’s diamond engagement ring fit in perfectly with the natural beauty of the locale.

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The bride chose a light and airy wedding dress that fit perfectly with their relaxed wedding location. She accessorized with a pair of Badgley Mischka peep toe pumps and pearl earrings.

She embraced her tropical location with a bright, lush bouquet of native flowers. Bold pinks and oranges were balanced with white blooms and plenty of greenery.

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David’s look exemplified island-chic style. His paired his fitted navy suit with a white shirt and no tie for a more relaxed vibe.

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The duo exchanged vows on the magnificent beach without a single witness, which was in stark contrast to the tea ceremony and reception the newlyweds shared with guests back home in San Francisco. There, 86 loved ones gathered to be part of the second half of Kim and David’s celebration.

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After they were formally pronounced husband and wife, Kim and David took advantage of the epic locale and posed for pictures around the property.

Venue: Banyan Tree || Photographer: Coco Tran

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Can My Groom Wear a Tux to Our 'Cocktail Attire' Wedding?

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Wedding dress codes are complicated for everyone, including the bride and groom. You know not to shop for super-formal ball gowns for your beach wedding, and there are some groom looks that are more appropriate for a daytime celebration than an evening in a ballroom. But cocktail attire? That’s a gray area that’s often open to interpretation (and input from the type of venue and season you’ve chosen). So even if your wedding is cocktail attire, is it okay for the groom to wear a tux? Our experts weigh in.

While tuxedos are usually reserved for black tie events, if your wedding dress code is “cocktail attire” but will run on the dressier side, your groom should be able to pull off a tux. You have a few options for keeping his look from appearing as though he’s dressed for a different event entirely.

The first option is to have the groomsmen wear suits that are the same color as the groom’s tuxedo (most likely black). By having them dress down slightly while still matching, he’ll stand out as the man of the hour, whereas an entire wedding party in formalwear could make guests feel underdressed.

Another choice is to have him wear a non-traditional tuxedo. Navy blue tuxes are all the rage, and look sharp with black lapels and a black bowtie. He could wear a full navy blue tux, or black pants with a navy tuxedo jacket. Tuxedos also come in charcoal gray, which are a modern option that’s a little more casual.

And of course, remember that it’s your wedding! If the two of you want to dress a little more formal (and it fits with your theme and your venue), by all means, go for it! No one will fault a bride or groom for wanting to dress up on their wedding day.

See more: How to Tell Your Fiancé You Hate His Tuxedo

NFL Player DeAngelo Williams Had a Walking Dead Wedding — See All the Gory Details!

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A bridal party covered in blood and acting as lifeless corpses? Sounds like an absolute wedding-day nightmare in most cases. While most brides would probably shut down a request to dress like a zombie on their wedding day, DeAngelo Williams’ wife is the exception to the rule. Risalyn Williams showed her true love for her husband (and SciFi) when she agreed to honor his Walking Dead wedding wishes — and have the entire bridal party play the part. The NFL player and his wife hosted a Walking Dead-themed wedding last month in Tennessee — and have the (gory) pictures to prove it.

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The 33-year-old football star got married on Saturday, July 23 at the Peabody in Memphis, Tennessee. There, they created a zombie-themed wedding based on the hit TV series, US Weekly reports. “I’m a huge Walking Dead fan,” he explained in an interview with ESPN. “I wanted to do engagement photos of us being chased by zombies and we didn’t have time because it was during season and we didn’t have the opportunity, so [my wife, Risalyn] was like, ‘How are you going to pull that off?'”

Surprisingly, the bride didn’t need to be convinced much further to have a gory bridal party aesthetic based on the comic book series-turned-television show. “He didn’t have to convince me,” Risalyn shared with the sports network while wearing full zombie makeup in her wedding gown. But, the bridesmaids’ opinions were a different story. “He really had to convince the bridesmaids, and then he said they had to do it because they’re bridesmaids.” Groomzillas, take note!

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So while most brides and grooms are sweating for the wedding, these two decided to “bleed” for it. They hired professional makeup artists to transform the entire wedding party into walking corpses, complete with mangled faces and blood. “It’s a time for us to laugh and say, ‘Ha, you look goofy,'” he said. “It gives us a chance to step outside our comfort zone and put on our acting skills, whether we possess them or not.”

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The result? A wedding day filled with zombie-walks, running, screaming, and fake blood, to many wedding videographers’ dismay (or excitement). ESPN was there to cover the event, and in the video, Williams is seen running from his bridal party, who are already zombies. The short film takes you through several scenes from the big day, with the bride and groom eventually turning into zombies themselves — quite the happy ending in Walking Dead world.

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Growing up, the football star loved horror movies — and once Walking Dead came about, he grew obsessed with the post-apocalyptic TV show. “It is a dream come true,” Williams told ESPN of his wedding day. “What makes it even more magical is not only did I become a walker, I became a husband.” Instead of all the feels, we’re experiencing all the squeals — such a gruesome-yet-happily ever after story.

See More: 8 Crazy Wedding Themes You Have to Read to Believe

We have so many questions, but here are the main ones: What do zombies eat for dinner? Are children allowed at the reception (because we can imagine they’d be pretty freaked to see a zombie bridal party come through)? And the most important one: Where do zombies honeymoon? Watch their entertaining wedding video, below!

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Why Brides Should NEVER Buy a Knockoff Wedding Gown

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Colbee Ennis was on a tight budget for her May 2016 wedding. So the 25-year-old, living in Mt. Vernon, Oregon, found herself Googling “cheap wedding dress,” hoping to find a decent replica of a fluffy white gown she’d seen while browsing a bridal Web site. With little hesitation, she bought one for $65 through an online retail giant from a third-party Chinese vendor that had a 97 percent approval rating. She knew it wasn’t going to be as luxe as one from a designer’s showroom, but, she says, “I was just going to wear it once, so that was fine with me.”

Fine, that is, until the dress arrived. Ennis unwrapped the box to find a lipstick-red tulle puffball reeking of formaldehyde. Beads around the neckline and waist had been attached using a hot-glue gun, leaving strands of glue stuck to the fabric. And, again, it was red! The sizing was way off — “My five-year-old would have fit better in that dress,” she says — and there was no packing slip or return address. Online, Ennis found a return policy requiring an “approval process,” she says. “They were going to charge another $15. At that point, I said screw it. It wasn’t worth it.” With just a few months left before her wedding, Ennis did what few brides would even consider: She borrowed a wedding dress from a generous friend.

We live in an age of knockoff fashion. Thanks to the international e-commerce boom, New York City’s Canal Street has been replaced by shady vendors on familiar third-party megasites and online knockoff emporiums based abroad. In some cases, they’re hawking outright counterfeits and their name-brand merchandise is anything but. In others, it’s just a misrepresentation of goods for sale; what’s promised (in images or descriptions or both) is not what’s provided. As a result, consumers are getting fooled (or they’re in on the joke): The global counterfeit trade is nearly $500 billion a year, according to a 2016 report from the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development. In 2014 alone, the Department of Homeland Security seized $1.22 billion worth of products — most originating from China — found to infringe on intellectual-property rights.

And the bridal world is taking its share of the hit. Industry insiders estimate that manufacturers, stores, and designers in the U.S. are losing millions annually to counterfeiting. Horror stories abound at places like BridalBeware.com, a vigilante site that invites victims of online scammers to share their stories and photos. One bride told of a pale-blush ruched organza gown that arrived in a Day-Glo pink instead. For another, what was supposed to be a Vera Wang lace tea-length number turned out to be ill-fitting shreds of tulle. For a third, a copy of Kate Middleton’s Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen masterpiece showed up looking like a high school home-ec project, with cheap materials and distorted proportions.

These stories are becoming commonplace as brides grow more comfortable shopping for high-end gowns online but remain unfamiliar with the process of commissioning a made-to-order dress. This is likely the first and last piece of custom clothing most women will buy, and counterfeiters are happy to exploit their ignorance — and wedding budgets, since the gown will also be the most expensive single piece of clothing many will ever buy. “These operators are completely unregulated and prey on the fact that everyone wants a deal,” says Hitha Herzog, author of Black Market Billions: How Organized Retail Crime Funds Global Terrorists. They steal the images from designers’ sites, upload them to their own, and claim to offer the real thing for a fraction of the price. “When you search for ‘inexpensive bridal gowns,’ you’ll see them. They pay a lot to come up first,” explains bridal-industry vet Hedy Lapkin, executive director of the International Bridal Manufacturers Association. “A girl will have fallen in love with a $2,000 dress, and then here it is for $300 or $400. Sellers know the customer has never bought a wedding gown before, and maybe her budget is small. This is how they get to them.”

Retail giant David’s Bridal is a frequent target. A recent search on one Chinese Web site unearthed listings for the store’s Truly Zac Posen designs that used original images swiped from David’s Bridal’s online store. A mermaid style that retails for $750 is listed for $178. David’s has the resources to fight back, and it does, says Trevor Lunn, David’s chief customer officer. “We’re careful to create dresses that don’t infringe on other people’s designs, and in turn, we don’t tolerate when others attempt to copy our designs or use our imagery without consent,” he says. “We use a domain-monitoring service, send cease-and-desist letters, and contact ISP providers when we encounter copyright, trademark, or imagery infringement. And we’ve filed suits against foreign Web sites.”

Boutique designers like Claire Pettibone are at risk too. “We’ve had brides call us in tears when they receive a counterfeit gown and it looks nothing like the original design,” she says. “These sites steal our photos and use our name. Our core clients know the difference, but the aspirational bride, who maybe has a budget under $1,000, is the most vulnerable.” Pettibone’s legal team sends cease-and-desist letters to offending sites with some success, but it’s difficult to monitor, she says.

Katharine Polk, of indie label Houghton, is resigned to the fact that copycats are waiting to pounce. “We just have to rely on the fact that clients understand we’re doing better quality and that our fabrics are exclusive,” she says. “Beyond that, there’s not much I can do to protect my designs.” British bridal mainstay (and Duchess of Cambridge go-to) Jenny Packham also relies on brand loyalty to steer customers away from counterfeiters. “When we launched [our bridal line] in 1997, we offered something different for a fashion-forward bride,” she says. “Now there’s much more choice and competition. The replication of our designs, to varying degrees, has become a constant.” But, she says, customers who value innovative design, quality, and service will always choose the real deal.

As it’s nearly impossible to copyright a dress design, brands that choose to sue focus on the stolen images used on Web sites. Stephen N. Lang, chief executive of Mon Cheri Bridals and president of the American Bridal & Prom Industry Association (ABPIA), has won a lawsuit against sites like TuteraBridal.com — which purported to sell designs from Mon Cheri designer David Tutera — and MoncheryBridal.com. (See what they did there?) Typically, these companies — many of which are foreign — don’t have representation in American courts, so they’re simply shut down by the U.S. government. If they do have a legal team, they’ll often pay to settle out of court and close operations.

“Mon Cheri is a $100 million company,” says Lang, “but I’m probably bleeding $10 million in lost revenue a year because of this. Maybe more.” Lang started the ABPIA in 2012 so that designers, manufacturers, and retailers of all sizes could band together to fight counterfeiters, and he says his organization has closed down roughly 1,500 sites already. “The problem is that as soon as you shut one down, it pops up again under a new name,” he says.

Complicating matters is the fact that Lang produces his gowns in China, as do many manufacturers: It’s the number-one source of wedding dresses in the world. The vast majority of American brides will walk the aisle in an authentic, well-made gown created (or at least assembled) there. But just like many of his luxury-goods counterparts, he’s caught one of his own manufacturers selling knockoffs of his gowns on the side. “I’ve visited our factories in Chaozhou and found my product being bootlegged,” he says, adding that his entreaties to the trade groups who meet with the Chinese government have had little effect. But while this practice is part of the problem, the majority of counterfeit fashion is coming from another factory town, Suzhou, known for its apparel copying, where exploitative bosses drive teams of inexperienced sewers to copy dresses from images they find on the Web, without the benefit of patterns or samples.

And the reality of fashion counterfeiting is that there are plenty of consumers who don’t actually care whether they’re getting the real thing. “We’re dealing with gowns that are in the thousands and tens of thousands of dollars, and sometimes the consumer becomes an accomplice in the knockoff process,” says Susan Scafidi, founder and president of the Fashion Law Institute at Fordham University. “If money is no object and you can pay $15,000 or $30,000 for your gown, then you’re probably not looking for a copy. But for a bride who has a dress budget of $1,000, it becomes tempting to pay 10 or 20 percent of that.” And there’s always that one friend of a friend who was happy with her knockoff.

But all of that ignores counterfeiting’s real victims: Bootlegging factories in Asia and, more recently, Africa often exploit their workers with atrocious conditions, unlivable wages, and no compensation for overtime. In the most extreme cases, sweatshops are part of international criminal syndicates. “That means human trafficking, terrorist funding, and money laundering for [drug] cartels,” says Herzog. In Suzhou, there have been reports of factories employing underage workers. Sweatshop inspectors have told stories of floors covered in garbage, filthy bathrooms, and 15-hour workdays with just a 30-minute break. In her book Deluxe: How Luxury Lost Its Luster, reporter Dana Thomas recounted entering a factory where children under 10 years old were forced to sew knockoff handbags. As if that weren’t horrible enough, they’d had their legs broken and tied together so they wouldn’t heal properly — for asking to go outside and play. Everyone loves a bargain, but most women wouldn’t want to dress for the happiest day of her life in a gown made by the tiny fingers of a tortured child.

So how do you get your dream dress on a real-life budget, without taking away from a designer’s work or supporting a hideous industry? The surest way would be not to buy online from an unfamiliar source; it’s easy to be drawn in by shady manufacturers, especially if they’re selling through reputable marketplaces and have faked their own reviews to boost their approval ratings. (Most legit third-party auction sites and marketplaces — you know them; you’ve used them — have policies prohibiting the trade of phony goods, but it’s a lot like playing Whack-a-Mole: Shut one illegal vendor down and another appears.) If you’re buying your dress on the Web, before you click “Purchase,” call the designer’s customer-service number to confirm that you’re dealing with an authorized dealer. You can also look for mentions of import duties. If a site tries to pin those taxes on a buyer, it’s probably a counterfeit operation, Lang says. But our best advice is this: If you’re on a tight budget, you’re better off buying a less-expensive authentic dress than a knockoff of a pricey one. Because, with wedding gowns as with most things, you get what you pay for.

Lauren Sherman is a writer and reporter whose work has appeared on Business of Fashion and in The New York Times.

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Joe Biden Just Officiated a Same-Sex Wedding at His House

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If Joe Biden plans to leave the political world come the end of his vice presidential term, it looks like he’s all set to get into the wedding business. (Come join us, will you Joe?) The current vice president recently became a marriage officiant and presided over his very first same-sex wedding just last night, marrying two White House staffers in his Washington, D.C. home. Think Biden is taking requests for future to-be-wedded couples? Where can we sign up?!

On Monday night, the U.S. Naval Observatory (a.k.a. the vice president’s humble abode) was transformed into a wedding venue for two White House staffers: Brian Mosteller, the Oval Office operations director for President Barack Obama, and Joe Mahshie, a trip coordinator for First Lady Michelle Obama. According to CNN and an official statement from Biden’s office, the now-newlyweds had asked Biden himself to marry them and the VP was all to happy to oblige after receiving temporary certification from the District of Columbia in order to officiate the sweet ceremony.

Although the nuptials were only attended by the grooms’ families, the wedding photo was soon seen by thousands, as Biden tweeted out an adorable pic of himself pronouncing Mosteller and Mahshie officially wed. “Proud to marry Brian and Joe at my house,” Biden captioned the black-and-white wedding photo. “Couldn’t be happier, two longtime White House staffers, two great guys.” The vice president’s wife, Dr. Jill Biden, later retweeted the sweet snapshot, declaring “Love is love!” Too sweet, right?

Back in May of 2012, Biden publicly supported the legalization of same-sex marriage, becoming the highest-ranking American official of the time to endorse marriage equality (later to be dethroned when President Obama followed his VP’s lead), making Biden the perfect choice as wedding officiant for these two grooms.

Think we can get Biden on the ballot as “Official White House Wedding Officiant” come November?

See More: Famous Same-Sex Couples Who Have Tied the Knot

5 Ways to Politely Tell Guests That Your Wedding is Social Media-Free

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It’s the year 2016, and everyone knows that wedding guests are using their phones during weddings. But if you’re worried that your guests will be staring down their phones the whole time and not enjoying the moment, you may want to create a social media rule to prohibit cell phone use. Whether it’s because guests are Snapchatting or playing PokémonGo, it can be very intrusive and cause some to not be able to enjoy your special moment “in 3D.” To spread that message without making guests angry or upset, here are five polite ways to tell your guests to put their phones away on your big day.

Make It Funny
Send out a GIF or a funny slideshow of wedding social media fails and explain that you don’t want these to happen at your wedding. It’ll give your guests a laugh and be something that is memorable yet endearing. Chances are when they try to post a photo on Instagram as you’re walking down the aisle, they’ll remember your funny .

Ask Them Early On
Put a note in the invitation so that your guests know ahead of time that you’re having a social media-free wedding. That way, they won’t be shocked or surprised on the big day.

Give Them an Incentive to Be Phone-Free
Let them know all the cool things at your wedding they can do when they aren’t wasting time scrolling through Facebook during the reception. Maybe you’re having a ice cream sundae bar or a photo booth — let them know of all the fun that is to come.

Pin Up a Sign When They Walk In
A small sign placed strategically at the entrance of your ceremony area is an easy and efficient way to spread the message before the wedding begins. Guests will all see the sign at the same time, and it will serve as a friendly reminder to keep their phones off.

Have the Officiant Give a Reminder
Before you walk down the aisle, ask the person officiating your ceremony to make a statement about refraining from posting on social media during the ceremony.

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Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.