Oops! Ashton Kutcher just let the gender of his unborn baby slip during an appearance on the Today show Thursday morning. And considering how tightlipped Kutcher and his wife Mila Kunis usually are with their family life, we count ourselves lucky for witnessing this accidental slip of the tongue! Remember how long it took for us to catch a glimpse at their adorable two-year-old daughter Wyatt? Who knows how much longer we would’ve had to wait for some baby news, otherwise! And now without further ado, drumroll please…

It’s a boy! This too-cute couple will be adding a baby boy to the brood come Kunis’ due date and we’re super excited for the soon-to-be family of four. Who doesn’t want one of each, after all? But how did this unplanned reveal even come about?

During Kutcher’s talkshow appearance this morning, the conversation turned to how the couple’s firstborn is adjusting to Kunis’ pregnancy and growing baby belly. “She points to Mila and she’s like, ‘baby brother’ when she points to the belly,” Kutcher said, according to E! News. “And then she points to dad and she goes, ‘beer,’ so I think she gets there’s something in the belly. But I don’t quite think that she knows that it’s not going to be a plastic doll yet.” Um, wait — rewind… Excuse us?! Brother?! With that one little sentence, Kutcher just told the world the sex of baby #2!

The news of Kunis’ second pregnancy first came to light back in June, when a source revealed to People that the couple was expecting their second child. “Ashton genuinely lights up when talking about Wyatt and the little one on the way,” noted the source. “Everything about being a father is natural to him.”

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And while we totally agree that Kutcher was pretty much made to be a doting dad, The Ranch star also admitted on Today that he is a little nervous about the impending arrival of his second little one. “I’m a little terrified to be honest,” he said. “It’s intensely scary.”

No need to worry, Ashton! If you as us, you and Kunis are pretty much the coolest celeb parents on the block!

There’s enough emotion floating around a wedding that anyone with a tear duct will find themselves, at some point during the evening, shedding a tear or two. But what about the wedding professionals — the people who attend a wedding almost every single weekend? If you’re wondering what moments still make them choke back a sob, you’re in luck. We asked four wedding photographers to admit the moment that still makes them sob.

Dad’s First Look
“Without fail, the moment in the wedding day that makes a bride cry is when they have a quiet moment with dad. With mom, brides are supportive, helping her through the moments when she is teary and playing the role of a supportive friend to her. With her groom, she’s happy, excited, and wells up with joy as they take on the new journey together. But with dad, they get a rare glimpse of seeing the man who has always been strong, who has always been her rock, start to show emotions that she’s often never seen before.” —Peter Greeno, a destination wedding photographer serving Cape Cod and Coastal Maine

When The Couples Read Their Vows
“I love when the couple write their own vows. During this moment of the ceremony the couple talks straight from their heart and this moves me every time.” —Merinda Edmonds, Photographer with A Sweet Focus

The Walk Down the Aisle
“I always find myself about to cry when I see a bride have her father walk her down the aisle. This moment is super personal for me because I don’t have a dad anymore. That moment means a lot to me and I make sure I have the best angle to capture it so the bride can remember that moment forever.” —Susan Shek, Susan Shek Photography

See More: 5 Tricks to Keep from Crying Throughout Your Entire Ceremony

The Groom’s First Look
“A moment that always gets me no matter what the grooms reaction is has to be when the bride first makes her appearance and he locks eyes with her. I’ve seen grooms cry, tear up, suck tears back or just stare in awe at her. I love that part. It always gets me, even when the groom doesn’t cry because you can see the love and almost a sense of admiration for her that is priceless. You can sometimes see the groom hold his breath, which is such a compliment in my eyes. That look is the reason I shoot weddings.” —Hilda Medrano, Hilda Medrano Photography

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

Even though Jordan Rodgers and his NFL star brother Aaron Rodgers have a complicated relationship (as we witnessed on last season’s The Bachelorette), it won’t impact any wedding plans (whew!) with JoJo Fletcher. When it comes to their wedding guest list, JoJo and Jordan have made it very clear — they are definitely inviting Aaron to the wedding.

The backstory: during the season’s hometown dates, it was revealed that Jordan, 27, had a nonexistent relationship with his brother Aaron, 32, who is a pro-football player for the Green Bay Packers. “You know, I didn’t even think about it going into the show,” the reality star told People. “I probably should’ve. I just wasn’t familiar with the show, but my goal was to be honest with her every step of the way.”

Even with that in mind, it doesn’t seem to be effecting wedding planning. “There’s no scenario in which I wouldn’t want my entire family at a wedding so absolutely, that’s something all of our family wants and hopes for at some point,” the reality star shared with People. While wedding planning is still in the beginning stages, it’s good to know that he will be all-inclusive of his family despite any issues among the family.

Recently, the couple has been in the news because of rumors that their wedding was called off, but lucky they were just that — rumors. “I don’t know where those rumors are coming from,” Fletcher shared with TMZ. “Everything’s amazing. Same old same old,” she confirmed.

When it comes to the wedding, Fletcher and Jordan are excitedly making plans and sharing a few minor details — one being that it’s going to be BIG. “I have the biggest family and I know my mom already has the largest list of people to invite,” Fletcher explained. Big families plus a big Bachelor and Bachelorette lineup of besties (and Chris Harrison, one can only hope)? This is going to be one big celebration.

See More: How JoJo and Aaron Spent Their ‘First Week of Freedom’

Even though the guest list appears to be getting a bit more solidified, Fletcher and Rodgers didshare that they haven’t booked a venue yet! “We’re trying to figure out when it’s going to be first,” said Rodgers. With his new gig as an ESPN football analyst, we’re sure that it’s taking up a good amount of time for the lovebirds. But as every busy bride and groom know, wedding planning is a part-time (full-time?) job, so dive in head first and get to planning so we can see it all unfold you two…please and thank you.

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What is it men are REALLY looking for when it comes to love and marriage?

We think we have an idea of what the “perfect” woman is, but it seems like no matter what any of us do, we are constantly falling short of that mark.

It’s hard to get guys to open up about what they really want in a marriage partner, because let’s face it, you can’t ask this question when you’ve just started dating someone.

And you can’t exactly ask this question when they dump you. You just kind of have to hope it all works out and you meet the marriage checklist of his expectations.

But thanks to one question-asker on Reddit, we now have insight into what exactly men are looking for in a wife, and how they decide it’s time to settle down and get married.

I may sound jaded but I was pretty sure I knew what I’d find on this list when I sat down to read through the mountain of replies.

I felt pretty sure that looks would rank as the number one quality all men sought out in their marriage partner.

But it turns out that most men aren’t looking for just a pretty face. Not by a long shot.

They had a lot of insight to share about how they picked their wives.

For some, it was about so much more than some arbitrary list, it was about the individual.

“Someone who genuinely likes me instead of some checklist of qualities that I managed to get a pass on.”

Other men reported that the decision to marry almost wasn’t conscious, but a result of time, interpersonal chemistry and that ineffable feeling of connection.

“My wife loves me for who I am. It wasn’t about who she thought I could be, or who she thought she could make me into, but just wanted to be with me. Despite all my flaws and weird habits she still wanted to be with me. Even with all of her flaws and weird habits, I still wanted to be with her. Sometimes, things just click together, and it’s not something you realize right away. I probably didn’t start to think about marrying my wife until after we were dating for a year. I’ve now known her for over 10 years, and our 8 year wedding anniversary is coming up this fall.”

Some men pointed out that while a marriage is a work, your feelings for your partner shouldn’t be.

“Maybe it’s just a male perspective but things that have an emotional basis, like romantic relationships, should be simple. If you have to work to justify being with someone you probably shouldn’t be with them.”

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For other men who responded, the idea of marriage wasn’t even in the equation. It was only when they met a woman whose life plan didn’t send them running that they knew they were ready to take that next step.

“I think my marriage has worked because I wasn’t actually looking for a wife – I just happened into one. She was the most interesting girl I ever met, she was smart and attractive and mostly nice, and I feel in love naturally. She said she wanted kids and to be married, and somehow that didn’t scare the hell out of me.”

Some men revealed that they need to be with a woman who isn’t afraid to challenge them, a woman who understands that fighting isn’t just something that HAPPENS in a relationship, it can actually make your marriage that much stronger.

“I want someone that I can argue with (and who will argue with me), without it turning into a fight. Someone that can call me on my BS when it matters, who isn’t going to flip out if I call her on hers. I’d much rather be with someone who will challenge me and make me rethink things than someone who is trying too hard to be nice and sweet all the time. (Then again, I may just have a thing for hot tempered girls.)”

See More: 4 MUST-DO Tips For A Successful Monogamous Relationship

The most touching thing to me was important it was for men that their partners love THEMSELVES. The idea that you aren’t ready for marriage until you’ve started learning how to love yourself seems to be really important to so many men.

“She loves what she does, she cares about herself as much as she cares about me and she smiles a lot 🙂 Bonus: she likes the same music as me.”

When men on Reddit responded to this question and discussed how a woman’s looks impacted a marriage, it was almost always to say that looks fades and that there are other things that are so much more important to building a strong marriage.

“Values. You have to have values that have some intersection. Looks, health, wealth, all changes, but of those values seem to remain the most over a longer period of time.”

“So, the hottest woman in the world, but hates to learn and read? Good bye. An attractive, affluent person, but tramples on others dignity? Bye.”

See More: How To Find Love (And Know It’s For REAL This Time)

The most touching answers revealed that in a nutshell, men want exactly the same thing that women want. They want a partner in life, who isn’t scared to be fully themselves with another person.

“If we can laugh our assess off together about something silly, share the glory of a big indulgent meal, fall asleep watching/reading something stupid together, get trapped in a shitty situation and laugh at it because it’s a shared adventure…”

“I had a huge checklist before I met my wife. There was only a single thing on that list I would never overlook: A genuinely kind hearted person.”

This article originally appeared on YourTango.

In a place that’s as iconic as Washington D.C., it’s hard to get a shot that doesn’t scream tourist (can we say National Monument backdrop, anyone?). Even though kitsch is fun for a photo or two, we can bet you want something a little more personalized for your big engagement photoshoot. To get photos that are as unique as you and your fiancé, head to one of these slightly less chartered destinations right in the heart of the city.

The National Cathedral
The working cathedral (whose full name is the Cathedral Church of Saint peter and Saint Paul in the City and Diocese of Washington) closely models other soaring structures built in the Neo-Gothic style with two towers decorated with multiple spires and protective gargoyles. Even though shots in the front of the cathedral and around its manicured gardens are popular, the best views (and photo opportunities) come from the top of the bell towers, which offer sweeping vistas of the tree speckled skyline of Wisconsin Ave. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Union Station
Although it’s bustling with commuters and tourists alike, the soaring, ornately decorated ceilings, floor to ceiling windows and vintage look of railway stations past greatly make up for the busy atmosphere. To avoid some of the crowds, skip morning and early evening as that’s prime rush hour. Instead, go in the middle of the afternoon or on the weekend so there’s last chances for a photobomb. Read real brides’ reviews here!

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Smithsonian’s National Air and Space Museum
If you and your fiancé are space and science nerds, snap your photos in the National Air and Space Museum in Vienna, Virginia. The three- floor museum is decorated with all of the astronaut helmets, vintage aircrafts (like one of the first aircrafts ever created) space ship memorabilia and contemporary and historic air traffic control towers awaiting exploration. Plus, the high factory-esque ceilings and dangling array of hanging aircraft create the perfect backdrop for couple photos.

Barracks Row
Barracks Row has come a long way in the past few years, but the row still has plenty of exposed brick and colorful buildings for an incredible backdrop. The five blocks that stretch south of Pennsylvania Ave now boasts hundreds of boutiques, restaurants and bars (most locally owned) with all of the exposed brick, hanging pipes, brightly painted facades and quirky street art you’d expect. For the best light and to capture the colors of the street, go at sunset.

Need a local photographer to capture all those sweet engagement snapshots? Browse dozens of DC wedding photographers here!

It’s safe to say that Tim McGraw and Faith Hill are always giving us major #marriagegoals. It’s been a busy week for the couple who just announced they will go on a joint world tour — Soul2Soul — in 2017, and were announced as key advisors on this season of The Voice. Add to that celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary today and McGraw and Hill are just about having the best week ever. So naturally, it’s time to go down our favorite memory lane and take a look back at Tim McGraw and Faith Hill’s sweet October 6, 1996 wedding. And of course Happy Anniversary goes without saying to this adorable couple.

The Proposal
The couple fell for each other on tour in early 1996, and by October they were married. On their 19th wedding anniversary, McGraw told his audience in Colorado the adorable story of how he got Hill to marry him. “We were in the dressing room, here, June 26, 1996, and it was raining and stuff and we’d been on tour for a while together, and I joked around with her about getting married. And so I said… I looked at her, grabbed her by the hand, and dropped forward [on my knees] onstage. She had already done her show. And I said, ‘I’m really serious. I want you to marry me.'” The songstress laughed in response. “She said, ‘We’re at a country music festival in a trailer house, and you’re asking me to marry you? And I said, ‘Yeah.’ So I went onstage.”

During his performance, McGraw’s future wife gave him an answer to his question. “I had in my dressing room… this foldout case that had a mirror in it that was my dressing armoire,” McGraw said. “I still have it to this day. When I came back offstage, [I saw] a Sharpie with lipstick kisses all over it, saying, ‘Yes! I’m gonna be your wife.’ It had, ‘I love you’ with big lipstick kisses. And this is the place right here.”

The Wedding
Hill and McGraw might have been one of the first celebrity couples to pull off a surprise wedding. The duo invited friends for what they thought would be a softball game and concert in the groom’s hometown of Rayville, Louisana, and surprised everyone as they stood under an oak tree with a minister, ready to say “I do.”

Wearing a simple slinky white wedding dress, the bride — who was 3 months pregnant at the time — went barefoot and sported some seriously 90s gloves and a simple string of pearls. The groom wore jeans topped with a black coat.

We’ll continue to awww at Hill and McGraw’s sweet relationship, not to mention their adorable Instagram moments. From stage reunions to family vacations, these two sure know how to make marriage look easy, and there’s no shortage of Instagram-worthy moments between these two.

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Can’t steal away for a spring or summer honeymoon? Don’t let notions of white sandy shores wear you down. While you won’t need winter weather to encourage some prime cuddling time, it certainly doesn’t hurt. Jet off to a sexy winter honeymoon that’s just as hot for skiing as it is for romance, holing up in chalets in one of these five spots from Colorado to Courchevel, France for a snow-filled winter wonderland escape.

Cheval Blanc Courchevel (Above)
Sitting on nearly 500 miles of slopes in Les Trois Vallées near Mont Blanc, Cheval Blanc is a dream for fashion lovers — it is part of the LVMH Moët Hennessy Louis Vuitton group, after all. Designed by Parisian interior architect Sybille de Margerie (also behind Saint-Tropez’s H&ocirctel de Paris and Tel Aviv’s The Norman), the 36-room maison offers the most sumptuous of features like bathrooms with cryotherapy hammam showers and saunas for post-slope relaxing. Hop on skis with a private coach, pausing for gourmet hot chocolates. When it comes time for dinner, get ready to indulge in what the French do best. Book a table at the hotel’s two Michelin star restaurant, Le 1947, which only accepts a limited number per night to ensure the most intimate of culinary experiences.

L’Apogée Courchevel
Nestled above a former ski jump, the 53-room boutique hotel in the French Alps shows off panoramic views over Courchevel’s slopes from the highest point of Le Jardin Alpin. Honeymoon in style cozying up in one of the two chalets, complete with private ski in/ski out access and a home cinema. Slopes here are top-notch and great for couples of all skill levels, but if the spa is more your speed, book a traditional Russian Bania (sauna) treatment in the duo room warming up with your other half in one of the best ways possible.

W Verbier
W’s first ski spot, the 123-room slope-side hotel is perched perfectly for couples to capture panoramic vistas over the Swiss Alps. While it wouldn’t be hard to stay curled up in one of the chalet-style rooms with wood-beamed ceilings and balcony views, there’s plenty of places to escape when you and the new hubby are finally ready to leave the bedroom. Start with drinks at Living Room before dining at two Michelin-starred Spanish Chef Sergi Arola’s Arola, with its chic Mediterranean-meets-Swiss Alps-inspired menu.

CERVO Mountain Boutique Resort
Minimalist chic at its best, this stylish ski escape in Zermatt, Switzerland has everything you need for a winter honeymoon retreat: terraces with whirlpools, steam baths, and panoramic living rooms with a fireplace — not to mention views looking right out at the Matterhorn. Each of the six chalets is outfitted with its own spa meaning plenty of opportunity to indulge in après-ski massages before a round of Alpine tapas — and traditional raclette — served out on the terrace.

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Park Hyatt Beaver Creek
You don’t need to cross the pond to indulge in world-class skiing. Head to Beaver Creek Colorado in the Rocky Mountains, where you’ll have access to over 1,805 acres of skiable terrain — plus an onsite outfitter to get you looking like a pro and ready to hit the slopes in no time. If you’d rather relax onsite with the hubby, there’s plenty of romantic spots to do so. Take a dip in one of five al fresco hot tubs sitting under a mountain waterfall or book a couples treatment at Allegria Spa with Champagne and truffles served alongside a lavender bath and hot stone massage for two.

Nestled at the foot of the beautiful Sandia Mountains, about halfway between Albuquerque and Santa Fe, New Mexico, there is a spectacular wedding destination located on the sacred lands of the Santa Ana Pueblo.

The only Hyatt property owned entirely by a Native American tribe, the Hyatt Regency Tamaya is a luxury resort and spa that has recently come into its own as a destination wedding venue in the Southwest. As threats of Zika and concerns over international terrorism grow, more couples are considering wedding destinations in the continental United States. While New Mexico might not top most couples’ lists of dream destination wedding locales, this resort (which I recently visited) is a mecca for brides and grooms looking for a spot to host their whirlwind wedding weekends, as it offers many of the same spectacular features found in the world’s most popular wedding destinations.

Activities for Guests
While the New Mexico property obviously doesn’t have traditional beaches, the Rio Grande winds its way across the property, and features just as many water sports and activities as anything along a coast in warm weather. Skiing is just a hop, skip and a jump away in the winter.

For those who would rather sit by a pool, the resort offers three swimming pool options to suit every taste and style. The longest tram ride in the world is nearby for guests who would rather observe than participate. And there’s a good golf course on the property, and a spectacular Conde Nast Traveler-ranked spa that incorporates a number of local ingredients.

The Food Is a Bride and Groom’s Dream
The adobe hotel complements its desert surroundings. The Pueblo Tribe has left its stamp all over the property, not just in the architecture, but also in the sculptures, art, cedar-burning lobby fireplace, and menu in its critically-acclaimed restaurant, Corn Maiden. Interestingly, unlike most hotel properties, each restaurant within the hotel has its own chef and kitchen team, allowing brides and grooms to identify who will be supervising their wedding menu, and to work with them directly to create a menu that wows their guests. Many of the ingredients come from the property’s own gardens and the honey found in so many dishes comes from the resort’s own bee hives.

You Feel Like You’re in a “Destination”
In this time of heightened social awareness about the plight of the Native American legacy, Hyatt Tamaya is a resort that offers a southwestern feel with as much, or as little, Native American influence as a couple likes. If you wish to highlight the region’s history, you might have your guests greeted by Native Americans in traditional dress, with a locally-crafted blue corn necklace. Or book a performance of an authentic celebratory dance performed by locals for your welcome party.

Tons of Stunning Spots to Say “I Do”
Each of the resort’s three wedding venues has a completely different feel: The House of Hummingbird’s ceremony spot provides a backdrop of the Tuyuna Mesa, the most sacred spot on the Pueblo. It’s so special to the tribe that you cannot visit it, but you can get married right in front of the breathtaking mesa. In the Sunrise Amphitheater, your backdrop is the Sandia Mountains, which turn pink on top at sunset. There are several indoor and outdoor reception venues located across the property, mostly isolated so that your event won’t be interrupted by other hotel guests.

See More: 5 Things All Instagram-Worthy Wedding Venues Have in Common

Your Wedding Will Be Totally Unique
Greet your guests with honeycomb snacks and little bottles of honey from the hotel’s hives, and thank them with a locally-made dreamcatcher or hot air balloon ornament. After a farewell breakfast with a make-your-own Bloody Mary bar (called the “Bloody Married Brunch”), invite your guests to see you off on your honeymoon in a hot air balloon. There’s nothing typical about this wedding destination. The only question is will you have enough time to do everything you want to do while you’re visiting New Mexico.

Sandy Malone is the owner of Sandy Malone Weddings & Events and author of How to Plan Your Own Destination Wedding: Do-It-Yourself Tips from an Experienced Professional. Sandy is the star of TLC’s reality show Wedding Island, about her destination wedding planning company, Weddings in Vieques.

She designs engagement rings, fine china, and red-carpet dresses for your fave celebs like Taylor Swift, Emily Ratajkowski, Emma Stone, and Anna Kendrick, but for Monique Lhuillier, it started with a wedding dress.

Two decades ago, the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising graduate discovered her calling when she was shopping for her own big day — and found very few fashion-forward options: “Everything was so one-dimensional and traditional,” she says. She settled on a duchesse-satin gown with a drop waist and cascading bows and resolved to fix the hole in the market.

The next year, at a trade show in Las Vegas, she presented her first collection, five dresses that shook up the industry with sheer fabrics and body-hugging silhouettes. “I wanted beautiful and timeless — but not stuffy,” she says.

Lhuillier has stuck to that mantra ever since, letting brides shine through all that tulle and lace. “A wedding gown should make the bride feel the most beautiful she’s ever felt and reflect her personal sense of style,” muses Lhuillier. And now, brides have more choices than ever to show off that personal style thanks to the designer. In 2012, Monique expanded her bridal presence to include engagement rings and wedding bands, and her contemporary collections always feature on-trend details, like soft washes of color. In fact, Monique loves blush so much that it now appears in all her collections! But there are some things that don’t ever change. Lhuillier’s classic lace wedding dress “Scarlet” is one of her all-time best-sellers and the designer still hails the veil as her favorite wedding accessory.

See More: 14 Celebrities Who Wore Monique Lhuillier on Their Wedding Day

So what’s her favorite thing about bridal fashion now? “There are fewer rules, and there’s more room for individuality,” she says. “I love how girls are open to trying dresses that have different components to them, like a skirt that’s separate from the corset.” Here’s to 20 more years of trendsetting, show-stopping bridal looks!

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Plenty of brides definitely dream of copy-catting Princess Kate’s iconic Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen wedding dress. Those long lace sleeves, that dramatic train, the full and fabulous skirt… Gahhh! Sure, countless women would love a Kate Middleton lookalike look come their wedding day, but celebrity bride-to-be Emmy Rossum just took a page out of the Duchess of Cambridge’s style playbook pre- the big day. The Shameless star just rocked Middleton’s red dress from her recent Royal Tour of Canada to an equally as royal event &mash; her bridal shower!

Rossum has been keeping most of her wedding plans hush-hush since revealing her vintage round-cut engagement ring from fiancé Sam Esmail a year ago. She’s been keeping us on the edge of our seat as we wait for her to tie the knot (we want to see that wedding dress, y’all!), but it looks like we’ve just hit the final countdown! Rossum just celebrated her super chic bridal shower in Los Angeles — wearing the same dress as the Duchess of Cambridge’s look for the occasion!

Rossum arrived at her luxe lunch on Sunday, September 25 wearing a scarlet red frock by British designer Preen. Forget that whole ‘wearing white to every pre-wedding party’ trend — sleeveless and with an asymmetrical neckline, the dress kept the bride-to-be in the spotlight thanks to its bright, eye-catching hue. The actress paired her pretty frock with nude heels that peeked out from beneath the tea-length hemline, and a simple low ponytail. “Thank you @katiewarnerjohnson and @doriegolkin for the lovely lunch!!!” Rossum captioned an Instagram snapshot of her pre-wedding party, including the super cute hashtag “#youvegotesmail.”

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As it turns out, Rossum actually beat the Duchess in ye olde Who Wore It First? game. Middleton wore the Preen dress a day later in Canada, according to Us Weekly, accessorizing the look with matching red pumps and a crystal maple leaf brooch. But when it comes to Who Wore It Best?, we have to say it’s a total toss-up. Both ladies look lovely in the look. But will there be another fashion face-off come Rossum’s wedding day? The girl would look stunning in that Alexander McQueen gown… Just sayin’.

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Thank you @katiewarnerjohnson and @doriegolkin for the lovely lunch!!! ???? #youvegotesmail

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