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As great as sex can be, there are certain things that can be singular to us that we just don’t like. Sometimes we fake it so we don’t hurt our partner’s feelings; other times, we may not say anything because we think that over time we might come to like it.
But some things can just bug the crap out of us and ruin sex. We want to be honest and direct with our partners and tell them what we want, what works and doesn’t work for us, but it doesn’t always happen that way.
For some people, being told what to do in bed doesn’t make them feel better — it makes things feel less like sexy time and more like instructional time. When you have sex with someone, it doesn’t begin and end with intercourse. Sex can be from the time you have that first kiss to when you’re getting dressed.
There are some guys who start having sex with a woman, only to be totally turned off when she uses the bathroom afterward and leaves the door open, making the whole thing seem a little too intimate.
Because every zodiac sign has their own likes and dislikes when it comes to sex, it can be good to know what sex moves you may be doing that your man secretly hates.
Now, nobody wants to fart in bed with a hookup, but there are times that our bodies do all kinds of things we don’t want, and you shouldn’t feel self-conscious about it. Astrology isn’t saying don’t be human or don’t do what you want to do; all it’s saying is that you may not know that when you do something, your partner’s enjoyment is decreased a little.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries men secretly hate it when a woman is going full-force with the dirty talk, and then becomes really boring in bed and doesn’t do any of things she talked about it. Not cool.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus men don’t like it when their partner rushes through foreplay. For them, foreplay is the best part of sex. Rule of thumb: take your time with a Taurus.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Since Geminis are up to try anything, they secretly don’t like it when their partner wants to do the same positions over and over again. Variety is everything for Gemini.
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Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
It’s really good to ask for what you want in bed, but don’t tell a Cancer man that he’s doing something wrong or criticize him in any way. That’s a boner killer for sure.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
If you’re having a threesome or some other kind of group sex, don’t ignore the Leo; that will not go over well. If anything, everyone involved should pay extra attention to every part of him, and praise his body while you’re at it.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo men aren’t into big surprises in bed, so don’t spontaneously slap them in the face or do anything out of the blue. All it will do is shock them out of the moment.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libra men want their partners to have a good time, but don’t scream like you’re being murdered during sex — it upsets them. Sure, you can make noise within reason, just don’t wake the neighborhood with your orgasm.
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Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Not to put too much pressure on you, but Scorpios secretly hate when their partners don’t orgasm. They want evidence that you’ve had as good a time as they have and that you’ll soon be up for round two… or ten.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius men are spontaneous and like to mix things up, so they secretly hate routine in the bedroom or scheduled sex. If something worked great last time, keep it in the rotation, just don’t do it every single time.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn men love sex and are very sexual; however, they don’t like when someone (without warning) sticks a finger up their ass. Please, a little warning first!
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius men secretly hate any kind of boring, traditional sex. Why do the missionary position all the time when there are so many others to try?
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Sex to a Pisces is an escapist adventure and one that he wants to last, so he secretly hates it when he’s bitten during a blow job. It usually brings him right back to reality. Keep your teeth away from the penis.
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This article originally appeared on YourTango.