If you somehow haven’t yet been afflicted with the total obsession over absurdly-hot-and-adorable married couple Channing Tatum and Jenna Dewan that’s taking over the majority of the population right now, prepare to be plagued. The stripper-turned-A-list actor just got seriously real about his sex life with his smoke show of a wife, and now we’re all kinds of flustered thinking about these two babes getting it on.

Tatum was speaking to a group of women (Cosmopolitan called is “a literal sea of women”) Wednesday at the Cannes Lions festivities in the south of France and, during a “steamy” Facebook Live, the actor gave a candid account of what their sex life is like.

“Me and sex are friends. We’re animals,” the Magic Mike actor, who’s been with Jenna Dewan since they co-starred in Step Up, told the group. “It’s not a means. It’s something that enriches your life… it’s one of the clearest ways that we communicate, it boils things down to a very primal level.”

When asked about sexuality and connectivity, Tatum explained that he and his wife don’t have sex to “back into” happiness. “That’s how we know there’s something we have to talk about, that we have to solve… whatever’s between us energetically, before we can sort of get down. For lack of a better term, we don’t hate f**k each other. That’s just not what we do.” Wowzers.

Tatum then opened up about the kind of sex they have. If you must know, it’s “truly all different kinds” depending on their respective schedules and energy levels. “Sometimes it’s,…Look, you gotta get this done, I gotta work. That’s a real thing. To me, that’s us being completely open. Being like, Look, I don’t have the energy. Then you have full on, just completely, totally connected, otherworldly connections.”

The actor also revealed how having a daughter has changed him (“Your life isn’t yours anymore”), and how messy his wife is at home (“she’ll just leave the milk out”). And, just for good measure, he gave his thoughts on pornography in America.

“I think America’s a little repressed,” Tatum said. “It’s taboo but we like talking about it. We can’t talk about it very openly. So we do it in these weird places at home. The stuff on the internet is just wild. It’s out there and it’s what’s educating out youth and how to have sex, and that’s kind of scary… kind of demeaning. It’s a dominant type of porn that’s out there. I don’t think that’s very good.”

Ah, the wedding favor. Part sweet gesture, part knicknack your guests will feel sort of guilty throwing away in a few years. And while it doesn’t have to be that way (edible wedding favors exist for a reason!), it can still feel like a lot of money to spend on mementos that might not even be something your guests want. The question is, do you have to give out wedding favors at all? Our experts weigh in.

While giving guests wedding favors is a nice way to thank them for joining you for the celebration, they’re not required. After all, you just served them a great dinner and spent the night on the dance floor — not to mention the bar! — so much more of a thank you isn’t required (beyond the hand-written thank you cards, of course!). Chances are your guests won’t even notice that there isn’t a table of monogrammed wine glasses or cutely packaged cookies waiting by the exit. And since you’ll save money by skipping the favors, you’ve got hundreds of dollars, if not more, to put toward renting that photobooth you really wanted or having the band play for an extra hour — making memories your guests will really cherish.

If you really do want to send guests home with a little something, but don’t want to be left with dozens of bottle openers with your wedding date on them, a treat for the car ride home is just the thing. It could be cookies or candy, fresh scones and jam for the next morning, a Bloody Mary kit to cure their hangover, or something more substantial like a late-night burger and fries (especially good if your after party will last until the wee hours!). Work with your planner to figure out the correct number of portions to have available, since there’s no chance your entire guest list will still be present at 2 a.m., and pick something you’ll be happy to dig into once you’ve finally gotten those pins out of your hair!

See more: 6 Wedding Favors Your Guests Actually Want

Shortly after breaking up with longtime boyfriend Calvin Harris, Taylor Swift is already back on her A-game in the dating world. After romantic photos of her smooching her new beau, Tom Hiddleston, were released to the public, the Internet went on a gossip-fueled frenzy speculating everything from Swift cheating on her ex to it all being some sort of PR stint. But after we saw this absolutely precious video of the “Bad Blood” singer dancing around with Hiddleston at a Selena Gomez concert, we immediately knew it could be nothing short of true love.

The short video, taken in Nashville as Gomez sang her top hit “Hands to Myself,” shows Swift bopping around in a trendy burgundy crop top and giving Hiddleston a sweet hug before it appears that the singer realized she was being filmed. Other photos from the concert show the hottest new couple in Hollywood saying hello to fans before taking their seats.

This wasn’t the first time the superstar duo showed signs of romance, either. At the 2016 Met Gala, an utterly adorable video surfaced of the pair dancing to T.I.’s 2004 smash hit “Bring ‘Em Out.” Their chemistry, as you can see, is totally undeniable. In a May interview with MTV UK, Hiddleston only had sweet words of praise for his soon-to-be girlfriend. “I sat next to her at dinner that night, and she was very charming. She is amazing — I’ve seen a couple of her videos.”

So what does Harris have to say about his ex-girlfriend’s swift breakup bounce back? Well, actions certainly say it all. The DJ and producer, who broke up with her a month after the Met Gala, erased all pictures and tweets related to the “New Romantics” pop star. Swift quickly followed suit and has since deleted most of her posts featuring her ex.

See more: Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris Allegedly Broke Up Because She Wanted to Get Married

The romance may be dead for Swift and Harris, but we’re totally getting on board the Hiddleswift train. We can hear wedding bells already! And judging from how GORG the singer looked as a bridesmaid at her BFF’s wedding, we have a feeling she’ll be just as stunning (if not more) on her big day.

Taylor, Tom, Abigail, and Matt at Selena Gomez's show tonight! #RevivalTourNashville pic.twitter.com/m8jtY9XSgp

— Taylor Swift Updates (@TSwiftLA) June 22, 2016

Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston being cute af during Hands To Myself at #RevivalTourNashville….And Austin's alone. pic.twitter.com/WEGBHNZqq6

— Taylor Swift News (@TSwiftCali) June 22, 2016

Taylor, Tom, Kelsea, Abigail, Matt, and Austin at the show! #RevivalTourNashville pic.twitter.com/MMcGVjeHEs

— Taylor Swift Updates (@TSwiftLA) June 22, 2016

TAYLOR SWIFT & TOM HIDDLESTON GETTING DOWN #MET #DANCE #FUNFUN #PRINCE #NYC #tomhiddleston

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Attention all beauty-obsessed brides-to-be: we have big news! BRIDES has teamed up with Allure to create the ultimate, limited edition, Bridal Beauty Box! We know, talk about a match made in heaven. If you don’t already know what the Allure Beauty Box is, we’ll break it down for you — trust us, it’s everything.

And our editors are just as obsessed with the beloved products in the BRIDES Beauty Box as you’ll be. We took everything from mascara, to cleansing oil, nail polish, and even fragrance for a test ride to give our editors’ real unbiased reviews of what you’ll get inside your monthly subscription.

Here’s exactly what you’ll find in the Brides x Allure Beauty Box ($49.95, available for purchase here), and what our editors are loving.

1. Fresh Black Tea Age-Delay Eye Concentrate, $78
“Trust me, you need this eye cream after a night out of dancing for your bachelorette party. It’ll turn into a trusty friend as you start to see those fine lines appear.”

2. DHC Deep Cleansing Oil, $28
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3. Pur-lisse Blue Lotus + White Tea Treatment Sheet Mask, $8
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4. Smashbox Photo Finish Foundation Primer, $36
“I mean, this is a classic for a reason. It creates a perfect sheer silky layer that’ll help keep your makeup on all night long.”

5. Mally Evercolor Starlight Waterproof Liner in Black Navy, $18
“The Mally Evercolor Starlight waterproof liner pencil goes on like butter. I can go from casual office look to smoky eye in just seconds — I love it!”

6. Rimmel London Wonder’Lash Waterproof Mascara, $7.99
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9. Lauren B. Nail Polish in Sunset Tower, $18
“I loved this color, perfect for a bridal shower, I would actually have loved to use this on my wedding day.”

10. Aerin Matchbox Gift Set, $20
“The mini perfume samplers from Aerin all smelled SO good, but my favorite would have to be Waterlily Sun. ??It’s fresh and floral scent would be lovely for any summer bride.” ??

What are you waiting for? Grab a box for you — or a few for your bridesmaids or other special ladies in your life — here.

The Allure Beauty Box is the only monthly subscription box that’s curated by magazine editors, and tested by experts. In each box, you’ll find at least six deluxe sized (no single use foil packets here!), luxury samples for only $15 a month, along with a detailed “mini mag” that explains what each product is, and why Allure editors love them. But of course, our collab takes it a few steps further…

In true BRIDES fashion, the Brides x Allure Beauty Box is totally tailored with your big day in mind. The white box is adorned with gold foil letters, so it can be customized with your new Mrs. initials, or *gift idea* your bridesmaids’! Filled with a mix of 10 deluxe and full sized products, this bridal survival kit has you covered from the moment you wake up, all the way through your last dance!

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When one thinks of engagement and save-the-date photos, it’s usually a couple kissing, walking romantically, holding hands, and maaaybe a dog or other furry friend mixed in. But, one doctor-to-be has defied save-the-date etiquette and created a photoshoot to celebrate her relationship (with medical school) by taking photos with her medical degree-to-be…and the results are amazing.

Reddit user DrOttoDO, also known as Megan Otto, shared a parody of her laborious efforts to get her medical degree, using a save-the-date photoshoot with her diploma as her alleged spouse-to-be in an apparent save-the-date photo, according to Bustle. She captioned it, “Not getting married anytime soon, so I sent this Save the Date out instead.” The image posted was of the doctor cradling her medical degree, and in true wedding fashion — reminding her family and friends to block off May 20, 2017 on their calendars, saying, “Megan will go from Ms. to Dr. as she is united in love with her Medical degree.” Well played, Dr. O, well played.

Sure, during the journey from Miss to Missus, relationships take a lot of effort and time. But so does a medical school journey from Miss to Doctor! The doctor-to-be is graduating from Kansas University Medical School next year, and it’s clear that she has a seriously badass (life-saving!) career for which she worked very hard. Since some people spend as much time on their wedding as others do with their medical degree, we can’t disagree — she dedicated her time and energy to becoming a doctor, and deserves to celebrate her career milestone (even if that means a playful photoshoot).

See More: These Gorgeous Engagement Photo Ideas Will Blow You Away

Of course, the internet trolls and supporters were out in full force on Reddit — some loving it and some hating it, obviously. One such user wrote, “I’m assuming someone as educated as a doctor would know this is pure narcissism,” while others came to her defense, saying, “Or maybe the fact that a woman makes a parody of save the date engagement photos was too much for your brain to handle. Usually those who make accusations of narcissism are just jealous/insecure/self-loathing. The woman spent as much money on her degree as some people spend on weddings. The post is funny.” We’d have to agree, random internet commenter! Hey, whatever you want to do — as long as it’s not a boudoir session with your degree. That might be a little weird.

Good luck with your last year of medical school, Dr. O — hopefully your “big day” photos will be just as special. And unlike many brides-to-be, you won’t have to go through as much strife to change your name!

Woman and her future medical degree do hilarious save the date shoot https://t.co/W4S7MOFdnn pic.twitter.com/smSUHp853u

— Mashable (@mashable) June 15, 2016

With weddings come rules. But, “as the etiquette of weddings changes with modern society a few of the steadfast rules for wedding guests are changing as well,” says Amy Nichols, owner of Amy Nichols Special Events and co-founder of The Poppy Group. And with that in mind, here are seven wedding guest rules you totally can and should break. The couple may even thank you.

1. Bringing a Gift to the Wedding
According Jaclyn Fisher, owner of Philadelphia-based Two Little Birds Planning, many couples actually prefer guests not bring a physical gift to their wedding, and would rather you ship their presents directly to their homes, before or even after the big day. “It’s one less thing that guests need to bring, and one less thing that couples need to pack up at the end of the reception,” Fisher explains.

2. Requesting Songs
Sure, the couple probably provided their DJ with a must-play list, and they probably have a style or genre to which they like to stick. “But that doesn’t mean a guest can’t make a request of the DJ,” says Nichols. “It’s up to the DJ to filter that request through the client’s wish list to see if it’s a fit and to determine when the best time to play that song might be. Remember, it’s only a request, and there’s nothing wrong with asking.”

3. Wearing Black
In the past, wearing black was associated with being in mourning — not exactly the message guests typically want to send to a bride and groom on the happiest days of their lives. “But that school of thought is outdated,” says Fisher. “Black is classic, fashionable, and chic!”

4. And Maybe Even White
This has been a non-negotiable rule for eons, and it can definitely be a major horror for some brides. But, Nichols says, “there are actually a surprising amount of weddings that are going all-white, and we’re even seeing brides wearing a pop of color and the bridesmaids wearing white.” Even if the bride isn’t hosting an all-white soir&eacutee, “it’s pretty safe to assume that white espadrilles or cream-colored linen dresses would be perfectly acceptable,” says Nichols. “Just don’t wear anything that screams bridal.”

See More: 20 Last-Minute Wedding-Planning Details You Can’t Forget

5. Choosing a Side
Years ago, guests were ushered to one side of the aisle if they were the bride’s guest, and the opposite side if they were friends with the groom. But, “it’s no longer necessary for the bride’s guests to sit on one side and the groom’s guests to sit on the other,” says Fisher. “These days, mixed seating is OK. Not sitting on specific sides is a great way for guests to mingle and get to know each other.”

6. Enjoying the Extras
Asks Nichols, “Did the bride and groom hire a food truck for late night arrival? Guests may probably be starving from all of that dancing and need to soak up some of the alcohol,” so they will most likely dig in. Same goes for an open bar, if you have one. “There is nothing more upsetting to the couple than hearing that only half of the guests they paid for partook in the special surprise they had invested in and painstakingly planned for you,” she explains. So guests, enjoy yourselves!

7. Leaving Before the Bride and Groom
Barring a special and planned exit, you don’t actually have to stay at the reception until after the bride and groom depart. “With fewer couples planning an official exit and more couples staying on the dance floor until the very last song, it’s not expected that all guests stay past the newlyweds,” says Fisher. “It is, however, best to stay until after cake cutting.”

The morning of your wedding is a time for strict rest and relaxation, though sometimes things happen that are a little out of your control. Whether it’s forgetting to pack something or having to spend a couple of precious hours tracking down your wedding vendors, sometimes the morning of your wedding is anything but “chill“. Take note of the seven things these brides wish they had with them on the morning of their wedding.

1. A Hiding Spot
“I had 10 bridesmaids and we were all together in the hotel room on the morning of the wedding. It got really loud and rowdy in there. I desperately wanted some peace and quiet and I kept wishing I had a room or a place to hang out in to rest and relax.” — Amanda L, 26

2. An Extra Pair of Hands
“I didn’t hire a wedding planner or a day of person and I wish that I did. Now that I think about it, it would have been worth every single penny. I had to do a lot of last-minute work myself, like tracking down vendors and setting up my DIY projects. By the end of the morning, my nails were chipped and my hair was all sweaty.” — Clarissa W., 31

3. A Food Platter
“I remember being so hungry on my wedding day. The venue we were getting ready at didn’t have any food they could provide us until 5pm. We ended up ordering pizza, because that’s all that was around. I wish I had stopped at a grocery store in the morning and picked up healthier options.” — Paula T., 32

4. Air Conditioning
“The church’s air was out. It was August. We got ready at the church. Let me just tell you that it was miserable and I had my bridesmaids fan me with paper plates.” — Teresa G., 29

5. A Can of Hairspray
“You know how everyone tells you to go to CVS before your wedding and buy everything in the travel toiletry section? Well do it. I didn’t have anything with me that I needed, like hairspray and safety pins.” — Beth L., 28

6. Comfy Clothes
“Before getting in my dress, I wish I had a pair of soft pajamas to hang around in. The only clothes I had were formal dresses for the rehearsal dinner and the Sunday morning brunch.” — Linda M., 34

7. My Dog
“I wish my dog was there for the morning. The hotel was dog friendly and I should have brought her. She should have been a bridesmaid. if I could redo the whole thing, that’s the number one change I’d make.” — Kelly H., 27

See More: 10 Things You Can’t Forget to Do the Morning of Your Wedding

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

Just a single day after the relationship between Katie Holmes and Jamie Foxx was officially confirmed (which, duh, we’ve already known about for months, or ahem years…) and Holmes is already rocking a wedding dress — and she sure makes for one beautiful bride! But before you get too excited — we must admit that our hearts stopped beating for a second there! — Holmes isn’t actually planning her wedding to Foxx just yet. So what’s with these pics of Holmes in wedding day wear?

The photos of the actress were actually snapped on the set of the upcoming television miniseries The Kennedys: After Camelot, in which she plays former first Jackie Kennedy. And of course Holmes got to don a recreation of the style icon’s 1968 Valentino wedding dress for the role! That lucky, lucky girl…

We’ve been studying Holmes’ left ring finger since January when the actress was spotted with a stunning diamond sparkler on the red carpet. Her and Foxx have been a rumored couple since 2013 and we couldn’t help but wonder was it an engagement ring? A wedding ring from another secret celebrity wedding ceremony? A bold fashion choice? We had to know! Honestly, we were hoping it was an engagement ring, because gosh darn it, we were aching to see Holmes in a wedding dress! (It’s been far too long since her 2006 nuptials to Tom Cruise.) Well, it looks like we got our wish… Well, sort of. Although, Real Housewives of Atlanta alum, Claudia Jordan, confirmed Foxx and Holmes’ relationship earlier this week, stating on a podcast, “He is very happy with her,” this bridal frock was for a whole different kind of wedding.

For her role in the miniseries, Holmes wore Kennedy’s chic little white dress from her 1968 wedding to her second husband, Aristotle Onassis, according to E! News. And not only does Holmes bare an uncanny resemblance to the real Jackie O., but the woman can definitely work a LWD! One look at that pleated skirt, lace embroidered long sleeves, and high neckline and it’s no wonder that Kennedy has earned her place as a true iconic bride. Plus, it proves that when Holmes does eventually tie the knot with Foxx (we’re waaaiting…), she could effortlessly pull off any basically bridal style.

But you never had any doubts about that, did you?

A photo posted by RakStarz.com (@rakstarz) on Jun 21, 2016 at 6:38pm PDT

A photo posted by Stevie (@therealstevie_) on Jun 20, 2016 at 10:37pm PDT

See More: Leah Remini Reveals Surprising Details from Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes’ Wedding Nearly Ten Years Later

Choosing your bridesmaids is the easy part. Figuring out what to give them as the perfect thank you gift? A little more challenging. But for everything they’ve done, as both your closest friends and your support system through the wedding planning process, they deserve a little something special. We love the idea of treating your ‘maids to a customized gift that is unique to each of them, an item they’ll know you picked out just for them and that you know they’ll use for years to come. Here are a few personalized gifts your bridesmaids will totally love!

Coordinates Bracelet
Whether it’s the spot where you’ll say “I do” or a different special place for every ‘maid, a customized coordinates bracelet, like this one from Coordinates Collection, is the perfect reminder of a moment you’ll cherish forever — without asking your friends to flaunt your wedding date on their wrist. Coordinates Collection Palisade Bracelet, from $145.00.

Personalized Leather Pouch
From lipgloss to credit cards to pens and pencils, every girl could use a sleek and sturdy pouch to tuck into her bag. This cosmetic bag comes in classic hues or bright, fun colors so you can pick a style that fits every friend’s personality. Dress it up with her monogram, her name, or a cute phrase, and she’ll always know where her stuff is! Parola Personalized Leather Cosmetic Bag, from $60.00.

Custom Jewelry
Every bridesmaid has her own style, so why not flaunt it with custom jewelry from the Kendra Scott Color Bar? Choose earrings or a necklace that fits her best, then use stones in coordinating hues so she’ll look her best on your big day. Kendra Scott Color Bar Jewelry, prices vary.

See more: 6 Ways to Tell Your Bridesmaids Thank You Beyond Just Gifts

Monogrammed Passport Holder
If your bridesmaids are a bunch of jet-setters (or you’re inviting them out of the country for your destination wedding!), a passport holder is the perfect gift — especially when you can choose the colors and add their monograms! Go for a set of covers in matching hues, or mix it up and choose a color combo that fits each of your gals to a T. Gathered and Sown Monogrammed Passport Cover, $35.95.

Zodiac Sign Necklace
What’s more true to someone’s personality than their zodiac sign? Whether she follows her horoscope religiously or flips to the back of the magazine just for fun, a necklace featuring your friends’ astrological signs is too accurate to pass up. These charms from Satya Jewelry feature the sign’s constellation, with one star studded with the sign’s birthstone for a hint of sparkle. Satya Jewelry Zodiac Necklace, $98.00.

Nothing dresses up a makeup look like full, fluttery eyelashes, but on your big day, the last thing you want to deal with is the hassle of applying faux lashes. Instead, opt for eyelash extensions to achieve long, lush lashes with tons of volume and a glamorous curl—sans mascara—that will last weeks after you say “I do.” From super natural to avant-garde, here are five LA lash bars that will bring out the sparkle in your eyes for your nuptials.

BlinkBar
Choose from over 300 types of luxe lashes — available in synthetic mink, silk, or cruelty-free Siberian mink — at this cult-favorite spot. Whether you go with demure corner lashes for a natural eye-opening swoosh or go all out with an exotic cat eye set that dramatically flares out at the edges, the extensions will stay fresh and full for a month or more. The chic salon’s reasonable pricing (a full set of lashes starts at $120) also makes it a winner for brides on a budget.

Integrity Lash
At Integrity Lash, you’ll be treated like the VIP that you are thanks to private treatment rooms where you can lay back and relax while one of their highly trained master lash designers uses surgical magnifying optics and professional LED lighting to meticulously apply your lustrous lash extensions with pin-point precision. The salon boasts a massive inventory of 3.5 million lashes that makes all other lash bars pale in comparison.

See More: Looking to Get Glam Before Your Big Day? Check Out the Best Beauty Salons in Southern California!

Makeup Mandy
This West Hollywood lash destination is where stars go for their voluminous lashes. Founder and owner Amanda Jacobellis is a celebrity lash and makeup artist whose work has graced numerous magazines and screens big and small—so you know you’ll be in good hands. A full set of feathery lashes applied by Jacobellis herself costs $380 and last approximately six to eight weeks.

Longmi Lashes
Your special day calls for the best of the best — and that means making a visit to lauded lash inventor Daniel Dinh in Beverly Hills known for his unique, multi-layer lash extension technique. Splurge on a full set done by Dinh himself which will run you $330 — totally worth it when you wake up looking flawless on your wedding day.

Mikki Bey
Score ethereal, romantic wedding-ready lashes with the help of lash guru Mikki Bey. An appointment with her at her pretty pink Culver City lash studio includes a consultation, during which she’ll plan out a custom lash look just for you. The extensions will last up to four weeks time, which is perfect for walking down the aisle with lavish lashes and going makeup-free (and still looking gorgeous) while on your subsequent tropical honeymoon.

For more wedding-day beauty specialists in Los Angeles, visit our Local Vendor page!