Everything You Need to Pack for a Cold Weather Honeymoon Destination

As summer finally arrives, sweltering temps have us thinking about a beautiful mountain retreat in the snowy Alps, a chic ski chalet in Vail, a jaunt to the Southern hemisphere’s wintery temps, or even a delightfully chilly Iceland trip — perfect honeymoon destinations for a couple that doesn’t want the tried and true tropical locations. So what do you pack in lieu of sunscreen and beach towels for a honeymoon with snow instead of sand? We’ve rounded up a mix of our favorite products (some of which you can even register for!) for a perfectly packed snow honeymoon suitcase.

1. The perfect suitcase for a snowy retreat: Something white, of course! We love this Herschel hard suitcase, easy to clean if it (gasp!) gets a mark or two when in transit unlike other light color luggage that is fabric or leather.

2. A good book: You’re going to need something cozy to read all curled up by the fire, and what better time to delve into something classic (and long) than when you have lots of free time on your hands? We suggest giving Anna Karenina a try — with 800+ pages it should keep you occupied.

3. A stylish and warm boot: Besides a snow boot that will keep your feet toasty when you’re tromping through the snow, it’s nice to have another pair that checks both the semi-practical (read: keeps you warm) and stylish boxes. We love this pair from No. 6—shearling lined, heeled, and water repellent!

4. A luxe travel blanket:
There’s nothing better than a super soft and cozy blanket when you’re traveling, and this mohair throw from Restoration Hardware is not only perfect for the plane, but a great addition to your registry! Get it in a neutral like cream or camel so you can have it for years, regardless of how many times you switch up your living room or bedding palette.

5. An oversized tote:
Another perfect travel piece, and perfect for carrying around all your bulkier winter weather accessories once you get to your honeymoon spot. Keep your palette consistently neutral and icy toned and go for this tote in pearl gray.

6. Sunscreen perfect for skiing: Just because you aren’t going to the beach doesn’t mean you can forget the sunscreen! It’s essential to have a good sunscreen since the sun hits you from two directions: both directly, and reflecting off the snow. Clarins makes a great UV PLUS Anti-Pollution Sunscreen that is also tinted to make getting ready easy before you head out on the slopes. And don’t forget your lips! Make sure you’re not only keeping them moisturized so they don’t chap, but that you’re using something with an SPF, otherwise your lips will burn from the wind AND the sun! We love this lip trio from Supergoop!, specially formulated to protect against winter’s chill.

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Jennifer Carpenter and Seth Avett Are Married! What We Know About Their Memorial Day Weekend Wedding

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Another sneaky secret celebrity wedding to add to the list! Actress Jennifer Carpenter and musician Seth Avett are officially wed, having tied the knot over Memorial Day weekend. And while we’re uber excited for these two newlyweds, is a little heads up too much to ask for?!

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Before tying the knot with her new hubby, Carpenter was married to her former Dexter co-star, Michael C. Hall. The couple split back in 2011 and two years later, the Limitless actress began dating the Avett Brothers frontman. “They have a lot in common and seem to have a similar sense of humor,” a pal said of the pair at the time. “There is an ease about their relationship. They are a good match.” News of the couple’s engagement — complete with a pretty little gold ring — broke in February of last year and Carpenter also announced that she was pregnant with their first child! The actress gave birth to their little one, a son they named Isaac, in May 2015, mere weeks after shooting the pilot for her latest show, Limitless. Phew, busy year right?

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And now, Carpenter and her singing sweetheart are officially hitched! According to Us Weekly, a rep of the pair confirmed their newly married status almost three weeks after their Memorial Day weekend wedding. As surprised as we are, there were a of couple clues that hinted that these two had tied the knot. During a concert in early June, Avett had reportedly flashed his wedding ring to the audience. And his recent Instagram photos with the band also featured some new jewelry on his finger…

As for the wedding day itself, a source divulged to Us Weekly that it was a “small and private” ceremony in North Carolina — the groom’s home state. “They’re incredibly happy to be married,” the source said. And we’re happy for them! (Although we still wish we had scored an invite…)

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See How One Couple Worked a Bold Color Palette Into Their Plantation Wedding in New Orleans

For Lindsay Scott and Wells Winfrey, the third time truly was the charm. After a mutual friend attempted to set them up not once but twice without any luck, it took a third meeting — at a wedding, no less! — for sparks to fly. And fly they did. Once they got engaged, this somewhat indecisive couple went back-and-forth on a few wedding day details, including where they’d host their May 9, 2015, destination celebration. These two travel lovers considered several spots, but ultimately landed on New Orleans, where the bride-to-be attended college. With the city’s world-renowned cuisine and old Southern charm, Lindsay and Wells felt confident their 92 guests would have fun on their day and beyond. “If you can’t manage to have a good time in New Orleans, then I’m not sure where you can,” Lindsay points out.

With the help of the team at Nola Bash, this bride and groom created an intimate and elegant celebration with a focus on fine food, wine, and of course, an all-night dance party. Charlie Juliet Photography was there to capture every striking deep purple and green detail, all seen below.

Wells asked Lindsay to marry him with an heirloom diamond ring that had been in his family for years. “It’s really beautiful and it’s an honor to have been entrusted with something so important,” Lindsay says.

The couple planned their celebration at Stella Plantation, where guests could enjoy the venue’s live oak trees and sprawling lawns without some of the rules imposed by other historic spaces. “That was a huge plus logistically,” she the bride says. Their invitation suite even featured a rendering of the foliage their friends and family would see on the big day.

Unlike most other brides, Lindsay says finding her dress was one of her least favorite parts of planning the wedding, noting it was difficult going into shopping without a clear idea of what she was looking for. She ultimately decided on an A-line Vera Wang wedding dress with a sweetheart neckline, draped tulle bodice, and open back. “This was the dress I liked the most, so after a week of debating, I went for it,” she says.

She also carried a mixed bouquet made of succulents, anemones, ranunculus, and eucalyptus pods. Wells went classic, wearing a custom tuxedo — an easy pick for the groom!

With a large live oak tree as the backdrop for their outdoor ceremony the pair didn’t feel they needed much in the way of decor. Instead, Lindsay and Wells opted for small purple flower arrangements that were hung from the branches of the tree and let the beauty of the plantation do the rest of the work.

Lindsey and Wells hosted their reception in a white tent on the grounds, and guests could find their seat assignments — at tables named for New Orleans streets — hung by clothespins on a line. Before moving inside the tent, everyone enjoyed a cocktail hour beside the enclosure. “Thank goodness our wedding planner remembered bug spray,” Lindsay says. “Dusk in the swamplands of Louisiana means a lot of mosquitos!”

When they moved inside the tent, guests were greeted with a striking sight: Purple fabric draped along the ceiling of the tent, completely transforming the interior. “The tent was a permanent one,” Lindsay says, “so I didn’t get a say in the size or style of it. It was larger than I wanted, and it wasn’t most attractive tent, so I had very dark purple fabric draped across the top of the tent to help bring the ceiling down and create a more intimate feeling.” Another plus? The draping hid some of the metal poles the bride wasn’t fond of.

Centerpieces varied from table to table, but most were made of a mixture of moss, succulents, and deep purples flowers with candles mixed in at varying heights and sizes. “I don’t think that was any real specific way in which we personalized the wedding. I think it was just reflected in our choices overall,” the bride says of their décor. “We really just focused on great food, great wine, and a great band, because that’s what we love in general.”

And talk about great food. As indicated on their menu cards, the couple served an amazing meal that included Southern favorites like Louisiana shrimp-stuffed flounder, beef short ribs, and banana pudding.

The feast didn’t end there: Dessert also included a white three-tier confection made from layers of almond cake and chocolate buttercream filling.

Music was also important to the bride and groom, who chose to hire two live bands for the day’s entertainment.

Thinking back on the day, Lindsay cautions other brides to keep it simple. “It’s so easy to get carried away when planning a wedding but focus on the things that people will truly remember and you can’t go wrong,” she says.

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Can We Have Our Wedding on a Holiday?

Holiday weddings. Some people love them and appreciate the opportunity to celebrate with you over a long weekend, others wish you’d just let them spend their day off with their family. So is that a seal of approval, or should you go back to the calendar? Here’s what our experts have to say.

When you’re looking at the calendar to choose a date for your wedding, it can be tempting to pick a long weekend where you’ve got Monday off. It seems like a no-brainer, giving you more time to spend with family and friends without using up every last vacation day. Some holiday weekends (we’re looking at you, Memorial Day and Labor Day!) are hugely popular as wedding dates. And why not? The weather’s pretty great, and having Monday off means you can invite guests to join you for a few days of fun without having to take time off from work. But, of course, they’re also popular travel and vacation weekends, meaning your wedding might prevent them from heading to the beach with their families or taking a trip home to visit Mom and Dad.

If you do decide to have your wedding on a holiday, it’s all in the holiday you choose. Steer clear of religious holidays if you can — especially if your guests will most likely be acknowledging the holiday with their families. You should also avoid holidays like Thanksgiving and New Year’s Eve. Not only will people probably have other plans (that are long-standing traditions!), travel and hotels can be incredibly expensive during these times, turning your wedding into a huge cost for guests.

You should also be prepared to have a lower acceptance rate, no matter the weekend. Whether it’s a trip that was planned a year in advance or an annual family reunion, there’s a chance some guests may already have plans, so proceed with caution!

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These Wedding Dresses Were Made Entirely Out Of Toilet Paper — And They're Surprisingly Chic

You may have always dreamed of your wedding dress being crafted from the finest silk charmeuse or a painstakingly-detailed Italian white lace. But whatever bridal fabric you’ve set your mind on, we highly doubt you ever would have thought toilet paper could be defined as a “chic” wedding dress material. Yet, after an incredible Toilet Paper Wedding Dress competition that’s put on by Cheap Chic Weddings every year, our perception of the bathroom essential has completely changed. And guess what? These stunning creations cost thousands less than your fave designer gown, although we’re not certain how comfortable they would be if worn all day long…

But regardless of their comfort level, we’re seriously stunned by the creativity and skill the competitors showed in the Charmin-sponsored event. According to ABC News, “The months-long process of creating and voting ended Thursday in New York City when the winner was announced and awarded with the $10,000 prize.”

Not too shabby for a dress made (almost) entirely out of TP! And when we say almost entirely, it all comes down to the materials used to keep the dress intact, like tape, glue, or needle and thread. One more catch? It has to be able to be worn by a human and be able to be taken off — quite a challenge for a material that’s so delicate. But after you take a look at the winning dress, and all of the stunning contenders, you’ll be giving these designers a major standing ovation.

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The winning dress (above), which legitimately looks like a gown taken straight out of a bridal magazine, features a lacy pattern and feathered tufts on the skirt. The top features an intricate cage capelet for the fashion-forward bride.

All of the other finalists:

Ruffled toilet paper? So IN.

A skin-tight mermaid gown to show off your womanly curves? Bey would totally approve.

A dress fit for a queen.

A modern sunhat for your big day? Ummm, hello chic!

Winter nuptials? No problem. Just add a fluffy vest.

No beach-ready wedding dress is complete without ocean-like waves.

Four words — crop until you drop.

This bride is channeling her inner Mother Mary — perfect for a church wedding!

Is this a wedding dress or an owl?!

Lupita Nyong'o, Allison Williams, and Michelle Williams Bring Bridal Style to the Tony's Red Carpet

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Lupita Nyong’o was a fresh breath of late Spring air in florals, Allison Williams demonstrated the power of the jumpsuit, and Michelle Williams kept it classic in black and white. Here, the red carpet looks we couldn’t get enough of this week.

Lupita Nyong’o at the 70th Annual Tony Awards: Florals are perfect for the Spring or Summer, though the print is classic and can actually be worn year-round. Lupita Nyong’o made a case for the colorful pattern this week—clad in an on-trend, off-the-shoulder BOSS gown with allover sequin embellishment. If you’re known for your love of flowers or want to opt for a non-traditional dress, then this is the look for you. And her natural hair, flawless skin, and timeless jewelry let the number play centerstage, while simultaneously amplifying her natural beauty.

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Allison Williams at the 70th Annual Tony Awards: We can’t profess our love for a white jumpsuit any louder. It’s truly one of the most chic ways to do bridal and with each year, designers think of all new iterations of the silhouette. Allison Williams wore a custom-made, tuxedo-inspired design from DKNY: something about this look gave us total engagement party in NYC vibes. And her sleek hair and grey, handheld clutch only furthered the modern aesthetic of the ensemble—ideal for the fashion-forward bride with an edge.

Michelle Williams at the 70th Annual Tony Awards: A woman can never go wrong with Louis Vuitton—especially if the iconic French fashion house is giving you the chance to slip into one of its gorgeous gowns. Bold details are usually the mark of LV’s designs, but Michelle Williams’s white stunner this week was a study in simplicity and elegance: contrast skinny black straps, a plunging neckline, flattering ruching, and a thigh-high front slit. This is the wedding gown for the modern bride and Michelle’s black accessories only further proved that. Her red lips injected a nice pop of color, but nude would be just as powerful.

RHOC Stars Tamra and Eddie Judge Celebrated Their Third Wedding Anniversary in the Best Way

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It’s three years of wedded bliss for Tamra and Eddie Judge! The Real Housewives of Orange County stars are celebrating their third wedding anniversary while on vacation and giving us a peek into their festivities with some fun Instagram snaps.

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Of course, the lovebirds are enjoying their anniversary together with the essentials: vacation, champagne, and each other. The RHOC veteran shared an Instagram snap with the caption, “Can you believe it’s been 3 years already? Married the love of my life and feeling so blessed,” she shared. “@eddiejudge you make me so happy ! You have taught me what true love is suppose to feel like. Happy anniversary baby. #swolemates #theJudge #wifey — #thankyoujesusforeverything #happywifehappylife.” Awwwww.

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The 48-year-old reality star calls her hubby her “swolemate,” as they are both fitness fanatics and owners of the gym C.U.T. Fitness in Orange County together. “I am so lucky to be sharing my life with Eddie. I have never been so in love! This is the beginning of the best part of my life,” she shared with US Weekly.

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If you’re a RHOC fanatic, you know that her new man proposed in Bora Bora after two years of dating. The gorgeous platinum engagement ring is a custom designed white- and rose-gold setting with a round diamond center stone surrounded by a halo of smaller diamonds — and a total weight of over 5 carats. Swooon!

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Before her marriage to Eddie, the housewife was married to Simon Barney. In 2011, they divorced after 13 years of marriage — a very public battle that has played out over many Bravo episodes of the Orange County housewives franchise.

As far as her June 15, 2013 nuptials to her new beau — the lavish affair took place at the Saint Regis Monarch Beach in Dana Point, California and was featured on Bravo’s em>Tamra’s OC Wedding special. For her big day, Tamra wore a beautiful Mark Zunino Haute Couture gown and was escorted down the aisle by her oldest son. When she described the big day to US Weekly, it seemed like everything was absolutely perfect. “Oh gosh — [Eddie’s] so handsome and then he was in that tux,” she reminisced. “In the three and a half years I’ve known Eddie, I’ve never seen him cry. It was really wrenching to see him standing there with tears in his eyes. I thought, ‘Oh my God, this guy really does love me!'” The two said their vows in front of their closest family and friends — including castmates and bridesmaids Heather Dubrow and Vicki Gunvalson.

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A poolside baptism on live TV, a new granddaughter, and three years of holy matrimony — it definitely seems like Judge is on her way to being a new woman! Happy anniversary, you two!

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Anniversary celebration starts NOW #3years #swolemates #funinthesun #wifey???? #

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Real Brides Reveal How They Personalized Their Weddings

When you spend over a year planning for the biggest day of your life, you want it to reflect who you are as a couple. And it comes to aesthetics, those personal touches should be incorporated into your day in whatever way makes you feel excited and proud. For a little day-of inspo, we’re sharing seven enterprising brides’ stories about how they succeeded at putting a very personal stamp on their wedding day.

“We used our surprise party tradition to make the event uniquely
‘us’.” My (then) boyfriend told all our friends he was planning to propose and wanted everyone to be there to celebrate with us. When they turned up to the proposal site, it was a wedding! It was extraordinary to see the rush of emotions as people realized what was happening. It was the perfect way to capture our playful spirit as a couple and create a moment no one will forget! — Katie

“I got married in Atlanta about three and a half years ago. When we exchanged rings during the ceremony, in lieu of
saying something to the effect of, ‘With this ring, I thee wed,’ we exchanged rings and promised to be thunder buddies for life (a reference to the movie Ted). We later recited the proper language in front of a judge in private to make it official.” —Leah

“The traditional father daughter dance became a father/mother/daughter dance. My mother was diagnosed with an illness right before our wedding and I felt like she needed to be included in this special moment in time. There were no dry eyes to say the least.” —Sara

“I found out after announcing the wedding date to my family that none of my five aunts had ever been bridesmaids. They were in their fifties and sixties and told me how they had always wanted to be in a wedding but had never been asked to do so. I loved my aunts dearly, so I made them honorary bridesmaids–complete with dresses, flowers…Some of my other close family members and friends asked if they could be honorary bridesmaids too. I said ‘yes,’ and the party was on! In all, I had 15 honorary bridesmaids, nine “regular” ones, and some very happy aunts who talked about their experience for years.” —Stephanie

“My husband and I had a small and intimate wedding (about 50 guests), and decided to forgo the iconic mother/son, father/daughter, and couple dances. We simply wanted to enjoy the night. Far into our
reception, my husband and I realized we had a rare moment alone, walked to an empty corner, and danced for the first time as man and wife. It was such a gift to experience that special moment in a peaceful setting — one that was free from the (wonderful and well-meaning, but at times, overwhelming) attention of all our guests!” —Ashley

“For our wedding we used two Carvel Fudgie the Whale cakes – a bride and groom.” —Taryn

“We bought a house in the Pasadena area and were inexplicably gifted with two baby chicks from sellers. (I’m from NYC…what the ^&*+% did I know about chickens?) I ended up falling madly in love with them, and our flock soon grew to five. Got engaged. Planned wedding back East but, as a later in life bride, felt too mature to wear the poufy standard bridal veil. I also wanted to creatively incorporate my beloved chickens into my wedding the way people incorporate their dogs and cats. Solution? I made an alternative bridal headpiece out of my hens’ gorgeous, naturally molted feathers. I combined the plumes with organza petals, pearl sprays and ostrich feathers for a light-as-air effect. In doing so, I had my ‘girls’ with me but not in a jokey, silly way. I created an elegant, meaningful and unique hair ornament that was perfect and personal. People went crazy over the non-traditional plumed fascinator and began requesting similar ones. The whole experience prompted me to change careers mid-life and launch my company, The Feathered Head offering online and custom bridal and cocktail party headpieces incorporating feathers, vintage jewelry, crystals and other interesting embellishments. I still can’t believe that my chicken feather headpiece, so personal and memorable to me, literally changed my life 180 degrees!” —Andie

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Sherry Amatenstein, LCSW is a New York City-based marriage therapist and author.

5 Reasons Big Budget Wedding Flowers Are Absolutely Worth The Splurge

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Of course, you can get the look for less, but isn’t the real thing always better? We think so! As if you needed another reason to pick peonies for your wedding day, here are five reasons that’ll leave you completely convinced as to why those big-budget wedding flowers are really worth every penny.

1. Because you get what you pay for!
When you deal with less expensive flowers, unfortunately you usually find yourself with lower end design work and less attention to detail (although not always), notes Bronwen Smith, lead designer and owner of B Floral. A lot of time you also end up with more greenery, which can be a good or bad thing, depending on the specific look you’re after. For this reason, Smith recommends keeping in mind the amount of greenery you’d like, versus what would be unwantedly added because of a misdirected floral budget. “Perhaps it goes without saying that a big investment should always be carefully considered and that, more often than not, high cost equals high quality,” adds floral expert Caroline Bailly, owner of L’Atelier Rouge.

2. You have more options.
Like anything else, there are different levels of flowers. And with a bigger budget, you’ll not only have a wider variety of florals available to you, but a better selection on the higher end of the spectrum as well, points out Smith.

3. Pricy flowers typically take up more space and make a bigger impact.
Did you know that pricy, higher end flowers usually take up more space than less expensive ones? According to Smith, it’s true! “For example, a peony takes up more space in a bridal bouquet as opposed to a carnation, meaning more bang for your buck.” Bailly seconds this. “Peonies may prove pricy,” she says, “but many of their varietals, especially in peak season, have rather large heads, so the florist needs less of them when putting together arrangements.”

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4. They’re a work of art.
Smith suggests thinking of your floral arrangements and bouquets as a work of art. And the better the art, the higher the cost, right? “These are what people are going to notice on tablescapes, bars, as well as in your wedding photos.” If you’re investing in the venue, the dress and everything else, you’ll want to make sure that all of that investment is captured, stresses Bailly. “Flowers help create and shape the feel of the reception room, the wedding altar and even your bridal portraits.”

5. It’s your wedding, and you deserve to treat yourself!
Set the tone for your marriage and beautiful things to come with an ambiance that reflects the relationship you have and want, says Smith. “It’s a once in a lifetime chance to be over the top.” So go ahead and splurge and treat yourself to the best of the best!

Remember: A seasoned florist is worth her weight in gold!!!
Almost anyone can source beautiful, high quality flowers, but not everyone can arrange them in a beautiful, high quality way, warns Bailly. “Many flowers that come at higher price points are absolutely worth the extra expense, provided that they’re being designed in a manner that truly highlights their special qualities and not just added to a mass of flowers where what makes them meaningful might be camouflaged.

Julianne Hough Just Got Real About Wedding Planning

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Wedding planning while working your regular nine-to five is tough enough, but just imagine doing it between endless rehearsals, memorizing scripts and choreography, and pirouetting on live TV every week! ‘Tis the life of bride-to-be Julianne Hough, whose crazy schedule doesn’t allot much time for planning her wedding to Canadian hockey player Brooks Laich. Sure, she probably has a list of celeb-approved wedding planners at her disposal — or could maybe recruit her Dancing with the Stars co-stars for help! — but this bride-to-be is in no rush. At a recent red carpet event, Hough got real about how those wedding day plans are shaping up — slowly, oh so slowly…

The Dancing with the Stars pro had originally planned to wed her hunky hockey sweetheart this summer, after getting engaged last August. But because of their constantly conflicting schedules and just the sheer feat of figuring out all of the wedding day details (we know you all feel her pain…), the pair still has yet to choose a date! And they sound a-okay with waiting a little longer to tie the knot. “We might get married in 10 years,” Hough joked with Entertainment Tonight. “Who knows?” Um, please don’t scare us like that, Hough! We don’t think we can wait 10 years to see you all decked out in white.

While we know it probably won’t take years for these two cuties to tie the knot, they’re definitely taking a more chilled-out approach to tackling that mountain of planning. “We started [wedding planning] and were like, ‘You know what? Let’s just chill and enjoy the engagement process and the fun of it,'” Hough continued to Us Weekly. “So we haven’t really got into it really. We’re kind of terrible.” Not terrible! Understandable… Brides-to-be are their own type of superhero after all, fearlessly tackling everything from diabolical mother-in-laws to villainous vendors. And we totally get that Hough and her almost-hubby need to slow down their walk to the aisle.

So now with a wedding-free summer ahead of them, does this engaged duo have any special plans? “We finally get to actually be in the same city, so that’s nice,” Hough said. “So we’re just chilling at the house, cooking dinner, hanging out by the pool and relaxing.” Ahhh, now that sounds much less stressful than planning a wedding! But for when the big day finally does arrive, Hough does a few ideas… “It’s mainly just friends and family,” the star said of the guest list. “We’re keeping it pretty small and intimate.” We hope that still includes us!

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