This Groom Wrote Wedding Vows For His Stepdaughter and They're The Sweetest Things You'll Read All Day

Handwritten vows always have us reaching for the Kleenex, but what if one California groom had two versions of vows? And one of them was for his about-to-be stepdaughter? Well, prepare for the waterworks, y’all… Groom Mike Seldon recently stole his bride’s — and the entire Internet’s — heart when he wrote and recited a separate set of wedding vows, just for his bride’s five-year-old daughter, Heidi. Ready, set, start crying.

During Mike Seldon and Brittany Williams’ October 28th wedding in Laguna Beach, California, guests got a surprise that made them wish they wore waterproof mascara. “It’s pretty special finding someone that loves you unconditionally,” the bride later told The Huffington Post. “But to come as a package deal with a little one and have a man make a commitment to love her unconditionally as well is an absolute blessing,” one she was definitely reminded of when her groom bent down during their ceremony to deliver her daughter her very own wedding vows.

“I vow to always be fair and honest with you,” Seldon told Heidi on the big day. “I promise to support you in every way I can. I promise to always hold your hand and brush your hair when you ask me to. I promise to tuck you into bed every night. I vow to show you how a man should treat a woman through my relationship with your mom,” he said through the tears. “And above all else, I vow to protect you, care for you, and love you ‘so big’ forever.” R.I.P. our hearts…

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But this isn’t just the start of this stepfather/daughter journey. Seldon has reportedly been in Heidi’s life since she was just 14 months old, before moving-in with her and her mother last year when Seldon and Williams became engaged. “Mike was taking a more fatherly role by doing things like tucking her in and kissing her as he leaves for work,” Williams explained.

“Though we have had our share of bumps in the road — there’s no instruction manual for this stuff! — it’s been a beautiful journey,” she said of figuring out their new blended family. “We’ve all been patient, open and honest with each other. And most of all, just had fun.”

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Must-Follow Style Tips for Mismatching Your Bridesmaids

One of the most popular wedding party trends right now is mismatched bridesmaids dresses. While we LOVE when brides do this, sometimes working with too many variables and options can lead to a visual disaster. So how do you get the look and keep your ladies in style? Read on for tips on how to mismatch your bridesmaid dresses.

Tie it Together
While alternating colors, styles, silhouettes, or all of the above, it’s important to have one design component that ties all the looks together for a cohesive aesthetic. Perhaps a rhinestone belt or hairpiece can do the trick. If you’re alternating dress colors, represent each color in the bridesmaid bouquet for stunning photos. Or, consider statement necklaces or earrings for a uniform accessory look. (You can give these as bridesmaid gifts, too!)

Choice and Voice
The beauty of having various bridesmaid dresses is that each girl can feel beautiful and confident in their own look, while still fitting in to your desired vision and color scheme. Before you go assigning the dress model, make and color, talk to your girls. When having a uniformed style, this isn’t always an option, but we can guarantee your bridal party will be more than grateful to have their voices and concerns heard. Bustier bridesmaids may want a more modest neckline, some girls may want fitted silhouettes and others may not have a preference whatsoever, but since you have the room for discussion take this opportunity to give your girls a choice.

Length Counts
In the true spirit of mismatching, dress lengths can vary, too. Just be sure that there is a good mix of lengths (and silhouettes, for that matter) to go around. Otherwise, bridal party photos may look a bit awkward if all your girls opt for long except one, or vice-versa. Whether you choose all floor-length gowns, a uniform to-the-knee hem, or varying lengths based on the dress and the ‘maid, make sure you stick to a hemline or have balanced options on the table. Your photographer will thank you!

See More: These Lucky Bridesmaids Held PUPPIES Instead of Flowers for Their Wedding Photos

Theme
Unless you’re going for straight up rainbow vibes, it’s important your vision still have a theme, or guiding color concept. Maybe you have six bridesmaids and colors will vary by pairs of two, or perhaps you want all your girls in varying shades of one color family. Regardless, don’t be too loosey-goosey with your visions. You still want your bridesmaids to look like bridesmaids, right? To do this, share swatches or color families with your girls, or give them options of 10-15 dresses to choose from in the colors you desire. By doing this, they still have an element of choice, and you have peace of mind that your dresses will meet your vision for the big day.

The 2016 Election Is Negatively Affecting Our Sex Drives, Survey Says

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The presidential election isn’t just making dinner conversations more awkward, it’s ruining your sex drive. Yes, we’re serious.

If you’ve found yourself not in the mood to roll around in the sheets lately with your partner, you’re not alone. This election cycle has elicited stress that is actually impacting people’s sex drives, according to fertility app Kindara. In a survey that informally polled 928 app users, the results found that Americans’ sex lives are being negatively affected by this election — especially Democrats. The Dems seem to be the most affected by campaign negativity with 19% of females indicating that there was a negative impact on their sex lives, per The Daily Mail.

Other noteworthy stats from the survey: 21% of women report that good economic news positively impacts their sex lives and 18% noted that bad economic news negatively affected the sex lives. Only 4% said that they would delay a pregnancy depending on who wins the election.

Even the mere prospect of Election Day is more of a turnoff for Democrats — 45% of Republicans said they were more looking forward to sex than voting that day, compared to 25 percent of Democrats.

During the debates, it was even more of an issue. The fertility app reported that 67 percent of female Republicans were more interested in having sex, whereas 50 percent of Democrats said the same thing. As a whole, the stress factor seems to be stemming from the idea of Donald Trump becoming president.

The founders of the app shared their thoughts behind the survey with Bustle. “At Kindara we are always looking for new opportunities to give women tools, knowledge and support to understand how their fertility works, take ownership of their reproductive health, and meet their fertility goals. We thought this survey would be a fun and timely way to engage with our Kindara App users, while providing a snapshot as to how this year’s Presidential campaign is impacting American women’s lives behind the closed doors of the bedroom.”

See More: How to Handle Political Differences With Your Partner

To be fair, the findings from this survey should be taken in stride, as the poll was comprised of fertility app users willing to take a poll, and it is difficult to apply this to the general population. That being said, however, many report feeling anxious and very stressed out over the election. And as we all know, stress usually equals libido drop in most circumstances.

In any case, the best news of the day is that Election Day is here, and hopefully once it is over, we can all get back to more important things: sex, love, and rock and roll (errr — wedding planning?). Simpler times, if you will.

The Coolest Times Celebrities Crashed Weddings

Coolest Times A Celeb Crashed A Wedding

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Every couple hopes that there are no rowdy wedding crashers who stop by on the big day for the open bar and a chance to flirt with the guests. But, what if those wedding crashers were celebrities? Perhaps your favorite musician, actor — or even just someone you follow closely on social media and always dreamed would make a great real-life best friend? A wedding couple could only dream of that happening. Here are four of our favorite times that a celeb crashed a wedding in history.

1. Queen B.
Beyoncé and Jay-Z were on vacation in Italy when they walked into a church and sure enough, there was a wedding going on inside. The bride and groom were shocked beyond belief. Though Beyonce and Jay-z didn’t put on a performance or sing any of their hits, they did take photos with the bride and groom.

2. Taylor Swift
Perhaps there’s no better lead singer for a wedding band than the one and only T-Swift. The country-turned-pop crooner showed up at a New Jersey wedding to sing the song “Blank Space.”

See More: For Better or Worse: 6 Real-Life Wedding Crasher Stories

3. Tom Hanks
This past September, Tom Hanks took a break from his jog around Central Park to say hello to a couple taking photos before their wedding ceremony. He posed for photos and selfies with them before continuing his run. For most couples, kickstarting your wedding day with the movie star doesn’t get any cooler than that.

4. Bon Jovi
If you’ve ever wondered if asking a celeb to show up at your wedding is a possibility, you may want to take a page from the bride’s book who launched an online campaign to get Bon Jovi to walk her down the aisle. It actually worked — he did it!

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

6 DEADLY Mistakes Newlyweds Make (That Cause Drama Down The Road)

Mistakes Newlyweds Make That Cause Drama

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Unfortunately, dreaming of “happily ever after” as a newlywed can create unrealistic expectations and lots of problems down the road. So much of marriage advice today is too complicated, too pie-in-the-sky, and too out of touch with contemporary marriage.

Over the past three decades we have researched marriage around the world and discovered the six deadly mistakes newly married couples often make.

These six mistakes are not complicated to understand. Yet, newlyweds who make these mistakes at the beginning of their lives together will get off to a rough start:

1. You tally or keep score of wins and losses.

Couples should never ignore bothersome behaviors, but “keeping score” or holding grudges is not okay. There are no winners and losers in a great marriage. You can’t hold grudges and you shouldn’t cast blame when things go wrong.

Don’t be afraid to argue and debate an issue. Just remember to fight fair and learn to argue effectively. It will serve your marriage well down the road.

2. You lie to your spouse or make promises you cannot keep.

Little white lies and broken promises erode the glue that holds marriages together. Even small lies can form a habit of dishonesty in your relationship.

Trust is the foundation of any lasting relationship. Dishonesty erodes the very essence of the bond between the two of you.

3. You make assumptions about what your new spouse likes, dislikes, enjoys, or thinks.

Assumptions lead to trouble — and men who order for their wives could end up eating alone. Ask them!

The old adage is certainly true that to assume is to make an “ass out of you and me!” And the corollary is, never ignore behaviors in your spouse that bother you.

Talk about them. It will strengthen your relationship if you talk out issues calmly and respectfully.

See More: 4 MUST-DO Tips For A Successful Monogamous Relationship

4. You assume role stereotypes early in your marriage.

Phrases such as “that’s a man’s job” or “that’s woman’s work” have no place in modern romances. Early role assignments based on stereotypical roles will only create imbalance and potential frustration later.

Take the time to talk about each of your strengths, what responsibilities best fits each person, and how the two of you can share the burdens of life together in your marriage. Think in terms of “us” and “we” instead of “you” and “me.”

5. You mount up a “butt load” of debt when you first get married.

Racking up too much debt is pure poison when it comes to your marriage. Keep the use of credit cards under control. The single greatest cause of divorce and marital discourse is debt and other financial-related issues.

See More: These 20 Quotes Explain Why We Need Unconditional Love So DAMN Much

6. You assume that marriage is fair, just, and beautiful all the time.

Just like life, marriage comes with its ups and downs. If you go into marriage believing it will be like a Hollywood movie with roses, sunshine, no responsibilities, and no setbacks, you are in for a big disappointment. Every successful marriage has to deal with setbacks.

You see, successful marriage is not all that complicated. In fact, if married couples would simply do the simple things that matter day in and day out in their marriage, they would be successful.

The problem is, they don’t!

If newlywed couples follow the simple advice we have outlined in this article, they will discover what we and other happily married couples have discovered over the decades — a successful marriage is an accumulation of having done the simple things. A great marriage is no more complicated than that!

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Creating a successful marriage is not always the easiest thing to do. Your visiting our blog suggests you are highly interested in making your relationship work! And truthfully, we have learned over 30 years of marriage research that there are proven effective ways to ensure a happy and healthy marriage.

This article originally appeared on YourTango.

Audrina Patridge and Corey Bohan's Wedding Photos Are Here and They're Beautiful

Audrina Patridge New Wedding Photos

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GUYS. This is not a drill. It’s time to get off of Pinterest because these wedding photos are all the inspiration you’ll need. Audrina Patridge wed her BMX bike riding beau Corey Bohan in Hawaii this past weekend, and although we’ve already oohed and ahhed over her beach-chic wedding dress, the rest of this bride’s big day deserves to be fully fawned over, as well. Yes, from the flowers to the reception décor, it’s really all that stunning…

“Our wedding was magical,” Partridge shared with Us Weekly, basking in that post-“I do” bliss. “We had all of our friends and family in one place to celebrate!” On Saturday, November 5, the wedding party took over the Hawaiian island of Kauai, where Bohen and Patridge said their vows amongst the sand and surf in an outdoor ceremony. The bride walked down the aisle in a Pallas Couture lace and tulle wedding dress, to a wooden arch drenched in lush red and white blooms where her groom was waiting (and looking rather dapper in a white button-down and suspenders, we might add!).

After exchanging vows, the couple walked back up the aisle as guests showered them in flower petals, and then it was on to the party! The reception space was bathed in even more blooms for a beautiful, boho-inspired look. “I wanted my wedding to be super romantic with a bohemian feel,” explained Patridge. “And it was the perfect mix of the two of us.”

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Guests dined and danced under a canopy of floral chandeliers (so on trend!) and if you needed any more wedding inspo, the big day portraits Patridge and her brand new hubby snapped overlooking the ocean are wedding photo #goals.

“It was everything I imagined and more,” the bride said of her nuptials. BRB, stealing all these ideas…

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10 Foods You Might Want to Cut Out the Week Before Your Wedding

10 foods you should avoid before the wedding.

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We’re all about eating healthfully. But it turns out, what you don’t put into your body in the weeks before your wedding is just as important as what you do. According to our experts, here are 10 foods you should avoid before the big day.

1. Your Olivia Pope-sized glass of wine (or any other alcoholic beverage).
According to health coach and founder of Brideance Emma-Louise Parkes, a glass of wine might seem like the perfect way to unwind after wedding planning. But while that glass (or two) will calm your nerves, it could also keep you up at night. “Good sleep equals cell repair and lower cortisol levels,” which give you beautiful skin and control your stress levels, respectively, “so switch out that vino for a non-alcoholic drink,” Parkes recommends.

2. Your sushi, with a side of soy sauce.
Sushi and perhaps more importantly, the soy sauce we dip it into, is “incredibly bloating,” according to celebrity chef and weight-loss coach Devin Alexander. If you can give up those little rolls of heaven and say no to soy sauce, “you can lose a bit of tummy poof and possibly even under eye puffiness,” she says. Tuna is another fishy no-no. It has enough sodium to make you seriously bloat, too, so you’ll want to skip it in the days before the wedding.

3. Your morning cup of coffee.
According to Jennifer Dene, celebrity personal trainer and founder of Mind Body Bride, “caffeine is a stimulant that adds fuel to the fire on frazzled bridal nerves. It increases the amount of stress hormone cortisol in the body, and actually elevates your perception of stress, so all those last minute tasks become even more stressful.” Of course, caffeine is found in more than coffee — you’ll find it in tea, soda, and even chocolate — so you’ll need to skip more than your morning cup of Joe if you want to go completely caffeine-free. “For most brides, consuming some caffeine is OK, but if they’re experiencing a lot of stress, they might consider cutting back,” says Dene.

4. Your go-to morning cereal.
There’s no doubt that a bowl of Cheerios is the easiest breakfast around, especially for a busy bride. But, says Parkes, “cereal just isn’t efficient at keeping you full until lunchtime. The high carbohydrate content means your body will release insulin to pull all that extra sugar from your blood, and a few hours later you’ll experience that sugar crash that sends you rushing for a mid-morning snack.” Instead, reach for high-protein foods that will keep you fuller for longer, such as eggs or Greek yogurt.

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5. Your pre-packaged deli-meat.
Deli meats, such as turkey, chicken, and roast beef, “are insanely high in sodium — even the low sodium varieties,” says Alexander. That doesn’t mean you can’t pack a sandwich for a quick and easy lunch. But Alexander recommends sticking to deli meats that are sliced from freshly-cooked and un-brined meats. In other words, she says, “cook a turkey breast roast or grill a London broil yourself, then slice it down to use as deli meat.”

6. Your afternoon snack of raw carrots.
It seems counterintuitive to tell you to stop eating something that’s so healthy. Dene knows it. “This suggestion may be a little surprising, but the reality is that the body has to work really hard to break down and digest raw vegetables, which is putting her body under even more stress,” she explains. “The fiber in raw veggies can also cause a bloated belly in anyone with a weak digestive system. The exception here is water-based vegetables, such as zucchini, cucumbers, lettuce and tomato.” So swap out your raw veggies for steamed or baked varieties of greens, carrots, and beets.

7. Your post-gym smoothie.
After a workout, who doesn’t like a refreshing fruit smoothie (hopefully packed with a little protein). But while smoothies and fruit juices seem like a healthy choice when compared with soda, they’re lacking the essential fiber your body needs to digest, as Parkes explains. “Consisting of pure sugar, you’re getting all the calories without any substance to tell your brain ‘I’m full,’ which means you’re much more likely to over-eat later in the day,” she sys. Switch to plain ol’ water, and your body will thank you.

8. Your side of broccoli.
Broccoli is in the family of cruciferous vegetables. (So are cauliflower, cabbage, and onions.) And they’re all “wonderful foods to eat,” Dene says, “but just not in the days before the wedding. Cruciferous veggies contain chemical compounds that can cause bloating, flatulence, and stomach cramps. And poorly digested food of any kind can also lead to bad breath, so it’s just best to leave them out.” Instead, you can opt for vegetables that have high-water content, such as zucchini, lettuce, and asparagus.

9. Your whole-wheat spaghetti.
Yes, you’re making a good choice by eating whole grains. But, Parkes says, “wheat is the cause of the famous post-pasta belly, wheat is hard to digest even for those who aren’t intolerant or sensitive to it.” Why? As she explains, “the way high-carb foods such as wheat are digested causes the body to retain more water than eating protein or fat does, meaning potential puffiness everywhere from your face to your ankles in addition to that tummy bloat.” And you don’t want that in the weeks leading up to your wedding. So, she says, “substitute pasta, pizza and bread with extra helpings of fresh vegetables. Brides can see almost immediate results from this simple switch.”

10. Your sauce and salad dressing.
According to Dene, “Most supermarket and restaurant sauces and salad dressings are made with lots of sugar and salt — that’s what makes them tasty. But these hidden ingredients can lead to bloating, water retention, dehydration, and pack a lot of extra calories into an otherwise healthy meal.” If you’ve made a sauce or dressing yourself, it’s probably safe to eat. Otherwise, use olive oil, sliced tomatoes, or even lemon to flavor your pastas and salads.

BRIDES Chicago: Quintessential Late-Night Snacks for a Chicago Wedding

Not into serving Windy City favorites like deep-dish pizza and Chicago-style hot dogs at your reception? The late-night snack serves as your chance to show off your — and your city’s — foodie side. Trust us: No matter how delicious dinner was, guests will pounce on the snacks after they’ve been tearing up the dance floor. Here are five of our favorite options that capture the city’s most famous fare.

Garrett Popcorn Shops
If you’re like us, Garrett’s delicious popcorn fumes are tough to resist, hence why tourists routinely swing by the airport’s Garrett Popcorn Shop on their way home. Save your out-of-town guests a trip and treat everyone to the classic Chicago treat by setting up a popcorn bar just off the dance floor. Garrett’s will provide an old-fashioned popcorn tin, scoopers, and to-go bags. Sweet tooths will love the CarmelCrisp, while savory fans will dive into CheeseCorn. But for the ultimate snack, go for The Chicago Mix, a genius combination of the two. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Lou Malnati’s
Once the smell of pizza fills the air, the dance floor will clear. (Don’t worry — guests will be back and ready to keep dancing once they refuel.) The legendary Chicago pizza joint serves mini slices of their famous deep dish so guests can enjoy them in two bites rather than a fork-and-knife ordeal. Everyone’s dressed to the nines, after all. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Big Star
On sunny weekends, Chicagoans flock to the Wicker Park taco mecca just as wedding guests will flock to Big Star’s ‘Little Mule’ food truck when it rolls into your reception. Might we suggest serving a mix of tacos — pastor, pescado, and hongas — to satisfy carnivores, fish lovers, and vegetarians alike. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Stan’s Donuts & Coffee
Stan’s may trace its roots back to Los Angeles, but since the donut shop opened in Chicago two years ago, we’ve adopted it as our own. Now with four locations around the city, chances are you and your fiancé have fallen for Stan’s as well. Though your traditional great aunt might be confused by the idea of eating donuts at 10 p.m. rather than 10 a.m., one bite of a mini pistachio-glazed donut is all it’ll take to win her over.

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Buddy’s Special Events
If there’s one delicacy Chicago’s most famous for, it’s the Chicago-style hot dog. And the Windy City staple makes a light-hearted and playful addition to your big day, putting your hometown pride front and center. Buddy’s Special Events serves authentic Vienna beef hot dogs straight from a hot dog cart. All the fixings are available too, but stay true to the Chicago theme and keep ketchup far away. Read real brides’ reviews here!

The Slide Ride
When The Slide Ride drives up to your reception, it’s pretty much a given that no guest will go home hungry. From brown sugar bacon-topped sliders to a spicy PB&J, out-of-the-ordinary — but no less tasty — combinations are packed into each small sandwich. Not to mention, all the deliciousness is served straight from a cute, retro food truck.

For more Chicago wedding catering options, be sure to browse our local vendors page!

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3 Wedding Day Looks Mothers of the Bride Should Avoid

Mother of the Bride Dresses to Avoid

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It used to be that the biggest concern a bride had about her mother’s wedding outfit was that the mother of the bride didn’t wear anything close to white. In my opinion, nobody is supposed to wear white, except the bride. But it’s doubly inappropriate when it looks like the mother of the bride is trying to steal attention away from her own daughter.

I don’t think Emily Post could have even conceived of some of the atrocious mother-of-the-bride outfits I’ve had the pleasure of seeing in almost 10 years of wedding planning, or she would have dictated some stricter rules.

It isn’t the really ugly dresses that stand out in my mind — those were entertaining, but not all that memorable. The ones I cannot get out of my head stood out for entirely different reasons. Reasons that would made any logical mother realize that she absolutely, positively should not have worn that outfit in public, much less to her daughter’s wedding. Here, the top 3 wedding day looks mothers of the bride should steer clear from.

Avoid the See-Through Look
I don’t care how fashionable sheer fabrics are, you must be very, very careful that you’re not showing off everything when you are backlit in your wedding outfit. On more than one occasion, I’ve actually cringed through an entire wedding ceremony when, from my angle, with the sun setting behind them, I could see EVERYTHING but the mother of the bride’s dress. Her bra was completely visible, but so was her thong.

I’ve seen this exact same peep-show over and over again at “white” weddings, where everybody is asked to wear all white clothing. In one unfortunate case, the bride’s mom had a horrendous wedgie, in very sheer white organza pants. And the guests stood through the ceremony. That wedding photographer had to do A LOT of editing.

Avoid Showing Too Much Skin
Lightweight, colorful maxi dresses are wildly popular at summer and tropical weddings, but not everybody can wear them well. And wearing them well means having the appropriate undergarments to keep everything in place, not just having enough fabric there to cover your private parts. I understand the challenge of finding something summery with enough strap to cover my bra. I also know how hard it is to find the right bras that offer support, and can be hidden, under the most popular strappy looks.

Too often, we see mothers of the bride in dresses that do not flatter their shape, or properly cover their curves. I don’t care if the dress supposedly has a built in bra, if you’ve got C-cup or bigger, you need more support than some stitching inside an organza dress can ever provide.

See More: 5 Tips to Soothe a Stressed Mother of the Bride

Avoid Being a Showstopper
It’s your daughter’s big day, and you want to look good. But you shouldn’t choose a dress that stands out in a big way from the way all the other guests. For example, if your daughter’s having an afternoon wedding on the beach, and cocktails and dinner in a tent, it’s not the time to choose a full-length beaded gown. It’s also not the time to bust out a brightly-sequined cocktail dress of questionable length.

Sandy Malone is the owner of Sandy Malone Weddings & Events and author of How to Plan Your Own Destination Wedding: Do-It-Yourself Tips from an Experienced Professional. Sandy is the star of TLC’s reality show Wedding Island, about her destination wedding planning company, Weddings in Vieques.

This Dumped Groom Spent His Would-Be Wedding Day at a Football Game

Fall brides know the struggle all too well ‐ how does one plan a wedding around football season?! If your nuptials coincide with one of the boys’ big games, chances are you’re going to hear grumbles about it from your guests. Sadly, one 27-year-old groom from St. Louis was able to avoid this situation altogether, but only because his longtime love broke things off before their November 5th wedding.

Sean Bradshaw, obviously bummed about you know not marrying his sweetheart of three years, decided he wasn’t going to sit inside all day sulking about his would-be wedding day. Nope, this football fan did the only thing he knew how in a situation as rough as this: he turned to his family. Instead of spending the day alone on the sidelines so to speak, Bradshaw, his dad, and his little brother bought tickets to the Notre Dame versus Navy football game in Jacksonville, Florida.

Still feeling the sting of heartbreak, the ex-groom created a pretty hilar sign he carried around for the game that read, “Today’s supposed to be my wedding day, she made me choose: her or Notre Dame,” to which he put a check mark in the Fighting Irish box. Hey, nothing gets between a man and his pigskin! “I’ve always been a fan and I always will be,” Bradshaw told Good Morning America. “Leaving the game, I got stopped by a lot of people giving their well wishes.”

Unfortunately, his favorite team lost to Navy 28-27, but that didn’t defeat his hopes for the future. At the end of the day, this groom reminds us what is really important in life. It’s not your team winning the big game, but rather the family and friends you experience the game with. He told GMA how thankful he was for having such a thoughtful family. “I wouldn’t expect any different,” he said. “That’s what family is there for anyways. It means a lot to me.”

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We have a feeling this family man will do juuust fine in the ladies department.