This California Wedding Is a Nature Lover's Dream

Looking for some major inspiration for your wedding ceremony and reception? Then be sure to check out our real weddings video channel, packed with tons of beautiful celebrations and countless ideas to steal for your own big day. Each week we take a deeper look at one of our favorite new love stories, and today we’re taking you inside Joseph and Joy’s wedding in Pala, California.

We’re obsessed with this nature-inspired celebration, which was documented by Russell John Films. The couple’s officiant described the wedding venue best: Condor’s Nest is a stunning, natural setting for outdoor nuptials, and Joseph and Joy took advantage of every beautiful inch of this property for their open-air ceremony and reception. From the mountain backdrop to the tree-covered grounds, Condor’s Nest served as the ultimate backdrop for their big day.

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We also love how daring this couple was when it came to color. With tons of greenery in their setting, Joseph and Joy let their flowers really sing, choosing bright magenta tones that popped against the natural décor. Even Joy’s bridesmaids went bold in their cranberry-colored dresses.

Speaking of décor, we love that this bride and groom chose unique and fun details for their ceremony and reception. We can’t get enough of the hanging lanterns that they used during their ceremony and the vintage doors that were the background of their sweetheart table.

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Jinger Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo Might Be Tying the Knot This Weekend in a Secret Wedding

Jinger Duggar Jeremy Vuolo Wedding Plans

Photo: Courtesy of The Duggar Family via Instagram

It looks like Jinger Duggar might be getting her very first kiss and full frontal hug in a matter of hours! Rumor has it that the 19 Kids and Counting alum and her fiancé Jeremy Vuolo’s wedding is set for this weekend. Unlike her two older sisters, Jessa and Jill, this bride-to-be has reportedly been keeping the date of the big day a secret from the public, opting for small, more intimate “I dos.” We wonder what Jim Bob has to say about this…

The Duggars officially win the prize for most efficient wedding planning after pulling off a fully-planned big day in a mere three months. This family has definitely have had some practice, after all. By the time their 19th kid gets hitched, we’re sure Jim Bob and Michelle will have wedding planning down to a two-week process! In late July, 22-year-old Jinger announced that she was engaged to Vuolo, a former professional soccer player, after a short courtship — a.k.a. the famed Duggar-family approved form of dating that consists of no sex, no kissing, chaperoned dates, and side-hugs only. Guess Duggar and Vuolo were in a bit of a rush to get started on their presumed 19 kids, as word on the street is that they’re about to say “I do!” Here’s what we know…

According to the International Business Times, a family close to the Duggars, the Rodrigues family, revealed on their blog that they’re heading to Arkansas for a super secret occasion to take place this weekend. “Our Family will be in Arkansas for an event that we are not at liberty to share with you at this time,” writes the Rodrigues. “We will share more of those details with you later. Watch in the future for the **REVEAL** of why our family is going to Arkansas!!………..smile.” Hmm… Suspicious, no?

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And if that wasn’t enough to gets fans of the fam anticipating some Duggar “I dos,” someone else close to the TLC brood also hinted at the nupitals. The to-be-wedded couple’s rumored wedding photographer, Erika Felber, recently asked a family friend in a public Facebook post, “Will your fam be at the wedding next week?”

Could this be the Duggar family nupitals we’ve been waiting for? All signs point to yes! After all, Vuolo and Duggar have both been adamant about wanting to tie the knot in a smaller ceremony, away from the public eye. And a secret wedding is a surefire way to do it! “We’re trying to keep it intimate, between family and friends,” Vuolo previously revealed to Us Weekly. “We want to be very intentional with who we invite.”

Consider us officially on Duggar wedding watch!

5 Things All Guests Love at Winter Weddings

There’s nothing like cozy winter nuptials in a snow-covered locale, but if you’re planning a winter wedding, there are a few extra things you may want to add to your guest list so that you can keep your guests happy, and warm, during your celebration. Whether you are hosting your wedding in a place known for its freezing temperatures or a place with more mild weather, here are five things your guests will want to have at your winter wedding.

1. An Outdoor Fire Pit
If your venue allows it, having an outdoor fire pit is a great late-night pow-wow spot for your guests. They can head there with their post-reception coffee or even a final drink from the open bar while the wedding reception is winding down.

2. An Indoor Spot
Having an outdoor wedding in the winter may be something you’ve always dreamed of, and if so, it’s important to also have an indoor alternative. Even if you have a heated, tented reception, having an indoor spot attached to it that people can go into to get warm if it’s freezing or snowing out is key.

3. Hot Beverages
In addition to an open bar, it may be a good idea to have a coffee and hot chocolate bar open all night. That way guests can grab a warm beverage when they are feeling a bit too cold.

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4. DIY S’Mores
If you’re getting married in the winter and are looking for a fun dessert to serve, a DIY S’more Bar is always a hit. This is a great addition to a fire pit — if allowed.

5. Shawls or Blankets
An extra-added layer of comfort throughout the night is essential when keeping warm and cozy! Some guests may be colder than others, so having a pile of extra shawls and blankets for them to grab is a nice touch.

Jen Glantz is a “Professional Bridesmaid” and the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire. She’s the author of All My Friends Are Engaged and frequently wears old bridesmaid dresses to the grocery store and on first dates.

BRIDES Chicago: Chicago Craft Stores for the DIY Brides

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Scrolling through Pinterest and Etsy’s dreamy pages can become something of addiction for brides with an affection for all things artisan. The colorful totebags. The rustic signs. The monogrammed robes. It’s almost too much to take — almost. Why not channel that inspiration into something beautiful you make yourself ? Sure, homemade details can take a little more time and effort but creating a meaningful detail for your big day will almost certainly pay off. Whether you’re a crafting pro or a DIY beginner, Chicago has no shortage of shops for you to stock up on the artsy essentials that will take your wedding from pretty to perfectly personal. Below, we’ve rounded up a few of our favorites.

Genesis Art Supply
In addition to selling supplies from easels to drafting tools, this sprawling, independent Lincoln Park space also offers classes as well as art shows and events where you might be able to get some fun ideas for your project.

Artist & Craftsman Supply
The Chicago location of this small national chain offers everything you need for painting, drawing, crafting, printing or sculpting wedding pieces. You’ll also discover unique gifts and novelties, plus a knowledgeable staff who can handle your questions.

CraftFancy
Scrapbooking enthusiasts and other paper-focused crafters will be in heaven at this suburban shop that carries a wide selection of paper, stamps and card kits. There’s also a full calendar of classes available.

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Lake View Art Supply
This unassuming neighborhood business sells a solid collection of paints, papers, brushes and more. Check out its website for crafting tips and resources on local art classes. Framing and matting services are also a specialty.

Paper Source
Its inventory leans toward the pricey side but this national favorite, which opened its first shop in Chicago more than 30 years ago, is filled with some of the prettiest crafting materials around. Scrounge up some sparkly card stock, pretty make-your-own party supplies and help from workshops and classes, then pick up one-of-a-kind gifts for your bridal party while you’re there. Read real brides’ reviews here!

For everything else you need to make your big day a dream, be sure to browse our Local Vendors page!

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4 Stunning National Park Locations for a Wedding Ceremony in the Great Outdoors

Acadia Schoodic Peninsula

Photo: Courtesy of The National Park Service

If you have your heart set on having your wedding in the great outdoors, but aren’t sure where to start when it comes to finding just the right spot, look no further than one of America’s National Parks. With 58 parks across the country, from the world-renowned Grand Canyon in Arizona and Yosemite in California to the off-the-beaten-path Congaree (on the Congaree River in South Carolina) and the Gates of the Arctic (the northernmost National Park, in Alaska), the choice of dramatic scenery to serve as the backdrop for your wedding ceremony is nearly endless. Whether you’re an outdoor enthusiast with every park on your bucket list or are simply a sucker for a great view, here are some of our favorite places in the National Parks where you can get married. Don’t forget the camera!

Acadia National Park, Maine
With towering granite cliffs, rugged coastline, and the tallest peak on the East Coast, Acadia boasts an incredible variety of options for your wedding ceremony — and your permit is good for anywhere you can access using the park’s roads and hiking trails. In fact, if you’ll be a group of 10 or less, you don’t even need a permit! Head to the Schoodic Peninsula [above], which is usually less crowded than the main part of the park on Mount Desert Island. Drive along the Schoodic Loop Road to Arey Cove Road, which will take you to Schoodic Point for stunning views of Mount Desert Island across the bay.

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Photo: Courtesy of The National Park Service

Redwood National Park, California
While you might come for the trees, there’s a lot more to Redwood National Park than the tallest trees on Earth: rugged coastline, sprawling prairies, and rambling rivers are woven between the trunks. Head toward the Stout Memorial Grove, an easy walk that gets you up close and personal with old growth trees towering hundreds of feet overhead. Surrounded by waist-high ferns, the lush and oversized greenery is a wedding setting straight out of a fairy tale.

See more: How to Create Your Wedding Ceremony from Scratch

Arches National Park

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Arches National Park, Utah
Who wouldn’t want to say “I do” beneath the natural sandstone arches scattered throughout the park? Hike out to the Double Arch, a short half a mile walk that takes you to the base where these two arches meet. You could also head to one of the Delicate Arch viewpoints (the hike to the arch itself is incredibly strenuous and will take around two and a half hours) and exchange vows with the iconic structure in the background. If you and your group plan to camp overnight in the park, head to the same viewpoint after dark for the most incredible stars you’ve ever seen. Who needs an altar?

Grand Canyon National Park

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Grand Canyon National Park, Arizona
If you haven’t seen the Grand Canyon yet, check it off your bucket list and tie the knot at the same time. A number of overlooks provide truly spectacular settings for a wedding ceremony, but make sure to do your research: When applying for a permit, you must choose one of the designated ceremony locations offered by the park. Shoshone Point is an isolated spot (accessible by a dirt road) that is the the only viewpoint in the park that is available for outdoor receptions as well as wedding ceremonies. The views of the Canyon? You’ll have to see them to believe them.

The Crazy Sh*t Real Guests Have Done at Weddings

Warning to all future brides: you may want to stop reading now! While some guests are bound to be sugar and spice and everything nice, others are just destined for the naughty list. From sexual escapades on your big day to straight up snorting drugs in the bathroom (we’re not kidding!), here’s what your friends and family are really up to on the happiest day of your life.

“I was in a new relationship with my guy, and we flew across the country to attend his best friend’s destination wedding. Let’s just say we have a healthy sex life at home so we decided to sneak in a little action during the reception. It was held outdoors in a heavily wooded area. We just snuck off while everyone was tipsy on the dance floor and got in a quickie in the woods. Oops!” — Haley

“There was lots of leftover table wine at one wedding I went to. Of course, me and my girlfriends couldn’t just let it go to waste. We stole several bottles and brought them back to our hotel for our own little after party. Well worth it in my opinion.” — Bethany

“I’m not sure how ‘naughty’ this is, but my husband’s cousin was having a dry wedding, mind you without dancing even, so we snuck liquor in flasks in and spiked our lemonades. Turns out, we weren’t the only ones! There was several of us pouring our drinks in the bathroom area and even sharing alcohol with others. LOL.” — Cara

“I work as a wedding photographer and have seriously seen it all. Think couples having sex all over the venue to guests snorting cocaine in the bathroom, particularly the least likely suspects, like someone’s uncle! Oh and bridesmaids/groomsmen hooking up with people that they definitely aren’t engaged to.” — Tia

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“My cousin had the most amazing cake at her wedding! I’m actually kind of ashamed to admit that I ate five freaking slices. The worst part is though, after I finished my own I scouted out tables that had slices left and went and snatched them up for myself before anyone could see.” — Jordan

“When I was younger my high school crush was working as a caterer at a family wedding I went to. After the main course was served and a bunch of flirting the entire night, we wound up making out in the cool room. Then his dad walked in on us OMG! I was absolutely mortified and so was he, but his dad actually ended up giving us the keys to his van so we wouldn’t spoil the rest of the food in there haha.” — Jenn

“I’m so ashamed to admit this and I was super drunk at the time. Anyway, my friend rented out her wedding venue and it had a ton of guest rooms for everyone to stay in. Well, late night I got in a fight with my boyfriend and he left. I stormed out of our room butt naked and ran down the hall screaming after him. Several people woke up and peeked out their doors to see me in all my glory. I still haven’t lived that moment down to this day. Eek.” — Emilia

10 Self-Tanners To Get You Glowing On Your Wedding Day

Self Tanners To Get You Glowing On Your Wedding Day

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Just because summer is over doesn’t mean you have to say goodbye to sun-kissed skin. A faux glow is a great and safe (zero UV) way to maintain a beautiful bronze into fall—and beyond. And when it comes to your big day, a gorgeous glow is a must. It makes your teeth look whiter and can even create the illusion of being slimmer.

But before you head to store and start scoping out products, there are a few things you need to know. First, not all self-tanners are created equal. Some can you leave looking, well, like an oompa loompa. Second, proper prep (aka exfoliation) and application is the key to success. Third—and this should go without saying, but we will anyway—the color of your complexion matters. If you have fair skin don’t overdo it with the deepest shade on the market.

Luckily for bronze-loving brides, there are plenty of products that take the guess work out of the process. So, whether your complexion is fair or olive, you can get flawless, radiant skin for your big day.

Tan Luxe The Water

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Eco-conscious brides will love this natural formula (for face and body). A nourishing blend of vitamins B, C and E, aloe vera and raspberry seed oil leaves skin hydrated and luminous—in just four to six hours. No streaks and no smells, means no drama at your wedding. (“The Water” Self-Tan, $42, Tan-Luxe)

St.Tropez

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A cult classic, this lightweight mousse dries quickly and evenly—with the added benefit of being transfer-resistant and free of that oh so specific self-tanner scent. So you go in for hugs and kisses without fear of smudge or smell. (“Bronzing Mousse” Self-Tan, $32, St. Tropez available at Violet Grey)

Clarins

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Say goodbye to dry, pasty skin! This easy-to-blend lotion delivers a flawless, golden glow and 24-hour hydration. As if that wasn’t enough, it’s scented with the irresistible fragrance of figs. (Self Tanning Milky-Lotion for Face & Body, $38, Clarins available at Nordstrom)

James Read

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Catch some rays while you sleep. Ok, this is a faux glow, so no rays are actually involved, but you get the picture. This overnight serum combines skin-friendly ingredients with a self-tanner, so you wake up well rested and glowing. (Sleep Mask Tan, $52, James Read available at Sephora)

Tan Towel Full Body Towelette

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Planning a destination wedding? Don’t forget to pack these travel-friendly, 3-in-1 towelettes. Give your skin a quick swipe andXin just a few hoursXyou’ll look radiant, from head to toe. (Self-Tan Towelette, $27, Tan Towel available at Ulta)

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Shiseido

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Gels glide on effortlessly and absorb quickly, making them ideal for busy brides. All you need are a few pumps of this translucent, light-as-air gel. It smoothes on with ease and imparts a deep, rich color. And since there’s virtually no drying time required, you can get back to your wedding planning ASAP. (“Brilliant Bronze” Self-Tanning Gel, $30, Shiseido available Nordstrom)

Dr. Dennis Gross

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These portable, exfoliating glow pads deliver streak-free, natural tint—sans mess or odor. The magic’s in the formula—packed with antioxidants, alpha- and beta-hydroxy acids, DHA and vitamin D. Don’t worry, there’s also a body option. (“Alpha Beta” Glow Pads, $68, Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare available at Sephora)

Vita Liberata

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Green beauties will love this vegan-friendly, tinted mousse—infused with organic botanicals, like cucumber, witch hazel and papaya. It dries in just 60 seconds, delivering an instant bronze—that deepens over four to eight hours—and lasts up to three weeks. (“pHenomenal” 2-3 Week Tan Mousse, $54, Vita Liberata available Violet Grey)

Brazilliance Plus Self Tanner

Photo: Courtesy of Tarte

Fake a just-back-from-vacation glow—even though you’re still planning your honeymoon. This best-selling tinted gel gets a boost from maracuja, sunflower seed oil, aloe and vitamin E. And it comes with a handy mitt that makes it a breeze to get a streak-free bronze—and keeps your hands clean. (“Brazilliance” PLUS+ Self-Tanner + Mitt, $39, Tarte)

Josie Maran

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All we can say is this self-tanning oil definitely lives up to its name, “liquid gold.” It absorbs like lightening, delivering a sexy hint of natural-looking color—plus 24 hours of silky skin. Even better, it’s available in three heavenly scents—Tahitian Vanilla, Tropical Orchid and Vanilla Apricot. (“Argan Liquid Gold” Self-Tanning Oil, $38, Josie Maran available at Sephora)

Nickelodeon Star Max Schneider's Wedding Video Is The Most Moving Thing We've Seen All Week

Sneaky, sneaky — It turns out How to Rock‘s Max Schneider married his soulmate a whole SEVEN months ago! The Nickelodeon star recently revealed, in the absolute sweetest montage we’ve ever seen TBH (sorry, Nathan Kress), his intimate and emotional wedding to longtime love Emily.

Schneider even wrote the song that plays in the video, and used the tune to propose to her in the place they had their first date. Get ready to grab a box of tissues because this video is about to make you cry ALL the tears.

“I wrote ‘Lights Down Low’ when Emily and I first started dating,” Schneider wrote in the YouTube comments section. “I had never invested so much of my heart into a song before. I knew it was special and the feelings encapsulated within it would live with us for the rest of our lives.” Cue the awww’s! He added, “I knew she was my soulmate and the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I planned the proposal for months and ended up surprising her with the help of our mutual best friend Katie who introduced us. I proposed to Emily in the same place we had our first date, with a harp player playing along while I sang ‘Lights Down Low.’ We got married in April.”

Ok, where are all of the Max Schneiders in the world? He is seriously too sweet. And while watching the video, we can totally see the amazing girl he sees in her. They just both look so happy together!

In the comments section he went on to say, “Life has a funny way of bringing the most special people into your life when you least expect it. It’s up to you to call them after your first date and ask the crazy question of if they would want to fly half way across the country to have a second date while on tour. I’m so glad you took that leap of faith with me from that first weekend my love. The urge.”

Need a tissue yet? Or ten? Congratulations on your beautiful marriage, Max and Emily!

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Cherry Blossoms Transformed This New York City Wedding Venue Into a Romantic Indoor Garden

Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Bride and Groom Portrait

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

In New York City, it’s pretty common to never meet your neighbors. Unless, of course, you’re Rebecca and Doug, who didn’t even meet in the Big Apple. “We met in Los Angeles in April of 2010, when we were visiting mutual friends in town. We realized we lived on the same block back home!” Rebecca remembers. When they got back to the East Coast, they went on their first date, and the rest is history. Four years later, when they arrived at Bobo in the West Village for what Rebecca thought was Saturday night dinner in the neighborhood, they were escorted upstairs to the private dining room. “It was filled with candles, and before I could say anything, Doug was on one knee!” says Rebecca. The surprise continued as their families (including Doug’s sister from Australia!) came in to join them for dinner.

The future Mr. and Mrs. spent just over a year planning their May 2, 2015, wedding at Guastavino’s. They worked with Fête to design an elegant, youthful wedding beneath the venue’s vaulted ceilings and settled on a soft, springtime vibe with seasonal cherry blossoms filling every inch of the space. From the garden-inspired chuppah to mirrored dining tables, every detail was curated to fit perfectly with their theme. Planning a spring wedding of your own? Right this way for some totally gorgeous inspiration, photographed by Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Bride in Strapless Naeem Khan Wedding Dress

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

The white-on-white beading of Rebecca’s hand-embroidered Naeem Khan wedding dress is absolutely breathtaking. “I tried on over 50 dresses from different designers. I liked so many of them, but this one made me feel the most like myself,” she says.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Bride and Groom First Look

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Beneath her gown, the bride wore shimmering Jimmy Choo sandals. She topped her soft waves with a classic veil. Rebecca’s bouquet of all-white peonies was wrapped in beaded lace that matched the details on her dress.

“There was so much anticipation leading up to our first look,” says Rebecca of the moment she first saw Doug on the stairs of the St. Regis Hotel. “When we finally got to see each other all dressed up, we were put at ease and all the nerves went away.”

Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Bride and Groom Outside Hotel

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

Doug wore a navy blue tuxedo with a black lapel from John Varvatos, which he paired with an Irish linen pocket square.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Bride and Groom on Trolley

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

The wedding party continued the couple’s classic theme, with the women in long black dresses and the men in black tuxedos. “Everyone feels great in a black dress, especially if they can pick their own style,” says Rebecca.

Instead of a traditional shuttle bus, the couple went with a more fun option to get from the St. Regis to Guastavino’s: A trolley!

Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Ceremony Programs

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

At Guastavino’s, guests were greeted with yarmulkes and ceremony programs displayed on antique silver trays.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Indoor Ceremony with Floral Arch
Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Wedding Ceremony with Floral Arch

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

Rebecca walked down the aisle with both of her parents, then met Doug beneath a chuppah of vines, white roses, peonies, and hydrangeas on a garden trellis. “We wrote our own vows, which were heartfelt, a little silly, and perfectly reflected our relationship and how we feel about one another,” says the bride.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Indoor Reception Space with Cherry Blossoms

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

Now this is an escort card idea you may not have seen before. In the middle of the bar at cocktail hour, an oversized sign displayed guests’ names and table assignments, so they could figure out where they were sitting as they grabbed a drink! They were then directed to long tables, topped with mirrored runners and lush arrangements of cherry blossoms.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Low Floral Centerpieces on Mirrored Tables
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Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

Between the cherry blossoms, low arrangements combined garden roses, peonies, ranunculus, and anemones. The lighting was kept warm and natural, with lots of candle light accentuating the centerpieces.

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Berries in Bowls

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

Bud vases full of hyacinth and bowls of blackberries added a hint of purple to the blush and white centerpieces. For dinner, guests dined on Atlantic halibut and filet mignon. “I’m a huge dessert person, so in addition to wedding cake, we served peach cobbler and passed snacks on the dance floor, like Momofuku Cake Truffles, Fat Witch brownie bites, and Venerio’s mini cannolis!” says Rebecca.

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Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

Doug and Rebecca’s first dance, to “How Sweet It Is” by James Taylor, was completely choreographed. “We spent many hours at Arthur Murray Dance Studio!”

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Garden-Inspired New York City Wedding, Converse Wedding Shoes

Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

The four-tiered carrot wedding cake, decorated with Swiss dots, was topped with a 3D-printed sketch of the bride and groom in their wedding-day finery, created by a friend of the couple.

Knowing her heels would end up hurting her feet, Rebecca ordered a custom-made pair of Converse, with a platform heel, to change into during the reception.

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Photo: Nathan Smith for Ira Lippke Studios

“Doug and I ended up thrown in the air by his friends a few times throughout the night. It was so fun! I felt like I was at a crazy concert in a wedding dress,” Rebecca says. “Remember, your wedding doesn’t have to be like everyone else’s. Make it unique to you — you’ll have a lot more fun planning if it feels authentic!”

Venue, Catering & Cake: Guastavino’s || Wedding Planner, Floral Design & Paper Goods: Fête || Bride’s Wedding Dress: Naeem Khan || Shoes: Jimmy Choo || Hair: Susana Carranza || Makeup: Kimara Ahnert || Groom’s Attire: John Varvatos || Engagement Ring & Wedding Bands: Yanina & Co. || Music: Bianchi Musica; Bobby Attiko Band from Hank Lane Music || Rentals: Broadway Party Rentals || Favors: Levain Bakery || Videographer: Ira Lippke Studios || Photographer: Nathan Smith of Ira Lippke Studios

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The Top 5 Bridesmaid Etiquette Questions, Asked and Answered

What’s a bride without her bridesmaids? Whether you’re selecting the women who will stand by your side at your own wedding, or have been invited to be a bridesmaid for a friend or family member, the honor comes with a lot of responsibilities — and a lot of questions. Thankfully, our experts have the answers!

If I Was Her Bridesmaid, Do I Have to Ask Her to Be Mine?
The short answer is, no. If you aren’t as close as you used to be, there’s no rule requiring that you return the favor and ask the friend in question to be in your wedding, as well. Even if you’re still close friends, if you’ve decided to have a much smaller wedding party, there are many other ways you can include her in your wedding without asking her to wear a matching dress and plan the bachelorette party. Still best friends? Then by all means, ask away!

How Many Bridesmaids Should I Have?
The size of the wedding party is usually proportionate to the size of the wedding as a whole. Weddings with much larger guest lists tend to have more bridesmaids and groomsmen, while more intimate celebrations often feature just a few people in the wedding party. If you’re having trouble narrowing it down, focus on inviting close friends who you know will be responsive, excited, and cooperative: The last thing you want is a group of bridesmaids who don’t get along or disagree with every idea you have, so that might mean keeping the group smaller for the sake of your sanity.

What Should I Do if I Can’t Afford to Be a Bridesmaid?
Let’s face it: Being a bridesmaid is expensive. From the dress and hair appointment to the bridal shower and bachelorette party, it’s a lot to spend! If you’re on a budget, talk to the bride about it early-on. Figure out if she’d rather have you at the bridal shower or the bachelorette party, and if you can do your own hair or makeup instead of springing for the professional. When it comes to your dress, check resale sites to see if you can get the same gown for a steal, or look into companies like Vow to be Chic or Rent the Runway to rent instead of buying. (The latter is a great option if the bride has requested mismatched attire!) And of course, if you’re really strapped for cash, consider stepping down and offering to participate in the wedding another way, whether it’s as a greeter at the ceremony or by giving a toast at the rehearsal dinner, and then simply attend as a guest.

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What Does a Bridesmaid Do?
When you’re not the maid of honor, you might think there’s a lot less for you to do, but you still have responsibilities! Bridesmaids can pitch in to help the MOH, whether it’s coordinating travel schedules while she makes hotel reservations for the bachelorette party or stepping in to take care of smaller details for the bridal shower. If you live close to the bride, you may be called upon to help with DIY projects or run last-minute errands before the big day. The biggest role is to be supportive, and then to serve as a quasi-hostess once the party starts. Socialize with guests, smile, and get down on the dance floor!

Do Bridesmaids Get a Plus One?
Common plus-one practice has definitely evolved with the times, and the general rule today is that anyone in a serious relationship should be invited along with their significant other, while more casual relationships or single guests are invited solo. You could apply this rule to your wedding party, as well, but given how much your ‘maids have done throughout the planning process, most brides and grooms opt to extend a plus-one invitation to their bridesmaids and groomsmen, no matter their relationship status.