Bride-to-Be Kaitlyn Bristowe Wore a Black Wedding Dress to the CMAs

Kaitlyn Bristowe Wears Wedding Dress at CMA

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We’ve been waiting for over a year to see this former Bachelorette don a wedding dress, and it looks like we finally got our wish. Now if only Kaitlyn Bristowe was actually walking down the aisle instead of the red carpet!

The Bachelor Nation alum attended Nashville’s Country Music Awards on Wednesday and totally conquered the carpet, opting for an unconventional wedding dress — in an even more unexpected hue — instead of a traditional red carpet gown. This just proves how damn good Bristowe looks in wedding wear, getting us somehow even more excited for The Bachelorette starlet to marry her sweetheart Shawn Booth. (Who knew that was even possible?…)

Who ever said that you can only wear a wedding dress on the day you say “I do?” We’d don a bridal gown to the grocery store if we could! But if you’re going to wear a wedding dress on the red carpet (we’re looking at you, Beyoncé!), you might as well go big.

Just ask Bristowe, who chose — who else — fan-favorite wedding dress designer Hayley Paige for her CMAs ensemble. The Bachelorette beauty rocked one of the designer’s more sultry and alternative black wedding dresses for the big night, that featured a sheer lacy black crop top with a high neckline, and a voluminous striped organza skirt also in a midnight hue. Feeling a little jealous, nontraditional brides? (Don’t worry — we are, too!)

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With her super toned torso peeking out from beneath that bridal crop top, it was hard to pull our eyes away from the star’s midriff (bridal bod goals, anyone?). But it was impossible to miss Bristowe’s 3.5 carat Neil Lane engagement ring from fiancé Shawn Booth. But when will Bristowe be adding a wedding band to her bling? Well, the jury is still out on that one.

“We’re living together, we’re enjoying being engaged. When we start to plan, we’ll let everybody know!” Bristowe told People way back in February. At least we now know that this Bachelorette will be looking AHH-MAZE-ING when she does finally walk down that aisle!

This One Minute Meditation Is Your Greatest Bridal Beauty Tool

Meditation Tips for Brides

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When it comes to planning for the big day, looking and feeling beautiful is at the front of every bride’s mind. However, it can also create a lot of stress to look absolutely perfect on the special day. We’ll try almost anything, spending thousands of dollars on products, the newest treatments, laser, surgery, and so forth, all in the name beauty. And trust me, I am a natural-beauty junkie and love to experiement with the latest and greatest. But the most important tool I have added to my beauty ritual is meditation.

Stress is the number one beauty killer. When we’re stressed out, it shows. If you put your most stressed out friend next to another friend who is care-free and happy, you notice the difference immediately. From dark circles, puffy face and eyes, dull skin, frown lines, acne, to even weight gain, stress shows up on our faces and bodies in so many difference ways. If we don’t handle the stress, it doesn’t matter what we use on our skin.

Science has proven many, many benefits to meditation, such as higher levels of happiness, better sleep, lower blood pressure, and improved immune systems. The reason meditation is your greatest beauty tool is because it’s your ticket to destressing, every single day, as many times a day as you want. Beauty, real beauty, is when you’re able to shine from the inside out. But if you’re not really feeling good about yourself — physically and/or emotionally — then that light gets quite dim. Meditation help us choose better thoughts about ourselves. All day long we engage in thoughts like “I’m not perfect, I’m not pretty enough, I’m not skinny enough, I’m not good enough,” all of which put even more stress on our minds and bodies. When we add meditation into our lives, we can begin to put the more negative thoughts to rest and choose positive thoughts. More positivity brings less stress, more happiness, and in turn, infintely more radiance. Here is a simple meditation you can add into your daily routine and is the perfect meditation to take with you all the way to the big day:

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One-Minute Breath
The goal of this meditation is to breath one breath per minute, which means inhaling for 20 seconds, holding for 20 seconds, and exhaling for 20 seconds. However, to those who are just starting their meditation practice, start with a 5:5:5 ratio for the first few days, slowly building to 10:10:10, 15:15:15, and eventually, after a few weeks of practice, 20:20:20. Don’t push yourself here. If you can’t do more than 5 seconds each, you’re not a failure! Most of us breath so shallowly that our diaphragms are really tight and we can’t take a full breath. So when we slowly practice breathing deeper, we train the diaphragm, which is the major muscle of breathing, to help us take deeper and fuller breaths, which provide numerous benefits to our physical body.

How to do it:

  • Sit in a comfortable position.
  • Inhale for 5 seconds.
  • Hold the breath for 5 seconds.
  • Exhale for 5 seconds.
  • Time:

  • 3-11 minutes
  • Benefits:

  • Creates a sense of calm in the body
  • Clears anxiety, fears, and worry’s
  • Brings fresh oxygen to the brain
  • Oxygenates the lungs and purifies the blood, which also in turns helps to clear your skin
  • Desiree Pais, the founder of skin care company Benshen, is on a mission to spread the wisdom of the mind-body connection. After realizing that everything begins with the mind, she took her own health issues, such as auto-immune, chronic fatigue, cystic acne, and hormonal imbalance, into her own hands to heal them with Kundalini Yoga, meditation, Daoist medicine, and other healing modalities. She is currently pursuing a Master’s Degree at Pacific College of Oriental Medicine and continues to study Daoist medicine with Chris Chen in New York City.

    BRIDES Southern California: 6 Fun Bachelorette Party Workouts in L.A.

    Los Angeles Bachelorette Party Workouts

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    Although a wild night of drinking and dancing until the sun comes up is the first thing that comes to mind when you think of a bachelorette party, if you’re a bride-to-be who prefers doing something more laid-back and non-traditional, celebrate your transition into matrimony with a sweaty fitness party instead. Here, we round up the six best group fitness classes in Los Angeles perfect for toasting your last days of singledom with your best girlfriends by your side.

    Tracy Anderson
    If you’re looking to seriously get your butt kicked at your sweaty bachelorette bash, look no further than trainer-to-the-stars Tracy Anderson. The cult-favorite fitness guru is the woman behind Hollywood’s hottest bodies including Jennifer Lopez and Gwyneth Paltrow. Her celeb-frequented studios in Brentwood and Studio City deliver workouts that are high-energy and ridiculously challenging, but totally worth it. After all, what bride-to-be doesn’t want to look like J. Lo when she walks down the aisle?

    Body By Simone
    Taylor Swift, Karlie Kloss, and Julianne Hough are just a few of the celebs who swear by Body by Simone’s intense and super sexy full-body dance cardio workouts. Round up your girls and head here for an invigorating good time — you might even learn a few dance moves for the reception. The studio’s trampoline cardio class is another fun way to wave goodbye to the single life.

    Cycle House
    Ease any wedding planning stress while you get your sweat on with your bridesmaids during an indoor cycling session at Cycle House. Rocking playlists, impressive LED lighting, and the promise to burn 500-1,000 calories with just one ride, makes this cult-favorite cycling spot a winning choice for a bachelorette party.

    Playlist Yoga
    Celebrate your last hurrah before getting hitched by getting your groove on at Playlist Yoga. The new West Hollywood studio isn’t your typical yoga spot. The sweaty 60-minute vinyasa flow classes are upbeat and set to energetic music, which will leave you and your girlfriends feeling re-energized and ready for all the wedding festivities.

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    Ballet Bodies
    Whether you have years of dance training under your belt or none at all, you and your entourage of favorite ladies will have a great time working on your long, lean dancer’s bodies at Ballet Bodies. Class types range from sweat-inducing cardio classes that incorporate ballet jumps on mini trampolines to sculpting sessions that mix in Pilates moves to a basics class that covers all the fundamental ballet techniques.

    Prevail Los Angeles
    This friendly boxing hotspot will get your heart pumping like no other. The feeling you get when you slip on those boxing gloves is totally empowering and just what you need if you’re experiencing any pre-wedding jitters. After punching it out alongside your girls, you’ll leave feeling powerful, invincible, and ready to take on married life.

    For more health and beauty hotspots in L.A., as well as wedding hair and makeup artists, head to our Los Angeles Beauty page!

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    Where to Find Wedding Inspiration — Besides Pinterest!

    Curating a gorgeous Pinterest board for your wedding is practically a modern-day rite of passage for every bride-to-be. And while we love the creative content sharing site, there are plenty of other places out there to look for inspiration and ideas.

    To start, instead of looking outward at what everyone else is doing, try to look inward and reflect upon what brings you joy. Fabrice Orlando of Cocoon Events Management Group recommends trolling through your own bookshelves, movie collection, or artwork to search for original inspiration in your favorite things. “You may find common themes that can serve as a muse for your celebration,” he says.

    Think About Your Favorite Things
    “To bring in more of your personality, think about your favorite things in the world and the items that make you happy,” says Jamie Chang of Passport to Joy. “This could be a certain TV show like Game of Thrones, a love of hip-hop music, blueberry pancakes, or all things green.” And take a hard look at what you surround yourself with — from fabrics and textures to colors and style — anything that you tend to gravitate towards. You might even create a handmade mood board to use as the base for your wedding design.

    Look To Interior Design
    Once you’ve taken note of anything that may inspire from within, Orlando suggests taking it bigger picture and looking to interior design and architecture. This can mean browsing through a home décor catalog or walking through an interesting neighborhood, all while asking yourself how an element from a particular structure can be translated to your big day, he says.

    Keep An Open Mind
    “Keep your designer’s cap on as you’re out and about, since you never know what could trigger your inspiration,” he adds. “Notice the lighting in your date night restaurant or the décor pieces as you window shop — if you keep an open mind, you’ll start getting ideas everywhere you go!”

    Spend some time revisiting your favorites stores, museums, and neighborhoods, says Chang. Try to pinpoint what you like and what moves you. One small item might provoke a larger design concept, or an entire store can serve as the basis for the overall experience you want to create, Chang says.

    Along similar lines, seasonal table sets in home décor stores are a great place to look for new ideas beyond what’s available at wedding rental sites, says Kim Sayatovic of Belladeux Events. You can even use similar concepts to create vignettes throughout your wedding.

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    Check Out Instagram
    If you’re inclined to do some digital sifting, Instagram is one place to look. Sayatovic follows wedding designers and planners, as well as wedding photographers, to take a peek at trends in other markets. “This way you get to see real weddings rather than just styled shoots,” she says. Thumbtack Wedding Pro Renee Flores also turns to Instagram for creative inspiration, making use of hashtags, tagged photos, and Geotags for more focused browsing. It’s also a good idea to use the social media app to see images other couples have posted at your venue. You can see the space in action and scope out talented professionals who can help your vision come to life, Flores says.

    Watch Wedding Videos
    You can also get into the nitty gritty of real-life special events by viewing actual wedding videos online. Search by category like dress designer, venue, videographer, dramatic first looks, vows that make you cry, and so on, says Rachel Jo Silver of LoveStoriesTV.com. “There’s no better way to get a 360 view of hair, dress styles, florals, and décor,” she says.

    Look to Nature
    Of course, stepping away from your computer or smartphone will open your eyes to a whole new world of stirring sights. Sayatovic always suggests that her clients look to nature and the surrounding city. “Vines growing up the side of a building, a natural rock formation with multiple colored layers of rocks. The possibilities in nature are endless,” she says.

    The Pros and Cons of Having Your Wedding on Thanksgiving

    Pros and Cons of Thanksgiving Weddings

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    Have you ever been to a wedding on Thanksgiving weekend? Opinions are mixed as to whether having your wedding on the second biggest holiday weekend of the year is a good idea.

    Traditionally, Thanksgiving and Christmas are times reserved for family. And once you get married, your family grows. With that growth, your obligations expand. Many couples rotate whose family they spend the special holidays with each year. If they suddenly receive a wedding invitation a few months ahead of Thanksgiving, it can throw the balance of everything into a tailspin.

    The Pros of a Thanksgiving Wedding…

    1. If you’re having a destination wedding, and your guests are mostly family, you’ll be able to capitalize on the time spent together someplace awesome, and get married at the same time. You can stretch your wedding weekend into a four-day adventure with your favorite people.

    2. The size of an out-of-control guest list can be seriously reduced by inviting your friends to spend an important holiday away from their families. Some of your friends won’t even consider it. If you can’t afford a big wedding but don’t want to leave people off the guest list, a Thanksgiving weekend wedding is a great way to get a lot more people to decline the invite.

    3. Thanksgiving can be a fun theme to play with at your wedding! We had clients from Chicago who had a “Pie-Stravaganza” in lieu of a wedding cake at their Thanksgiving wedding. Yes, there was fabulous pumpkin pie on the menu, but there were also seven other flavors to choose from. And who doesn’t love pie?

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    The Cons of a Thanksgiving Wedding…

    1. Airfares are outrageous for Thanksgiving week. Easily as bad, if not worse, than Christmas and Spring Break. If a lot of your guests will have to travel to your wedding, you have to take that into consideration. Everybody knows Thanksgiving is one of the most heavily-travelled days of the year.

    2. Some guests you’d really like to have at your wedding will not be able to join you. They’ll already be committed with family, and unwilling to break their traditions. If it’s somebody coming from out-of-town, you’re virtually handing them an excuse to skip the expense of your wedding. Some must-attend invitees may think you’re being a bit selfish by taking away their Thanksgiving weekend. It’s a football lover’s nightmare.

    3. Wedding vendors have families too, so don’t look for big discounts even if you’re getting married someplace that is supposed to be in “off-season.” I’ve had to resort to out-and-out bribery to staff large weddings on Thanksgiving. Professionals will hide their personal displeasure, and provide the very best vendor services for your big day. But you’ll pay to have them servicing your wedding while their entire family is sitting at home enjoying turkey together.

    Sandy Malone is the owner of Sandy Malone Weddings & Events and author of How to Plan Your Own Destination Wedding: Do-It-Yourself Tips from an Experienced Professional. Sandy is the star of TLC’s reality show Wedding Island, about her destination wedding planning company, Weddings in Vieques.

    Real Brides Share: The Best Time to Depart on Your Honeymoon

    Best Time To Depart For Your Honeymoon

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    Can you imagine just a few decades ago it was the norm for brides and grooms to leave their wedding reception early and head straight for their honeymoon? Thankfully, that’s no longer what most couples do. In fact, many opt to head on their honeymoons days, weeks, or even months after they’ve said “I do.” Check out what these real brides believe was the best time to head on their post-wedding adventures.

    “My husband and I went to Italy. We got married on a Friday and flew out Sunday evening. I liked going the same weekend of our wedding so we could be in “celebration mode” and there’s something so special and traditional about going right after your wedding. Leaving on Sunday gave us just enough time to settle down from the whirlwind of getting married, spending a day having ear to ear smiles with my new husband, finish up laundry and pack before leaving for 2 weeks. Our flight was an overnight one, so we were super tired and jet lagged the first day but because we were both so excited to be in Italy for the first time we plowed through!” —Pam, Sept. 2015 Wedding

    “We got married in South Carolina which was a destination wedding for us from NJ, so we decided to do our honeymoon travels a few months later, in November. We also bought a house the December before our wedding, so we wanted to spread out the milestones. It was the best decision ever. We still had something to look forward to and a special time ahead. It also helped with the post- bridal blues, which I definitely had. We went to Tulum for a week and it was incredible” —Christine, May 2015 Wedding

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    “We are planning on taking a hint from our already-wed friends and doing a mini-moon directly after the wedding and then a honeymoon about 5 months after the wedding! We plan on doing an all inclusive in an easy-to-get-to destination for 3-4 days (maybe Bahamas?) followed by something a little more exotic for the real deal. Right now the front-runners are South Africa and Bali!” —Meredith, Fall 2018 Wedding

    “We left the Monday after our Saturday wedding. We wouldn’t change a thing. After all the planning and stress of a wedding, a tropical vacation is just what we needed. I used to joke that what I was really looking forward to was boarding that plane. The wedding was simply a formality!! Also, Aruba was PERFECT for a fall honeymoon.” —Jennifer, October 2010 Wedding

    “We left the Monday following a Saturday wedding and it worked out FANTASTIC! (Sans the unusual hurricane, of course. We asked some locals on where to buy provisions and walked back to the hotel with a case of Bud Lite, Doritos, and some candles. — We made the most of it!) In the end, we only would have wanted better weather, but you can’t really plan for that!” —Cara, October 2010 Wedding

    This $600,000 Wedding Dress Will Blow You Away

    Madina Shokirova Wedding Photos

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    Did you think Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s $2.8 million wedding was extravagant? Or that the Kim Kardashian of China’s (a.k.a. Angela baby a.k.a. Angela Yeung) nuptials were down right extreme? Well, you better take a seat because these over-the-top “I dos” just might make you swoon. The daughter of a famous Russian oil tycoon just tied the knot and, between the 900 wedding guests and the need-to-see-to-believe $600,000 wedding dress, this might just be one of the most lavish weddings we’ve ever seen…

    With an oil fortune that totes her last name, it was probably to be expected that the recent wedding of Madina Shokirova would border on the excessive. But this definitely takes the (wedding) cake… According to the Daily Mail, the nuptials took place at the luxurious Radisson Royal Congress Park hotel in Moscow, but the expensive wedding fun started even before the big day when the bride and her best gal pals (see photo below) headed to a resort in Spain for her bachelorette party — in a private jet, of course…

    Come the big day, Shokirova donned a wedding dress that has us sweating just looking at it. (Seriously, how much does that thing even weigh?!) The fabulous frock was designed for her by British fashion house Ralph & Russo and reportedly cost a whopping $600,000. Yes, really. What could’ve run up that bill so high, you ask? Well, blame the gown’s elaborate embroidery, three-dimensional organza petals, and hundreds upon hundreds of dainty pearls and glitzy Swarovski crystals. NBD. Super casual, right?

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    Also, we have a serious question: What on earth does one feed 900 (incredibly well-dressed) wedding guests? Answer: A 10-foot tall wedding cake, naturally. Shokirova and her sweetheart served up a big day dessert taller than a professional basketball player and required a fleet of strong servers to carry the thing. And if that wasn’t enough to impress their guests, they also dropped an estimated $477,000 on entertainment for the night.

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    You'd Never Believe That This Bright Palm Springs Wedding Was Planned From Across the World

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride and Groom Portrait

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    A few short months after Taylor Wolff moved from Los Angeles to Melbourne, Australia, she attended a local friend’s goodbye party, and spotted Adam Syarc. “I sat down next to him and we clicked immediately,” Taylor remembers. They had been dating for almost three and a half years when, overlooking Melbourne from Adam’s best friend’s parents’ rooftop, Adam spontaneously proposed. Says Taylor, “He didn’t even have a ring — he used his friend’s grandmother’s wedding band. It meant a lot because his friend’s grandparents had been married for 55 years.” A month later, Adam and his fiancée headed back to where they’d had their first date, and he presented Taylor with a beautiful ring he’d designed himself.

    Though the pair lives in Australia, the knew they wanted to have their wedding in America. Palm Springs was relatively accessible, and had a special place in Taylor’s heart: She grew up visiting her grandparents in the area. “We wanted somewhere our guests could join us for the weekend and really get to know one another as our worlds collided. We chose Smoke Tree Ranch because we could all stay on the property. It felt like adult summer camp!” Taylor describes. While planning a wedding from across an ocean was a challenge, a fantastic wedding planner, The Events Department, and a close family friend who served as a stylist helped Taylor and Adam create a desert chic wedding that was fun and family-focused. From towering cacti and Persian rugs to vibrant flowers and a few DIY projects tackled by Taylor’s maid of honor, this wedding was personal, stylish, and unique. Check out the photos by Claire Eliza!

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride and Bridesmaids Getting Ready
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride with Bridesmaids in Pale Purple Dresses
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride and Father First Look

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    Taylor and her ‘maids spent the morning of April 22, 2016, reminiscing and getting gussied up before the bride donned her Anne Barge wedding dress, striped with ribbon over a champagne-hued lining. Her bridesmaids chose grey Joanna August maxi dresses in a variety of styles.

    She and Adam chose to not see one another until the ceremony, so instead Taylor had an emotional first look with her father.

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Strapless Anne Barge Wedding Dress
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Groom Getting Ready with Geometric Socks
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bright Bouquet and Bride's RIngs

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    Taylor loved her gown’s Art Deco-vibe, and we’re obsessed with how it matched the graphic stripes on Adam’s socks! She finished her look with side-swept waves and a vibrant bouquet of anemones and peonies.

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Groom with Groomsmen in Black Tuxedos
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bridesmaids in Lavender Gowns
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Ring Bearers Walking Down the Aisle

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    Adam wanted a Rat Pack vibe for his groomsmen, so they all wore navy tuxedos with tailored white shirts. His nephews served as page boys, in suit shorts and bow ties, and carried signs down the aisle, leading Taylor to Adam once the ceremony was underway. “They talked about their jobs for months, and all weekend couldn’t wait to put their outfits on!” Taylor remembers.

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Ceremony Space with Rug Aisle

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    The ceremony took place in the middle of the road, with rugs serving as an aisle runner and umbrellas arranged to protect guests from the desert sun.

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Groom at Ceremony
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride and Parents Walking Down the Aisle
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    Photo: Claire Eliza

    The couple had a traditional ceremony, with Taylor’s parents escorting her down the aisle as she and Adam saw one another for the first time. While the weather had been calm all week, a crazy wind storm came through just a few minutes before the ceremony. “It could have caused a few freak outs, and we had to skip our table assignments or else they would have blown away, but it made for some beautiful pictures and funny moments,” says Taylor of the gust that caught her veil — so much so that Adam ended up wrapping the veil around him during the recessional so it wouldn’t carry his bride away!

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Portraits
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride and Groom Portraits

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    The desert backdrop was totally stunning, full of unique varieties of cacti that made for an incredible settings for portraits.

    Says Taylor, “Planning our wedding was so fun, even from afar! I loved doing the research and collaborate with our vendors, my mom, and our stylist. It also forced us to go with our gut, since we didn’t have the opportunity to go back and consider other options or ideas.”

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Wooden Reception Tabls
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Place Settings for Family-Style Dinner

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    At the outdoor reception, farm tables were surrounded with cross-back chairs. Instead of big centerpieces, the pair chose more simple garland arrangements — a choice that worked well for serving their family-style meal. Greenery and vines were accented with vibrant blooms, and wine was poured into delicate gold-rimmed glasses. “My mom sets a great table, so she was in charge of all the rentals,” says Taylor.

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    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Colorful Floral Centerpieces
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Colorful Centerpieces

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    At the bar, guests grabbed Aperol spritzes and California wines. For dinner, family-style trays of salmon and steak were passed around each table, and guests could dig into as much or as little as they’d like. “It really encouraged everyone to mingle and get to know each other better,” the bride says.

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Photo Booth Bus
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Lounge Area

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    We adore the couple’s photo booth, set up inside a vintage VW Bus and decorated with vintage-inspired props and baskets of flowers. Next to the dance floor, a lounge area of mid-century furniture encouraged guests to relax between the DJ’s sets.

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Bride and Groom First Dance
    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Reception Lighting

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    Adam and Taylor’s first dance was to “Let’s Stay Together” by Marvin Gaye before letting their DJ take over. “We had so much fun working with him. We had one song we wanted to play, where our guests would get on the ground and Adam and I would pop up and dance furiously. It was everything I’d envisioned!”

    Colorful Palm Springs Desert Destination Wedding, Doughnut

    Photo: Claire Eliza

    Instead of cake, the pair served a spread of donuts — including ones that spelled out “Taylor + Adam!” Flavors included funfetti, maple bacon, coconut, chocolate, and red velvet.

    “Don’t sweat the small stuff,” Taylor advises. “The imperfections are what create the best stories and memories, so focus on being in the moment and enjoying the best day of your life!”

    Venue & Catering: Smoke Tree Ranch || Wedding Planner: The Events Department || Bride’s Wedding Dress & Veil: Anne Barge || Hair & Makeup: Mobile Bridal Salon || Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Joanna August, from Bella Bridesmaids || Groom’s & Groomsmen’s Attire: The Black Tux || Floral Design & Invitations: The Design Hunters || Music: DJ Zephyr || Cake: Over the Rainbow Desserts || Rentals: Signature Party Rentals || Videographer: Anchor Pictures || Photographer: Claire Eliza

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    The Top Wedding Registry Etiquette Questions, Asked and Answered

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    Wedding registries are incredibly useful — not to mention fun to set up (hello, scanner gun and visions of your tricked-out home!) — but can also be a source of confusion. Do you have to have one? What can you put on it? How do you tell your guests about it? So we’ve rounded up the top five wedding registry etiquette questions, and turned to the experts for the answers.

    Do We Need to Have a Wedding Registry?
    While you might think you can skip a registry (especially if you’ve been living together for a while and already have the bases covered), putting one together is actually a useful tool for your guests. By taking the time to pick out items you’d love to have, from an upgraded set of dishes to the kitchen appliance of your dreams, you’re making it easier for your guests to pick out a gift. Sure, there’s always cash, but giving them some guidance will help them give you a gift that’s more personal. And remember, there’s always a honeymoon registry if you’d rather they help pay for the trip of a lifetime!

    When Do We Need to Set Up Our Registry?
    It sounds early, but you should start thinking about your wedding registry as soon as you’ve got an engagement party on your calendar. Sure, most guests will bring a card or a bottle of wine and gifts aren’t required, but some guests (particularly older relatives) will want to get you a gift to celebrate your engagement, as well as one for your wedding. If that’s too tight of a timeline, make sure your registry is nearly complete by the time you’ve sent out any information regarding your wedding website, so early shoppers know where to look. The hard-and-fast deadline is your bridal shower, as that’s traditionally the first time guests will be giving you gifts purchased directly from your registry.

    Can We Register for Our Honeymoon?
    Yes! Honeymoon registries (as well as cash funds and those designed for things like down payment or home improvement funds) are incredibly popular, and the websites make it easy for guests to give you gifts that really feel like a contribution to something you’ll enjoy. It also makes gifting cash much more seamless — no more worrying about envelopes with checks inside “walking away” during your reception! Of course, you should also consider a traditional registry, even if it’s a very pared-down selection, for guests that might prefer to purchase a physical gift.

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    How Much Should Our Wedding Gifts Cost?
    When you’re putting together your registry, aim to select items in a variety of price points that will appeal to all of your guests, no matter their age or employment status. But that doesn’t mean you need to opt for the cheaper versions of every item: Instead, look to smaller gifts (say, magnetic measuring spoons that will stick together in your drawer or a set of sturdy silicone spatulas) that are under $25 a piece. Guests can opt to purchase a few gifts to reach a total price they’re comfortable with, add them to a more expensive gift, or pick up a single item and still feel like they’re getting you something of quality.

    How Do We Tell Guests About Our Registry?
    First things first: your wedding registry information should not be printed on your wedding invitation. Instead, include the information on your wedding website, then either print the URL on your invitation or include it on an invitation insert. (Bonus: You can also use this card to direct your guests to your room block information, as well!) If you’ve registered at national brands, let your parents and wedding party know where, so they can answer any questions they might get from your family members or other guests. The one exception to printing registry information on an invitation? The invitation to your bridal shower. Since this event is traditionally an opportunity for guests to help you set up your home, it’s perfectly acceptable for your bridal shower invite to read “Susan is registered at…”.

    Jordan Rodgers Just Wished JoJo Fletcher a Happy Birthday in the Sweetest Way

    Jordan Rodgers Wishes JoJo Fletcher a Happy Birthday

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    We wonder what JoJo Fletcher wished for when she blew out those birthday candles… After all, she already has a megawatt engagement ring and a fantastic fiancé in Jordan Rodgers. What more could a former Bachelorette want? Fletcher turned 26 on Tuesday and her almost-hubby marked the day with a super sweet Instagram that celebrated the beautiful birthday girl.

    They might have spent the fall fighting backup rumors, but this Bachelorette pair are still head-over-heels in-love and busy planning their wedding. “We’re trying to figure out where it’s going to be,” Rodgers previously shared with E! News. “We have family in California, family in Dallas…” he explained. But the couple took time out from venue shopping to celebrate the bride-to-be’s birthday, with Rodgers posting a collage of cute couple-y photos of himself and Fletcher to his social media page.

    “HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my mullet wig wearing, ice cream cone munching, snap chat filter goofing, nighttime mask FaceTime sesh screen shot’ing, power ranger costume partying, morning hike crushing, nacho mountain loving, ocean view sunbathing, best friend couldn’t live without her best thing that ever happened to me love of my life,” he captioned the slew of snapshots that including photos of Rodgers and Fletcher cuddling, enjoying some ice cream together, and dressed up in some seriously adorable couples costumes. “You deserve the world and I’m going to keep trying to give you all of it! The first of many birthdays to honor (and tease) the unbelievable human being you are.” UGH, we can’t even…

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    The birthday girl later commented the perfect post, writing “This. You. I love you so very very much!” You’re reading our mind, Fletcher!

    This is Fletcher’s first birthday that she’s celebrated with her fiancé, and since The Bachelorette finale aired, the pair has been simply enjoying their #engaged status, according to Fletcher. “We’re just enjoying being together right now,” she previously said.

    Here’s to many more birthdays shared between these two cuties!