A ballooning guest list is a challenge nearly every couple deals with during the wedding planning process. Some opt to seek out a venue with a larger capacity, while others get serious about who does and doesn’t make the cut (buh-bye, plus-ones!). Whatever you choose, making sure your headcount fits in your venue is important for both your guests’ comfort and their safety — going over the maximum capacity can be a fire hazard, and at a minimum could get your event shut down by the fire marshall. So what happens if that magical 15-20% wedding guest decline rate is a myth, and nearly all of your wedding guests are planning to attend? Our experts have a few tips.

First things first: As you’re making your guest list (before you send out invitations!), begin to guess which guests will and won’t attend. You may know most of your college friends will make the trip, but what about your great-uncle? Marking down whether you anticipate a “yes” or “no” reply will help give you an idea of how many guests to expect so you can feel more confident in choosing your venue — or know if you need to move some guests to the B-list.

As RSVPs come in, if you see that “yes” number creeping higher and higher, get in touch with your venue. Can you change your space rental from a half ballroom to a full ballroom, or open up the doors to put some of the dinner tables on the porch? What about having dinner in one room and dancing in another? Figure out if there is a way to be flexible with seating so your guests will all fit. If the space simply doesn’t get any bigger, but you’re still below the maximum capacity, you could also have all the dinner tables set up and then move or break-down a few tables to create a dance floor later in the evening. Have you blown past your venue’s maximum capacity? Unless there’s a creative alternative to fit everyone, you’re stuck finding a new venue, as most won’t try to be flexible — their liability and insurance is at stake!

If your guest list still fits comfortably, but the issue is budget, talk to your vendors about how to stretch things a little further. Would serving a buffet instead of a plated dinner cut the costs? What about offering less-expensive hors d’oeuvres or swapping the open bar for beer and wine only? And when it comes to flowers, ask your florist which blooms will keep your total down, as well as which décor items you can skip or reuse in multiple locations throughout the night. Get creative with ways to stretch your dollar, then smile because so many people want to celebrate with you!

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Brazil’s women’s rugby sevens team may have only won ninth overall during Monday night’s tournament in the 2016 Summer Olympics, but this sweet, spontaneous moment between a Brazilian player and her girlfriend just won the gold for the cutest moment in all of the Rio de Janeiro Olympics! After the winners of the rugby competition were announced, Brazil’s Isadora Cerullo became the first player to get engaged at the Olympics, when her sweetheart unexpectedly popped the question right there on the field.

When USA-bred Isadora Cerullo was offered a spot on Brazilian rugby team — which meant an opportunity to play at the 2016 Olympic games — she jumped at the chance. And her girlfriend of two years, Marjorie Enya, jumped right along with her. The pair moved to São Paulo together and Cerullo has been training ever since. And while her team ultimately didn’t win, love sure did.

After the medal ceremony following Australia’s rugby victory, Enya — who was working as a manager at Deodoro Stadium — appeared on the field where she performed an emotional speech for her bride-to-be and all of the onlookers, before popping the question. Cerullo said yes (duh!) and Enya tied a yellow ribbon — a placeholder for a ring — around her finger and, as if a winning goal was just scored, the crowd went wild.

“As soon as I knew she was in the squad I thought I have to make this special,” Enya told the BBC. “I know rugby people are amazing and they would embrace it.” And embrace it they did! Some bystanders even set the stage by holding up heart-shaped balloons.

“She is the love of my life,” Enya continued. “The Olympic Games can look like closure but for me it’s starting a new life with someone.”

“I wanted to show people that love wins,” she said. Heck, it won the gold!

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After months and months of waiting, The Bachelor‘s Lauren Bushnell and Ben Higgins finally revealed some details about their upcoming wedding.

Bushnell recently revealed that they are just starting the wedding planning process now. “We haven’t set a date,” Bushnell told Us Weekly. “We definitely started talking about it more, and I think we both agreed that August we actually want to sit down and start planning, so that includes setting a date, that includes the place. We have been throwing around some locations, and I think we’ve narrowed it down to the area that we want to get married. We’re thinking 2017.”

Though she may not know what her wedding dress will look like or where they’ll exchange vows, Bushnell did say that the couple is hoping to have their wedding filmed, but she didn’t specify whether or not fans can expect a television special about the wedding.

“Hopefully we’ll have cameras there, so it could, kind of, not only document the fun aspects of it for us later in life, cause we’re gonna watch it back, but also for our fans and for Bachelor nation.”

We have trouble believing that Bushnell and Higgins’ nuptials won’t end up on television, especially since they are currently being followed by cameras as we speak. The couple has been recently filming Ben and Lauren: Happily Ever After, a show focused on their life post-The Bachelor. The camera crew even followed the couple as they went on a double date last week with new Bachelorette couple JoJo Fletcher and Jordan Rodgers, which is something we can’t wait to see when the show airs on Freeform in October.

As for life in between filming television shows and walking down the aisle, Bushnell told Us Weekly that she enjoys doing little romantic gestures for Higgins to keep the spark alive.

“I’ve been getting up extra early and making him breakfast,” she told the magazine. “I can tell that he really appreciates it, so getting up early, I’ll have the coffee made, I put his mug out and I make him breakfast in the morning, and I’m not a morning person so that’s, like, a big step for me.”

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Great night filled with lots of love ????

A photo posted by Lauren Bushnell (@lauren_bushnell) on Aug 2, 2016 at 7:03am PDT

Date night with the hubs/fianc??. ????

A photo posted by Lauren Bushnell (@lauren_bushnell) on Jul 21, 2016 at 6:38pm PDT

June Ambrose took Jay Z from T-shirts to Tom Ford. In between outfitting celebs and designing her own clothing line for HSN, June by June Ambrose, she shared her bridal style tips.

Dress For Your Body
For athletic types, a strapless or one-shouldered gown tones down broad shoulders. I love a mermaid silhouette for pear shapes; celebrate your curves! And my go-to for girls shaped like boys is a feminine A-line skirt with a sweetheart neckline.

Ditch the Trends
If you’re investing in a dress, be sure it’s one you could see yourself handing down to your daughter.

Think Seasonally
Spring or summer brides should look for pretty fabrics like chiffon and lace; for fall or winter, a beaded gown with a fur throw is dashing.

Veils Add Drama
There’s something so ceremonious about a veil. If you’re having a big wedding, go for it in a dramatic Sound of Music way, even if the dress is simple. If you’re getting married at city hall, skip it. Don’t forget the shapewear. It’s important to wear something underneath your dress that defines the body and holds everything in place. Va Bien is a favorite of mine — effective and luxurious.

Splurge on Shoes
Sure, people might not see them, but if they’re cheap and painful, your whole day could be ruined, right?

And Break Them in Early
Walk around the house with them on over damp sport socks; it loosens the leather without ruining the shoe.

Pack the Essentials
Five things every bride should have in her clutch: blotting paper, double-sided tape, breath mints, lip balm, and an elastic hair tie for the after-party.

Keep Makeup Natural
A beautiful eye and a fleshy lip are perfect. You want your fiancé to recognize you when you walk down the aisle!

Elevate Your Groom’s Style
Invest in a well-tailored tux or, at the very least, a beautiful shirt, bow tie, or pocket square. High-quality basics make everything else look richer.

Practice Posing
If you hate the hand-on-hip “skinny arm” pose, place your fingertips on your thighs and slightly bend your elbows to create space between the arms and the torso. You’ll look instantly leaner.

Channel a Celeb
The Inbal Dror bridal gown Beyonce wore to the 2016 Grammy Awards was quite provocative, with its long sleeves and thigh-high slits. That’s how a bride should feel when she walks down the aisle: timeless and sexy. –As told to Claire Coghlan

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As women, our bodies go through a multitude of changes while pregnant — whether that means gaining 30 pounds, struggling through aches and pains all day long, or even having the urge to, erm, use the bathroom a lot more frequently. But even with all of these rather uncomfortable changes, Peta Murgatroyd has chosen to embrace her beautifully curvaceous pregnant body, as evident on her body-positive Instagram page. And let’s just say, the girl SLAYS.

In a rather revealing/hilarious Instagram pic (see below), the Dancing With the Stars alum, who’s expecting baby number one with DWTS co-star Maxim Chmerkovskiy, showcased the rather voluptuous side effects of being preggo: BOOBIES! She wrote, “Hi boobs [wide-eye emojis]. My lawd this milk thing is no joke #DoubleDs.” We’re pretty certain her hubby-to-be doesn’t have any objections to that! Murgatroyd has also been showing off her insanely cute baby bump for her Instagram followers, whether it be by baring that bump-ity cuteness in a tight crop top or in a more comfy, loose-fitting dress.

After pregnancy rumors surrounding Murgatroyd and Chmerkovskiy were swirling around the Internet for about a month back in June, the couple excitedly announced the addition of a new (and dare we say future DWTS) family member. But it wasn’t easy for Murgatroyd the first few months of pregnancy. She revealed to People, “I was so sick.” Despite her morning sickness though, the Australian dancer seemed more than excited to welcome a new baby into the world. “I’m looking forward to nurturing something and just having the baby be the center of our world,” she told People. “I’m looking forward to putting all our energy into this beautiful soul.”

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And as for the wedding? With a due date for January of 2017, the couple is rumored to be in the throes of planning a July wedding next year, at least according to ET Online. We hope little #babychmerkovskiy makes an appearance at their nuptials!

Hi boobs ???????????? My lawd this milk thing is no joke ???? #DoubleDs

A photo posted by Peta Murgatroyd (@petamurgatroyd) on Aug 6, 2016 at 12:58pm PDT

Taking #babychmerkovskiy to lunch and open homes ?????? styled by @nicolevolynets ????

A photo posted by Peta Murgatroyd (@petamurgatroyd) on Aug 7, 2016 at 2:51pm PDT

My first time in Chi-town at nearly 18 weeks! This outfit is so comfortable, and I love how it really shows my bump ???? it's easy to throw together and the long jacket hides my expanding rear ???? Styled by @nicolevolynets ???? #embracethebooty

A photo posted by Peta Murgatroyd (@petamurgatroyd) on Jul 29, 2016 at 1:18pm PDT

We couldn't be happier ?????? Baby Chmerkovskiy is coming ??????

A photo posted by Peta Murgatroyd (@petamurgatroyd) on Jun 29, 2016 at 7:50am PDT

Planning a wedding is all about making decisions: Should we through a causal backyard bash or black-tie ballroom affair? Plated dinner or a free-for-all buffet? Fondant cake or macaroon tower? Mini-moon now or honeymoon later? But one of the biggest decisions you may make is whether to change your last name — and when that question is posed to same-sex couples, our expert says, the options can seem endless.

“Same sex couples are the creative pioneers of modern marriage, for all of us,” says Mark O’Connell, New York City-based psychotherapist and author of Modern Brides & Modern Grooms: A Guide to Planning Straight, Gay, and Other Nontraditional Twenty-First-Century Weddings. “That lack of formal same-sex marriage traditions means that our options are wide open. And that goes for the surnames we choose to use, too.”

After all, O’Connell points out, there’s not exactly a name-change tradition that’s been set for hundreds of years, as there has been for heterosexual couples, that guides same-sex couples one way or another. “The lack of precedential standards for marriages like ours means that there are no tradition police to tell us whose name to take,” he says.

Of course, one obvious option is for both of you to keep both of you respective surnames. “Most modern couples today, gay or straight, value equality and mutual recognition between partners,” O’Connell explains. “And the many same-sex couples who choose to keep their own surnames post-wedding, are great symbols of this gender neutral equality within marriage. Many straight couples are following this example, too.”

See More: How to Find the Right Officiant For Your Same-Sex Marriage

But as stated above, that’s hardly your only choice. Together, you could decide to take one partner’s surname as your own. “Some couples prefer to have one last name for the sake of coherence and for recognition by the rest of the world,” O’Connell says. Be prepared for roadblocks if you take this route, O’Connell warns, as you will need to seek court approval to change your given name.

“Currently the only case in which a spouse can take her spouse’s surname without a lot of complicated paperwork is when a woman takes her husband’s last name,” he says. “Every other case — including straight grooms taking the surname of their straight brides — involves court approval, and lots of legal paperwork depending on the state in which you live.”

Lastly, you could consider creating a new last name that you both take as your own, and that, should you choose to have them, your children could one day share too. This works, too, if you’re intent on keeping a professional name but want a new name for legal and personal matters, O’Connell says.

You might even consider creating a new last name that both you, your spouse, and your children share. Both spouses might consider keeping their professional names exactly as they are and creating a new name for all legal/ personal matters. This could also help to protect privacy for their family, if one or both of the spouses has very public careers.

Some brides get lucky and choose a wedding venue that provides onsite catering. Other brides need to add caterers to the vendor list — and the hunt can get tricky. From picking a company before trying their food to making sure the service is top notch, the caterer can be the most overwhelming hire on your wedding to-do list. And it should be — food and drink will most likely be the largest portion of your wedding budget. So if you’re struggling to figure out exactly how to feed your guests, consider these tips for finding a wedding caterer that’s right for you.

1. Figure out your budget before you even begin.
Don’t email caterers until you know what you’re willing to spend. Coming up with a food and drink budget early not only helps you figure out which companies you can afford to hire, it also allows those companies to cater — pun intended — their proposal to your needs. A budget allows a caterer to realistically pull together options — seated, family-style, or buffet — within your means. That means no reviewing mouthwatering menu items you’ll wish you could break the piggy bank out for!

2. Ask your venue for suggestions and requirements.
Most venues will have a list of preferred vendors, which is a great starting point in your search. It’s comforting to know that the caterers have worked at the venue before and have lived up to their high standards. But that doesn’t mean you have to go with a preferred vendor. If none of the caterers on their list feel right, ask your venue if they have requirements for other caterers. Many venues will want approval of the caterer, and may also require proof of various certificates or licenses that they need to perform their services on the property. You’ll want to know what these are as you interview companies.

3. Get multiple proposals.
Get multiple proposals from companies so you can compare and contrast the cost, service, and menu options. And ask for specifics! It’s your job to tell the caterer how many guests your are expecting and what style affair you’re having, but it’s their job to propose the number of appetizers, courses, waiters, bartenders, coordinators, and chefs. This headcount is important when you’re comparing proposals — you don’t want anyone stuck waiting 15 minutes for a drink! Another thing to keep in mind when reviewing proposals: Alcohol. Review the cost of alcohol to decide if you should get your bar supplies elsewhere. Many catering companies also allow you to buy the alcohol separately, and still provide a bartender. Keep in mind, in certain states you may be required to by a temporary liquor license if you go this route.

4. Ask about linens and dinnerware.
If your venue doesn’t provide tables, chairs, linens, or dinnerware, find out if the caterers do. Most do, or partner with a rental company that does. While this may be an extra fee, coordinating these essential rentals through one company will be a lot easier than balancing two or three companies to set your tables.

5. Pay attention to their communication.
How the food tastes is a key component to any catering company, but how they treat their clients is even more telling. If a company is slow to get back to you, gets details like your names, your wedding date, or the number of guests wrong in their proposal, or is bad at getting back to you with questions, consider crossing them off your list. Attention to detail will be a key factor on your wedding day, and if they can’t impress you now, they won’t impress you then.

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6. Arrange for tastings with your top 3 choices.
Here’s where things get tricky! A lot of catering companies do not provide tastings until you’ve signed the dotted line — but what if you’ve never had their food?! There are a few ways to get around this rule. First, see if the company attends expos or holds special events. Oftentimes, caterers host dinners or serve food at bridal expos to drum up business. Get the catering companies schedule of events and see what you can attend. Trust us, it’s worth the attendance fee. Some caterers even host a monthly free, or low-cost dinner for prospective clients, find out if yours does. If your caterer doesn’t hold events, offer to pay a small fee for a mini tasting. A reasonable price would be $40-$50 per person to try 3-5 dishes (keep in mind, that money goes towards buying and prepping that food!). If the caterer still insists on being hired before a tasting, and you really love their menu, include a clause in the contract that allows you to dissolve the agreement if the tasting doesn’t meet your standards — and schedule that tasting early! Just keep in mind you may lose your deposit.

7. Read reviews.
So you’ve picked a caterer and want to sign the dotted line. Great! Before you do, read reviews from previous clients or talk to friends and family who have used their services before. Quality of the wait staff, attention to detail, and making sure the bride and groom are fed are details that can make or break a wedding — and you wouldn’t know how they stack up without the experience of other brides and grooms.

8. Sign the contract and choose your menu.
Sign the contract after creating a finalized proposal, which outlines the total cost of your food and drink, including the menu, the catering staff, linens and party rentals, and any additional fees. Set up a time for a tasting of your full menu. Pro tip: If you changed your mind about a menu item, replace it before your actual tasting. You should be trying all of the food you expect to see at the wedding then and may not have another chance to try swaps after your final tasting.

And the rest is easy: Bon appetite!

Since each zodiac sign has its own unique set of characteristics and quirks, it’s helpful to have a guide for what to expect when dating someone. The more information you have, even if it’s from the stars, the better.

Which sign will make you laugh your ass off and which will never return your texts? Here are the pros and cons of dating each sign.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Pros: Aries are up for any adventure and are very fun. Their energy is contagious and the chemistry between you is AMAZING.
Cons: They can be way too hard on themselves and will shut you out during those times. They’re notorious for not returning emails, calls and texts.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Pros: Taureans are very loveable and will make you feel safe and protected. There’s a good chance they can cook like nobody’s business, but even if they can’t, they know how to make mac and cheese like a boss.
Cons: They can get stuck sometimes and not want to do anything. If you’re someone who doesn’t do well with stubborn people, you may want to stay away from a Taurus; their stubbornness is legendary.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Pros: You’ll never get bored dating a Gemini. They’re super-smart, are great talkers and they’ll always put your needs and feelings first.
Cons: Because Geminis are so intelligent, they can be know-it-alls and unintentionally make you feel intellectually inferior. They also have a habit of overthinking things and getting upset for the wrong reasons.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Pros: Cancers will treat you right and you can trust them with anything. Tell them all your secrets, it’s OK. Cancers are always the sign that excels at commitment.
Cons: Can you say mood swings? One minute they couldn’t be happier and the next they’re in a dark place. And forget about trying to get them to tell you what’s wrong. Defensiveness, thy name is Cancer.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Pros: There are so many fantastic things about Leos: their humor, their ability to make things exciting and fun, and how they’re super-hot. You’ll make the best memories with a Leo.
Cons: Leos aren’t known for their sensitivity regarding other people’s feelings, and without meaning to they can be kind of a jerk. When they hurt, good luck trying to get them to take responsibility for it.

See More: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving a Capricorn (As Written By One)

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Pros: Virgos can be the sweetest people ever and will always consider your feelings. They’re adorable in the way they can be so serious and grown up. They’re reliable and will never you stand up or make you find your own way home.
Cons: They can tend to be overly sensitive and doubt your sincerity when you try to help them to feel better about themselves.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Pros: Libras are the best kissers in the zodiac and you know the stars don’t lie. They’re also excellent flirts and will make you feel attractive and vibrant.
Cons: They hate conflict, so rather than break up with you face-to-face, they’ll just ghost you and you’ll never know what set them off. Libras will sometimes tease you well past the time it gets annoying.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Pros: When you connect with a Scorpio it’s usually at a very deep level and everything is intense — that includes sexually and emotionally. Like everything with a Scorpio, dating is done with passion.
Cons: Intensity: it’s both a pro and a con. Scorpios can get so intense and serious that it can be overwhelming and a little scary. Sometimes a hook-up is just that and isn’t meant to be a huge, melodramatic deal.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Pros: Sagittarians are really fun, funny, and upbeat. They’re a good time in the form of a star sign. They’re totally up for new experiences and they love connecting with new people mentally.
Cons: They’re stimulated by new things, so it can be challenging to get them to settle down and commit. They give off a lot of mixed signals, so good luck knowing where you stand.

See More: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving a Libra (As Written By A Libra)

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Pros: You don’t have to worry about a Capricorn being faithful to you, for they’re completely trustworthy and loyal. They won’t wait for holidays or your birthday to make you feel special, and will be forever giving you flowers and gifts for no occasion whatsoever.
Cons: They can be really controlling and you may feel stifled. Capricorns can be manipulative without even being aware of it.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Pros: An Aquarius will surprise you with their constant stream of unique thoughts. They’re always up for trying new things, whether it’s a new restaurant or club. When you’re seeing an Aquarius, you’ll always feel comfortable and at ease. You can be your true self with an Aquarius.
Cons: Sometimes Aquarians are too much in their head and very little in their heart; emotions can be a little troublesome for them. They can also get weirdly aggressive if they’re not the person in charge in a situation.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pros: Pisces will completely understand you and your sensitivity. They’ll make you laugh until you pee, and will not only be your bae but your best friend as well.
Cons: They can be ultra sensitive, becoming closed up without explaining what you did or said to make them so hurt and angry. There could be major miscommunication issues.

See More: Who You Have The BEST Sex With, According To Your Zodiac Sign

This article originally appeared on YourTango.

It’s a little-known fact that the City of Brotherly Love is referred to as America’s Garden Capital, but it’s no surprise that so many brides-to-be choose to get hitched in a lush garden wedding venue. For brides who want to be surrounded by beautiful flowers and vibrant greenery when they say “I do,” these outdoor venues in Philadelphia won’t disappoint.

Awbury Arboretum (Above)
A secret garden, wildflower meadows, towering trees, and wondrous wetlands make this tranquil 55-acre arboretum in Germantown perfectly picturesque. The venue can hold weddings of up to 200 guests and gives access to the Francis Cope House’s foyer, three parlors, and front lawns. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Philadelphia’s Magic Garden
Philly brides-to-be looking for a really unique (and a little bit funky!) venue will fall in love with this whimsical haven. Intimate weddings can unfold in the outdoor labyrinth, which is completely decked out in glittering mosaic tiles in different eye-catching colors. Think of all the beautiful photo ops for you and your new spouse! Read real brides’ reviews here!

Morris Arboretum
With its fragrant magnolia trees, blooming roses, glimmering fountains, and lushly landscaped grounds, the sprawling 92-acre Morris Arboretum of the University of Pennsylvania is the perfect plush space for an alfresco summer wedding. Exchange vows in one of its romantic gardens and toast your nuptials in the Victorian Carriage House. Read real brides’ reviews here!

See More: Complement Your Outdoor “I Do” Locale with Beautiful Blooms from Philly’s Top Florists

Bartram’s Garden
If you’ve always dreamed of tying the knot at a National Historic Landmark, Bartram’s Garden is the venue for you. Distinguishing features of the 45-acre space include the Common Flower Garden where ceremonies take place, the Bartram Barn (the oldest barn in Philly!) where guests can mingle over cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, and the beautiful Coach House that’s perfect for a reception. Read real brides’ reviews here!

Physick House and Garden
Rich with history, this beautiful brick house built in 1786 (the last freestanding Federal townhouse in Society Hill) is where Dr. Philip Syng Physick treated elite patients like Dolley Madison and President Andrew Jackson. Parties in the house’s dream-like garden accommodate up to 100 guests for dinner — and dancing under the stars.

More of an indoor girl? These other beautiful Philadelphia venues are definitely worth a look.